Do You Have What it Takes to be a Good Cuckold?

Cuckolding is a wonderful fantasy, but it can be difficult to turn into a reality, in large part because it’s often challenging to blend the desires of three people into a cohesive whole that provides everyone with what they need.

The transition from fantasy to reality can be made easier if the cuckold accepts his place in the hierarchy and embraces the idea that his wife’s pleasure should be his utmost concern. He should, above all else, consider her needs. If he learns to do that he’ll find that his cuckolding can be everything he ever dreamed of and more.

Every hotwife (or cuckoldress, if you prefer), is different, but you’ll likely find that her needs will shift as time goes by and that what she wanted when your cuckolding began might very well be different a few months into it.

Are you the kind of cuckold that can adapt to those changes? Can you be good for your wife? Can you put her needs above yours and ensure that all her desires are met? Just how far would you be willing to go?

Below you’ll find just some of what your wife might require of you when she gets more comfortable cuckolding you.

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Picking a Bull for Her

A beautiful hotwife in red satin lingerie.Your wife is certainly capable of picking a bull all on her own, but she might find it much easier to assign that task to her cuckold husband. You want to see her have sex with other men, but are you willing to do the work to make that happen?

You’ll likely spend some time chatting with guys on an app. You’ll have to weed out the countless number of losers. You’ll have to talk to them about fucking your wife, about how to satisfy her, about how you’re not quite capable of doing so. You might very well find that arousing, but there’s a world in which that’s horribly humiliating for you.

You might have to check the cock sizes of these men. Can you imagine having to look at so many dicks, even if it’s just in picture form? Sometimes you have to sacrifice to be a good cuckold, though. Surely you’re willing to make that sacrifice for your wife’s benefit, aren’t you?

Pay for a Hotel Room for Her to Fuck Someone Else In

There’s nothing quite like hotel sex, is there? It’s like all of life’s responsibilities have disappeared and all you need to do is fuck. Your wife probably feels the same way, only in this instance, it’s not you she’ll be having hotel sex with.

As a good cuckold, you might need to pay for hotel rooms for your wife and another man to fuck in. You won’t always be invited to watch. You might be made to stay at home while she spends her night enjoying another man’s cock.

In an even more difficult scenario, you might be called to go to the hotel, to check her in, to dress her in the lingerie she’s going to wear for her bull, to prep her pussy with your tongue. Then she’ll kick you out. You’ve done all the work and paid for the room and you don’t get to benefit at all.

You’re a good cuck, though, so you’ll make the sacrifice. You’ll empty your wallet – you’ll have bought the lingerie, too – and then you’ll go home while another man fucks your wife in a beautiful hotel room that you paid for.

Paying for Dates with Another Man

Some bulls won’t be interested in this. Others, though, will find it thrilling to know that you’re paying for your wife to date someone else. You’re paying for the expensive food they ate. You’re paying for the Uber they take to the restaurant. As mentioned above, you’re paying for the hotel room they go to afterwards to have sex.

If her bull is into it, you can expect that he’ll want to take your wife to expensive places. I mean, it’s on your dime, so why wouldn’t he? Don’t complain about it. Be a good cuckold and offer your credit card so your wife and her bull can eat at expensive restaurants, go to theater shows, or anything else they choose to do on a date.

Understand that being a good cuckold means that you don’t always get a pay off. You may pay for the date and the hotel room and you may not even get to orgasm. Instead, you get the pleasure of knowing that your wife had a spectacularly good night with another man.

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Watching Her Fuck Another Man

Now, this one will be a reward for most cuckolds, so don’t fret too much. However, watching is not always done in the way you want it to be done.

Your wife might not let you masturbate while you watch and in reality, it’s her choice. If you masturbate when she tells you not to, you’ll simply be banned from watching in the future.

She might want you to watch from such a close angle that you’re not especially excited. If you’re so close that you can smell his balls or feel her pussy juice dripping on your face, you might not like that. If you’re so close that his big dick brushes against your forehead while he’s fucking her, you really might not like that.

Don’t worry, though. You’ll probably love watching and you’ll come to find it a remarkable reward for being a good cuckold.

Being Banned from Watching

Now this is where it can get truly difficult to be a good cuckold. What if you’ve gotten used to watching? What if it’s become your favorite thing? What if your wife lets you watch and then jerks you off using her bull’s load as lubrication when the sex is over?

