Ladies, if you haven’t yet enjoyed the pleasure of a rimjob from your cuckold husband (or any eager man, to be honest), you’re missing out. It’s a divine pleasure to feel a talented tongue licking your asshole, especially when you know that your man is deriving intense satisfaction from being given permission to go down on your tight little hole.
That’s why I recommend you make him your ass licking cuckold (even if you haven’t cuckolded him yet). Trust me, he’ll enjoy it. Utter the words, “Eat my ass, cuckold,” and you’ll see genuine joy on his face. You’ll trigger his submissive desires and he’ll gladly spread your cheeks and use his tongue to delight you.
It can be more than the occasional rimjob or ass worship session, too. If you’re actually cuckolding him, you can use his desire to be an ass eater to thrill your husband, yourself, and your bull.
The Basics of Ass Worship
Before we go any further, there are a few things you should know before you dive into ass licking with your cuckold. First and foremost, you really want to be clean down there before he goes to work. A shower where you make sure to give your asshole a good scrubbing with soap should get the job done. It’s possible he’ll find it appealing to rim you while you’re not super clean, but he won’t enjoy the potentially unpleasant effects of consuming even small amounts of fecal matter, so clean it up before you play.
This shouldn’t be an issue, but it’s best if he only uses his tongue unless you instruct him otherwise. Porn trains men to believe that an asshole can take any kind of penetration, but it’s actually pretty sensitive down there. Even sliding his finger inside can result in a small cut that can turn into something far more unpleasant (just trust me on this). He can stick his tongue in there if he wants, though of course that carries some risk (fecal matter, again).
Okay, that’s enough of the gross stuff. Let’s get down to the fun.
Trust Me, He Wants to Worship Your Ass
I can’t speak for all men, of course, but I can say with confidence that the vast majority of cuckolds (and wannabe cuckolds) would love to worship the beautiful asses of their wives.
He likes that it feels a little naughty. He likes that it’s something you probably haven’t let him do before. He likes that some men probably don’t want to do it, and yet there he is eagerly licking your asshole.
He’ll really like it if you’re the one that decides when he licks your asshole. Don’t just let him go down there whenever he wants. You give the command. You tell him to eat your ass. He doesn’t decide.
Her Ass Licking Cuckold is a naughty 3-part story I just published for my Patreon supporters. It begins when Connor meets Claire at the gym. Her ass is alluring in a pair of skintight workout pants and he can’t stop staring.
She recognizes his submissive desires and soon enough has him literally kissing her ass in the parking lot. Soon he’s licking her ass after every date. As the name suggests, she cuckolds him. Her ex-boyfriend Greg comes into their life and there’s a wildly naughty adventure with ass eating, anal sex, creampie cleanup, and more.
Click here to read an excerpt from the story at the bottom of the article.
How to Have Fun with Ass Worship
You can make this more than lying face down in bed and letting him spread your cheeks so he can go to town on your asshole. Here are a few ways to have fun with it:
Use it as a Reward – If your cuckold has been a good boy, give him the reward of worshiping your perfect ass. Before he goes to work down there, tell him that he’s been very good and he’s earned the privilege of eating your asshole. It’s a small, subtle way of training him to see it as something he craves.
Use it as a Form of Denial – Your cuckold also craves your pussy. You know he does. He loves to make you cum, often more than he loves his own orgasms. Having him worship your asshole can be a great way of denying him the pleasure of tasting your pussy. He’s close – inches away, in fact – and yet he’s not allowed to lick you. Perhaps you’re not in the mood to cum, or perhaps you’re simply in the mood to deny him. Either way, this can be a really good way to enjoy his tongue while denying him something.
Sit on His Face – You’ve probably ridden his face with your pussy. Now you can do it with your asshole. Spread your cheeks and sit right down on his face. Get your asshole right over his tongue and let him go to work. He’ll feel wonderfully smothered by your bottom and he’ll eagerly please you.
Go for Long Periods of Time – Unlike your pussy (in all likelihood), he can lick your asshole for hours without bothering you. Feel free to give it a try sometime. Sit down in front of the TV, find a Netflix show, and watch for a few hours while your cuckold licks your asshole the entire time. He’ll love you for it.
