How to Control Your Cuckold’s Inevitable Jealousy
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In a cuckold marriage, it’s entirely possible you’re going to have sex with another man (or other men if you have multiple partners) far more often than you have sex with your cuck husband.
Jealousy is a likely outcome of that reality, which makes perfect sense. Even if your husband is the one who initiated his cuckolding and even if he absolutely adores being cucked, he might still feel jealousy simply because that often can’t be avoided.
In many ways, managing a cuckold’s jealousy comes down to managing his ego. If you have sex with another man – and especially if you love having sex with another man – your cuckold’s ego will flare up and demand that you stop. It might even overwhelm his desires. You can think of many of the ideas below as having to do with managing his ego and thus helping with his jealousy.
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There are ways you can help deal with his jealousy, though. Here are a few (though keep in mind that there’s no guarantee any of these work for your particular cuckold):
Let Him Watch – When you let him watch, chances are good he’ll see how much better your bull fucks you. He’ll see that he literally can’t compete with the man you’ve chosen as your primary lover. He’ll still feel jealous, but alongside that jealousy will be a far deeper understanding of the difference between him and your bull, which will help tamp down any negative effects of his jealousy.
Humiliation – This might seem counterintuitive or destructive, but chances are good that your cuck gets off on humiliation. If so, you can use it to combat his jealousy. If he expresses that jealousy in any way, gently remind him that he’s not man enough to satisfy you. Remind him that his cock is too small, or that he cums too fast, or that you get off on the new relationship energy that your husband simply can’t provide.
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The humiliation will arouse him – which he’ll enjoy – and it will remind him of the reason he’s being cuckolded. Humiliation can be a destructive tool, though, so make sure you use it wisely and sparingly, at least to start. If he gets off on it, though, you can use it more often, just make sure to remind him that you love him as often as you humiliate him.
Tease Him (Sexually) Constantly – The result of constant teasing is a constant sense of arousal, and that’s a perfect way to combat jealousy. If he’s turned on, it’s really hard to surrender to the negative effects of feeling jealous. Instead, he’ll look forward to his cuckolding. He’ll yearn for you to fuck someone else. He might feel jealous, but his desire will overwhelm it.
Have Him Serve Your Bull – This can be done in numerous ways, including non-sexual ways. For instance, he could wash your bull’s car while you’re getting fucked. He could prepare food for you and your bull. He could do chores around your bull’s house while the two of you are fucking.
He could also serve your bull sexually. This won’t eliminate his jealousy, but it will make your cuck feel inferior to your bull, which will make the jealousy much easier to bear. After all, given his inferiority, it makes perfect sense that you would choose the superior man to fuck you.
Get Him More Involved in His Cuckolding – Sometimes, the jealousy is simply because he feels left out. That’s why it’s worth involving your cuckold more. This can be done in numerous ways (see my article A Cuckold’s Duties on Date Night for a lengthier explanation – that’s very kink-focused -of how he can help).
These include taking you lingerie shopping, dressing you for your bull, preparing the bedroom, making drinks for you, being your chauffeur for a date, booking hotels, taking over the arranging of your dates with your bull, preparing your pussy with his tongue, and many more.
Remind Your Cuckold That You Love Him – Jealousy is often a manifestation of insecurity. If your cuckold sees just how well your bull satisfies you, he may begin to feel insecure about your feelings for him. You can combat this by regularly reminding your cuckold that you love him. The reminder will be even more effective if you tell him that you love him exactly the way he is, that his eagerness to be a cuck – and perhaps even a beta cuck – makes you happier than you ever thought possible.
Let Him Worship You with His Tongue – Chances are good that your bull makes you cum with his cock. If so, you can combat your cuckold’s jealousy by letting him do something your bull doesn’t do: Make you cum with his tongue. It probably won’t be as satisfying as getting fucked by your bull, but all orgasms feel good.
If he’s feeling a little jealous, welcome your cuckold between your legs. Indulge in the sensual pleasure of getting your pussy worshiped. Caress his face. Run your fingers through his hair. Tell him it feels so good when he worships your pussy. If you want, you can extend that worship to your body as a form of foreplay and have him give you a massage and worship any part of you that feels good – your breasts, for instance – before he moves to your pussy and makes you cum.
Pleasure Your Cuckold – Despite his inadequacies in the bedroom, your cuckold deserves to experience pleasure. Thankfully, you can give him that pleasure in so many ways.
Sometimes it means sitting on his face and letting him feast on your pussy. Sometimes it means giving him a teasing handjob – without an orgasm – while you tell him about how well your bull fucked you. Sometimes it means a ruined orgasm. Sometimes it means actually giving him an orgasm, which you might follow by making him clean up his mess so he doesn’t forget his place as your cuck. Ultimately, giving him pleasure is a wonderful way of showing him that you care for him, which is more than enough to combat jealousy.