Well, she might very well ban you. She might find it pleasurable to deny you what you want. More likely, though, is that she’ll want alone time with her bull. She’ll want to connect with him. She’ll want her cuckold to be out of sight and out of might while she’s engaging in the most intimate act two people can share.

As a good cuckold, it will be your job to step away and let your wife and her bull have the time they need together. If you’re lucky, you’ll be permitted to listen outside the door. If you are, make sure you show your gratitude to both of them because there’s great pleasure in listening to them have blissful sex.

Doing Chores for Her Bull

Your wife and her bull might find it enormously exciting to make you do chores for him while they’re fucking. It might make her pussy wet. It might make his dick hard. You might find it thrilling, too. After all, what’s more humiliating than doing chores for another man while he’s fucking your wife?

As a good cuckold, you’ll do those chores. You’ll do them without hesitation. You’ll wash his car, do his laundry, cook for him (or both of them), clean his house, or whatever else he wants. You’ll bask in the humiliation of it, especially if you can hear the sounds of them fucking while you’re doing his chores.

Buying Lingerie for Her

A beautiful hotwife in bed in the lingerie her husband bought for her.

Your wife wants to look beautiful for her bull. She wants to look sexy. Irresistible, even. Lingerie is a great way of accomplishing that.

As a good cuckold, you should be willing to buy her that lingerie. You should be willing to go shopping with her. To watch her try on lingerie. To give opinions on what her bull would like best.

If you want to be the best cuckold, you should ask her bull what sort of lingerie he likes most of all. You can’t count on him liking the same sort of stuff you do, after all, so be curious. Inquire as to his desires. Forget about what you like best and help your wife pick out what he’d like best. That’s what a good cuck would do. Make sure you spare no expense, either, because it’s worth any amount of money to make your wife and her bull happy.

Experiencing Ruined Orgasms

It’s only a small percentage of hotwives that get into ruined orgasms, but if your hotwife does, you can expect to experience them with some frequency and it’s your duty as a good cuckold to holster any complaints you might have.

If you’re not familiar, a ruined orgasm is essentially an orgasm minus the typical pleasure you feel. Mastering the art of giving one takes quite a bit of time, but once it happens your wife can effectively empty your balls without ever giving you the full pleasure of a sexual release. It’s hugely frustrating and for the right kind of woman that frustration brings about quite a bit of pleasure.

In your case, it might be that she finds extra pleasure in knowing that her bull gets to experience that full release inside her pussy while you get a ruined orgasm via her hand, which comes nowhere near the pleasure that the sexually superior man in her life gets to enjoy. A good cuckold must suffer the indignity of ruined orgasms, though.

Getting Kicked Out of the Master Bedroom

A view from outside the bedroom of a woman in lingerie in bed.

The most common version of this happens when your wife invites her bull to spend the night in your home. He’s certainly not going to sleep in the guest bedroom. That’s for you, cuck, which means you’ve effectively been kicked out of the master bedroom for the night in favor of the man that has become her primary sexual partner.

It will be exciting when it happens, but you’ll experience a wealth of angst, too, as another man will literally be sleeping in your spot in the bed you share with your wife. He’ll be fucking her in your bed, too, and he’ll likely be giving her better orgasms that the ones you’ve provided in recent years.

The fear, of course, is that you’ll be permanently replaced in the master bedroom. That happens from time to time – cuckolding is not without risk – but in all likelihood it won’t happen with you. Just make sure that you remain a good cuckold and your wife will have no reason to remove you permanently from her life.

Consuming Your Own Cum

If your wife develops a dominant side, she may come to find it deeply pleasurable to watch her cuckold consume his cum. She may order you to do so as a means of getting you back into a submissive mindset after you’ve been allowed to orgasm. She might also do it simply because it delights her. It might delight her bull, too, in which case you might find that you’re ordered to do it with great frequency.

A good cuckold has no problem eating his own cum. He does so without hesitation because he knows it’s his duty to be good for his wife and her bull. I do hope that you’ll resolve to be good and to consume your sticky, salty, thick loads of spunk if your wife orders you to.

Prepping Her Pussy for His Cock

A look of pleasure on a woman in bed as her husband tends to her nether regions.You’re likely quite fond of licking your wife’s pussy. You like making her feel good. You like making her cum. That’s why you’ll likely enjoy prepping her pussy for her bull’s cock.