Have Him Lick Your Sweaty Ass – You still want to be clean, but he’ll love it if you do a quick workout, pull down your yoga pants, and pull his head between your ass cheeks. Make him lick up all that sweat, and let him know that’s exactly what he’s doing. Feel free to throw in a little verbal play. “Licking my sweaty ass is all you’re good for” will absolutely thrill him.
Masturbate While He Licks Your Ass – Get in your preferred position and play with your pussy while your cuckold worships your ass. Moan as you masturbate. Bring yourself to orgasm. Make him lick your tight hole the entire time. The added stimulation will feel great and he’ll absolutely enjoy getting to be so close as you’re cumming.
Talk Dirty to Your Ass Licking Cuckold
Dirty talk and verbal humiliation are powerful tools that you can and should use to enhance your cuckold’s pleasure and deepen his submission (click that link to read my article on the subject).
If you’re into domination, it will enhance your pleasure too. You can keep it incredibly simple if you want, or you can be a little more imaginative and try and find the exact words to thrill your ass eating submissive.
Here are some examples to get you started:
“How does my ass taste, cuckold?”
“That’s it, baby. Eat my ass. Show me that you know your place.”
“How does it feel to be an ass eating cuckold?”
“Stick your tongue in my ass. Taste me, cuck. Taste my asshole.”
“Clean my sweaty asshole, baby. Clean it all up. Lick up all that salty, yummy sweat. Get me nice and clean so I don’t have to shower.”
“Do you want to eat my ass the next time my bull and I have anal sex?”
“This is all you’re good for, cuckold. You’re an ass eater. You’re not even worthy of licking my pussy. Now stick your tongue inside my asshole.”
“Worship my ass, cuckold. Don’t stop until I tell you to. Don’t stop worshiping my tight little asshole until I give you permission.”
“Beg me for the pleasure of worshiping my asshole, cuckold.”
Ass Licking Ideas as You Cuckold Him with Your Bull
If you haven’t tried it already, you absolutely must incorporate ass licking into your cuckold play. There are so many fun ways to do this. It requires your husband being present and involved while you’re with your bull, but I’m going to assume that’s the case for the ideas that follow:
Make Him Lick Your Ass During Foreplay – While you and your bull are fooling around, have your cuckold worship your asshole. It’s an ideal way to remind him of his place, which is guaranteed to turn him on. He’ll love that he’s relegated to eating your bottom while you give head to your bull, or that he’ll be literally kissing your asshole while you’re kissing your bull.
Make Him Lick Your Ass as You’re Getting Fucked – There are a few ways of doing this. It can be quite humiliating (in a good way) to sit on his chest with your asshole right in front of his mouth while your bull fucks you. Then he can look up at another man’s cock filling your pussy while he’s busy eating your anus. It might have the added bonus of your bull’s balls brushing against his forehead and nose.
Make Him Rim You Before Anal Sex – If you have anal sex with your bull (a surprising number of hotwives do), make sure your cuckold gives you a rimjob beforehand. This is a perfect time for verbal humiliation – “You eat my ass and he gets to fuck it, cuckold. That’s your place” – and he’ll fall madly, deeply in love with you.
Make Him Rim You After Anal Sex – Want to make it even more humiliating? Bring your cuckold back to rim your asshole after your bull has fucked you. It will send him deeper into that beautiful submissive space, which is exactly where you want him to be (and where he wants to be). Again, feel free to offer up dirty talk. For example, “You’re not worthy of my ass, cuckold. You’re only worthy of cleaning up after a real man has enjoyed it.”
Make Him Lick Your Bull’s Asshole – Obviously, both your cuckold and your bull will need to be comfortable with bisexual play, but this is an incredible way to turn up the heat. You can have him do it as a form of pure submission. He gets on his knees, he spreads your bull’s ass cheeks, and he eats that tight hole while you watch. You can combo it, too. You take your bull’s cock into your mouth and direct your cuckold to eat his ass.