Lock His Cock – A cuckold’s jealousy will often emerge after he’s had an orgasm. When that happens, the erotic effects of seeing his fantasy come to life tend to wash away, leaving only cold, hard reality. In that state of mind, he might get overwhelmingly jealous. This is where chastity comes in.
When you’ve locked his cock, you control his orgasms. If he can’t find a way to combat his post-orgasmic jealousy, you’re free to significantly limit his climaxes. Plus, when you cage him immediately after he’s cum, it’s a great way to both remind him of his place and pull him back into his fantasy.
Listen to Him – Sometimes, combating your cuckold’s jealousy is as simple as sitting with him and listening as he expresses his feelings. Hold his hand. Hold his gaze. When he’s done, lean in and kiss him softly. Tell him you love him. Tell him that you like that he’s jealous. Tell him that you love him and that you have no intention of leaving him. If he needs to talk again, then you can listen once more.
If managed properly, your cuckold’s jealousy can actually be a boon to your marriage. It can be used to improve his behavior. It can be used to motivate him. It can even be used to thrill him. It’s all a matter of how you handle it.
It’s worth experimenting with the ideas above if you’re having trouble with a jealous cuckold. There’s no guarantee they’ll work to combat his unpleasant feelings, but there’s a good chance one of them will and I suspect you’ll learn a lot about your cuckold husband if you try.
With any luck, your cuckold marriage will end up even stronger because you took a proactive approach to coping with a jealousy cuck husband.
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Barbie
February 11, 2024 @ 5:37 am
Jealousy is a feeling that torment me as a cuckold constantly and that’s because sometimes I feel neglected and she is having so much fun and so constant with her lover that I feel that she is going to leave me, I accept her infidelity but the feeling she is going to leave torment me, all the negative thoughts are easier when she makes you sexually serve him, when he pull it out from her and finish on my mouth, her satisfaction when I serve him,
down boy
February 11, 2024 @ 7:11 am
Becca ,
My wife and I have femdom TPE marriage. My wife needs total freedom in her life she demands complete obedience from me. She does what she wants, when she wants and with who ever she want to do it with. Early in our marriage I did feel jealous, she had a sex life outside of our marriage that well was more important then our relationship. Her outside lovers always came first. My wife only dates black men and she is a size queen. The first time I witnessed her making love well it was devastating to my male ego. I knew that my little white dicklet could never give her that kind of pleasure. So yes I was pretty jealous and my wife knew it. Instead of consoling me or going easy she just turned up the humiliation she had my going nuts. She was not discreet a lot of people knew she had lovers outside of our marriage .What was the thing that broke me was how she punished me, my wife sexually enjoys whipping and hurting me and she restrained me and brought me to my pain limits with her riding crop ,like a regular routine . I am so turned on by my wife but I can’t ever have her for my own it was mentally challenging the humiliation and the heavy punishment it became overwhelming and then I don’t know something like snapped in me. My wife broke me I receive now I’m not masculine in anyway, it’s like she castrated. When she decides this ritual is needed usually at least 3 times a month I kneel before her she takes her riding crop and gives me a no mercy whipping on my back and ass I don’t flinch I just accept it she gives me extreme pain both physically and mentally but to me it’s pleasure. Then as I kneel there she pees in this brandy glass and she puts it to my lips and she has my drink it like one mouthful at time she’ll say savor and swallow until the glass is empty then I kiss her high heels as she stands over me. My wife calls it femdom communion and after that it really makes me feel good. My reality is what my beautiful wife creates for me it’s like religious in a way she is my Goddess she led me into my sub space and I worship her I’ll be forever in her debt I’ll never challenge her authority over me . She taught me the way that I can express my true love for her and her lovers they are my superiors Mistress Master and slave it’s our triad. ( my wife touches my dicklet it takes maybe a minute and I cum pretty much on command and she feeds my sperm to me that’s my sex life and this happens when she feels it’s time ) thank you so much Becca for your very important and useful blog
Steven
February 23, 2024 @ 4:32 pm
I felt jealousy at first. My wife suggested this arraignment first, and I thought that it sounded like a really great idea. But as things actually unfolded, I became a little jealous. Her bull was everything I wasn’t. He was muscular, he had a big cock that stayed erect and that she adored, and he could last all night without cuming. I also saw her do things with her bull that she would never do with me. She never let’s me cum in her mouth, but she slurps down every drop of his bull cum. It’s rare that I get to watch, but she told me that they tried anal but that he’s just too big. But as time went by and I saw how incredibly sexually satisfied he made her, I looked at things differently. Listening to her multiple orgasms was very satisfying to me. This turned into more of a gift that I was giving her, and that made the jealousy go away. It has also improved our sex life. I also find my incredibly attractive wife even more attractive now. Her bull comes over frequently, and when we’re traveling she always seems to find someone who can take care of her needs.