It’s a little different than simply worshiping her cunt and making her cum, though. In that case your goal is to give her an orgasm. In this case, your goal is to prepare her so another man’s cock – a far superior cock to yours – can enter her with ease and provide her with the orgasm she craves. In reality, that’s a huge difference and it’s one you’ll have to embrace to be a good cuckold.

You might find that she orders you to prepare her pussy and then pays very little attention to you. Perhaps she’s kissing her bull, stroking his cock, or giving him a blowjob. In that moment, she’s much more likely to be focused on the man that’s going to fuck her as opposed to the dutiful cuck that’s licking her pussy to ensure she’s wet enough for the superior man’s fat cock to enter her without much struggle.

Be a good cuckold and make sure you tend to her pussy when ordered to. Get it nice and wet. Also, if she tells you to put his cock inside her, put aside any fears of touching another man’s dick and guide his thickness into her needy cunt.

Fluffing Her Bull’s Cock

I know. You’re not a cocksucker. You’re not bisexual. You don’t want to fluff. Well, it doesn’t really matter. If she wants you to, you’ll have to. If you’re going to be a good cuckold, you might have to fluff her bull.

There are several reasons your wife might want you to fluff him:

  • To show that you understand that you’re sexually inferior to him.
  • Simply because it makes her pussy wet to watch her straight husband suck dick for her.
  • Because she’s not really interested in giving her bull oral sex but she knows he loves it.
  • She wants you to prove your dedication to her.

There are probably other reasons, too, and the real truth is, the reason doesn’t matter. If you’re a good cuckold, you’ll do it. If not, you won’t, but of course you’ll disappoint your wife if you don’t, and you don’t want to disappoint your wife.

Cleaning Her Pussy Afterwards

Eventually your wife will have unprotected sex with her bull. When she does, he’ll take the pleasure due to him and cum inside her. How could he not? What a thrill to cum in the pussy of another man’s wife.

She might call upon you to clean her messy pussy after they’re done. To put your tongue inside her and lick up his load. To lick up every delicious drop. How humiliating. How utterly embarrassing for you.

You’ll do it if you’re a good cuckold. You’ll embrace that humiliation. You’ll lick another man’s cum out of your wife’s pussy even if they both laugh at you while you do.



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Cleaning Her Bull’s Cock Afterwards

If he cums inside your wife, there’s a good chance his cock will be messy when he pulls out. It will be covered in her juices and his. It will need to be cleaned by a good cuckold and you’ll put your mouth to use.

You’ll suck his fat dick clean while it goes soft. You’ll suck his balls clean, too. You’ll make sure his cock is pristine and you’ll do so with your mouth and you’ll do so while your wife and her bull enjoy post-coital kisses and pillow talk.

She’ll likely make you clean his cock before you clean her pussy because she knows that licking up a creampie is something so many cuckolds crave, even if they’re not willing to admit it.

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Sacrificing Blowjobs and/or Sex

You might think that you’re entitled to certain kinds of sexual pleasure from your wife. She might disagree. As a good cuckold, you’ll have to embrace what your wife wants.

That might very well mean that you can kiss blowjobs goodbye. After all, once she’s sucked a real man’s dick she might not have any interest in having your cock in her mouth anymore. If you’re lucky she’ll still enjoy blowing you, but you can’t count on it.

A good cuckold might also have to give up pussy. This varies by hotwife. Some drastically reduce the volume of sex they have with their cuckold. Some completely forbid the cuck from fucking them. Some cucks are reduced to having sex just once a year.

On the plus side, when your access to pussy has been severely reduced, you’re quite a bit more grateful on the rare occasion you’re allowed to have it, and there’s something so nice about truly appreciating her pussy.

Wearing a Chastity Device

Some hotwives prefer an extreme level of control over their cuckolds. For those kinds of women, a chastity device is a godsend. The cuck’s cock is locked in a tight little cage and it can’t come out unless she unlocks it. She now has total control over her husband’s sexual pleasure. She now has total control over her cuckold.

Wearing a chastity device is a huge sacrifice. Your cock aches constantly as you try and get hard. You yearn for the chance to masturbate. You yearn for the simple pleasure of getting an erection. You’re denied all of it, though, because your hotwife is the one in control.