Make Him Lick Both Your Asses – If you and your bull are into humiliating your cuckold and putting him in his place, try both getting on your hands and knees in bed and ordering him to rim you both. Then he can move from asshole to asshole, using his tongue skillfully to pleasure you both. To make it even better, you can kiss your bull as your husband is working you both with his tongue.
Make Him Lick Your Bull’s Asshole as You’re Getting Fucked – For the right cuckold, this will feel like the ultimate humiliation and truly force him to accept his lowered status in your sex life. While another man – and one with a superior cock, of course – pleasures your pussy, your cuckold must lick his asshole. He must show that he embraces his new place in the bedroom by eating the ass of the man that actually knows how to pleasure you. It’s insanely dirty and delectable and he will feel the humiliation that turns him on.
Can you think of any ways that ass licking can be incorporated into cuckold play? If so, please leave a comment.
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An Excerpt from ‘Her Ass Licking Cuckold’:
I just published a three part story, “Her Ass Licking Cuckold,” on my Patreon page. It tells the story of Connor and Claire. They meet on their way out of the gym after she notices his obsessive ogling of her ass. Things quickly turn naughty as she makes him kiss her ass in the parking lot and has him worship her ass her on their first date. As the name suggests, there’s all kinds of cuckold play involved too. The story is inspired by this article, so I’m sure you’ll enjoy it.
Here’s an excerpt from the first part:
“I thought that might be the case,” Claire said. Her tone had shifted. It was decidedly seductive. For a few seconds, they walked through underground parking garage in silence. Then, Claire surprised Connor by asking, “What was it about my ass that captured your attention, Connor?”
There was a demanding tone to her voice that Connor found impossibly sexy. Normally he would have shied away from answering a question like that from a girl he’d just met. Instead, he felt compelled to share.
“It’s perfect. Your ass, that is. It’s perfectly shaped. It’s big but it still looks really fit and sexy. Your waist is slim, which makes your ass even more arousing. Plus, those are the sexiest yoga pants I’ve ever seen. I don’t know where you bought them, but you should buy more, because they make your ass look otherworldly.”
Claire smiled and stopped. “This is my car,” she said while pointing to a compact SUV.
She walked towards the driver’s side door and turned around. Connor instinctively stared at her ass. He couldn’t help himself. Claire bent over and her yoga pants tightened alluringly as the fabric stretched over her butt.
“Come here, Connor,” Claire said as she remained bent over.
Connor stepped closer. He wasn’t sure what she was planning. His heart started to pound in his chest and he felt a sense of arousal begin to build between his legs.
“Do you want to touch my ass, Connor?” Claire asked. Her voice was hypnotic.
He nodded and said, “Yes, I’d like that very much.” Somehow he knew not to reach out and touch it. She hadn’t invited him to do so. She’d merely asked if he wanted it.
“I want you to touch it too, Connor,” Claire said. “But first you have to kiss it. Will you do that for me? Will you kiss my ass?”
Connor couldn’t stop his cock from getting hard. He’d never heard a girl talk like that before. It was insanely sexy. “Yes, I’ll kiss your ass,” he answered. He didn’t care that they were in a parking lot and that someone might walk by and see it. He wanted to kiss her ass.
“Good. Why don’t you get on your knees for me?” Claire suggested in a soft, seductive voice.
Connor fell to his knees. Her beautiful ass was less than foot from his face. It looked even better in close up.
“Kiss my ass, Connor,” Claire said. “Both cheeks.” He loved how comfortable she was being so demanding.
Connor leaned forward and kissed her left ass cheek first. The material of her skintight yoga pants felt smooth against his lips. He moved to her right ass cheek and kissed it too.
“Good boy,” Claire said.
Connor was surprised at how much he liked being called a good boy. His cock was stiff with desire. He felt willing to do anything this beautiful girl wanted.
Claire stood up and briefly looked around the parking garage as Connor waited on his knees. Then she bent over again, slipped her fingers into the waistband of her yoga pants, and pulled it three quarters of the way down her ass.
Connor let out an involuntary moan as he stared at the milky white ass cheeks of this intensely sexy, dominant woman.
“Kiss my ass, Connor,” she demanded.