You will make that sacrifice, though, because you’re a good cuckold. You’ll give her control over your cock and you’ll do her bidding in an attempt to earn the pleasure of a release.

Wearing Panties

A pair of pink panties for the cuckold to wear at his wife's command.You are likely not naturally inclined to wear panties. You’re a man, after all. Your wife may desire to put you in panties to help remind you of your place, though. She may desire to make you flounce about in a pair of cute, girly underwear so you never forget that you’re a cuck.

The most likely version of this turn of events is that you’re made to wear panties when her bull comes over. Doing so will heighten the difference between the two f you. It will make it painfully obvious that you’re the inferior man.

Imagine her dressing you in panties and making you stand side by side with her bull. His cock is long and thick and free of women’s underwear and yours is small and contained tightly within delicate lace, straining against it and leaking precum because it actually turns you on to be such a good cuckold for your wife.

Outing Yourself to Her Friends

Once she’s cuckolded you, your wife will likely seem like a different person, especially to her friends. They’ll wonder what’s changed. She might not tell them, but she might feel compelled to share the thing that has made such a massive difference in her life.

When she does tell them she’s been fucking a superior man, she’s going to out you. Her friends are going to know that you’re a cuck. They might want to talk to you. They might want to hear your side. They might want to know how a man could be so turned on by the idea of his wife having sex with other men.

If you’re a good cuckold, you’ll happily out yourself to your wife and her friends. You’ll answer their questions. If she chastises your cock, you’ll show them the cage. If she makes you wear panties, you’ll show them off. If she tells you to serve them drinks and rub their feet, you’ll do that too. Don’t fight it. Embrace it. Be a good cuck.

Doing as a Cuck Sitter Says

Sometimes a hotwife doesn’t quite trust her husband. Perhaps because he’s lost that trust. Perhaps because he never really had it in the first place. When that happens, she might decide to hire a cuck sitter to keep watch over her husband while she’s on a date.

If you happen to be the sort of cuck that has lost his wife’s trust, it’s your duty to do as the cuck sitter says. This will be hugely humiliating, of course, but that doesn’t matter. What matters is that you do as you’re told. What matters is that you obey her. What matters is that you subject yourself to the humiliation because you’re the one that lost your wife’s trust in the first place.

Ultimately, your wife has control here. She might let the cuck sitter use your mouth and fingers for her pleasure. She might let the cuck sitter spank you or fuck you with a strapon. If you’re a good cuckold, you’ll submit to her and do exactly as she desires.

Submitting to Anal Penetration

Some hotwives develop a keen interest in seeing their cuckold’s submit to anal penetration. If you’re good, you’ll offer your submission without argument.

That penetration can come in many forms. You can be butt plugged. She might make you fuck yourself with a dildo. She might make you take her strapon up your ass. She might make you submit to getting fucked by her bull. It all depends on your hotwife’s level of interest in anal play and her goals in embarking on that sort of exploration.

To be a good cuckold you must offer your ass to be used in whatever way she desires. Don’t fight it. Don’t complain. Just get fucked.

She Goes on Vacations with Her Bull

A hotwife and her bull on the deck of their hotel.Couples go on vacations together. It’s a beautiful way to connect with each other, after all, and the sex tends to be exquisite.

Your wife might very well feel like she’s part of a couple with her bull. She might very well be part of a couple with him. If she is, she’ll want to go on vacation with him.

If you’re a good cuckold, you’ll support her desire. If you’re a great cuckold, you’ll plan the vacation. You’ll pay for it, even. You’ll make sure that she and her bull get to enjoy the vacation of their dreams. Maybe that’s something deeply romantic. Maybe that’s something adventurous. What matters is that it’s perfect for them.

If you’re lucky, they’ll let you come along. If not, you need to be good and accept that. Perhaps your wife will send you pictures or videos of her and her bull enjoying their vacation together. Remember, she deserves that pleasure and her pleasure is your pleasure.

Are You Willing to be a Good Cuckold?

Ultimately, being a good cuckold means always putting your hotwife’s needs before yours. Sometimes that means some measure of suffering on your part, but in reality there’s almost always a benefit for you, assuming you’re strong enough to subdue your desires in favor of hers.

Plus, if she’s a good hotwife she’ll make sure to reward you in some way, though that reward will likely come after she’s claimed her pleasure.

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