He leaned forward and did as she requested. This time his lips pressed against her soft flesh as he kissed each cheek. He licked his lips afterwards and tasted a hint of salt, likely from the sweat her workout built up.
Claire pulled up her pants and turned around. “Stand up,” she said.
Connor stood. Claire stepped closer. She grabbed his wrists and pulled his hands behind her. She placed them on her ass cheeks.
Traditionally, a fluffer’s role in a porn production is to use her mouth to arouse the male talent so he can step in front of the camera and get down to the business of fucking when the time comes.
A cuckold fluffer’s role is similar, except you’re offering your mouth to your wife’s bull to get him ready to satisfy her pussy in a way your inadequate cock can’t.
So, could you be a cuckold fluffer? Could you get on your knees and use your mouth to get another man hard before he fucks your wife? Could you surrender some small part of your manhood and suck cock because it thrills your wife and the man that has taken your place in the bedroom?
The True Purpose of the Cuckold Fluffer
Unlike a fluffer on a porn set, your cocksucking talents aren’t actually necessary to get your wife’s bull hard for her pussy. The allure of fucking her is more than enough to get him stiff, and of course she probably enjoys foreplay with him and wouldn’t mind going down on her bull to get him nice and hard.
That’s why being a cuckold fluffer is largely a symbolic gesture. When you offer him your mouth, you’re saying that’s all you’re good for. You’re admitting that your cock cannot please your wife. You’re telling him and her that you know your place in the bedroom. When you fuck your wife it brings you pleasure, but it does next to nothing for her. When you suck his cock, it brings both of them pleasure.
Ultimately, a cuckold fluffer is demonstrating his willing and eager submission to his wife and her bull. Whether he’s straight or bisexual, he’s taking another man’s cock into his mouth because he wants to show his devotion to the woman that is lovingly cuckolding him. He wants to demonstrate to her that he knows his place and that he’s going to be a good boy as she fucks her bull.
Fluffing Her Bull Isn’t About Your Sexuality
Guys get so worked up about their sexuality. They panic at the notion that taking another man’s cock in their mouth means they’re gay, as if it was possible to suddenly switch sexuality because you gave someone a blowjob. It doesn’t work like that. Stop panicking. Stop freaking out.
Being a cuckold fluffer has nothing to do with your sexuality and everything to do with your willingness to submit. Yes, you’re going to be on your knees with a cock in your mouth. Yes, you’re going to be sucking someone else’s big dick. Yes, you’re going to taste a cock. Yes, you’re going to make that cock hard. That doesn’t make you gay or bisexual. It makes you a submissive.
When your wife and her bull demand that you fluff him, they don’t care about your sexuality. They care that you’re willing to accept your place in the bedroom and in your marriage. You’ve been replaced as the primary sexual partner in her life. You no longer offer her any pleasure with your cock (if you ever did). That’s his job now. That means it’s your job to fluff his cock (and perhaps clean up afterwards).
So don’t fret about your sexuality. Despite what some guys believe, you’re not going to turn gay or bisexual if you take a cock in your mouth. You might sink deeper into submission, but that’s a good thing. If you’re an eager bisexual cocksucker, then that’s wonderful. Pleasure him and then watch as he pleasures her.
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Would You Fluff Him if It Turned Her On?
It’s okay to be nervous or even scared at fluffing her bull’s big cock. Most guys are a little freaked out at the implications. What if it turned her on, though? What if it made your wife wet to see you going down on her bull? Would that convince you to accept your place as her fluffer?
Imagine a scenario where your wife really wants to see your lips wrapped around her bull’s dick. She wants to see you submit. She wants to witness that moment where you look at her, look at him, and then fall to your knees. She wants to feel that incredible surge of lust as her husband gets on his knees in front of another man.
You like that notion, don’t you? You like the idea of your wife moaning quietly as you fall to your knees in front of her bull. You like the idea of her masturbating as she watches you suck cock. In a way, you’d be fluffing both of them. She’d get nice and wet while you were making sure her bull was stiff with desire for her.
That’s the real purpose of being a cuckold fluffer. You’re doing it to make your wife and cuckoldress happy. You’re doing it to show her that you understand your new place in the bedroom. You’re doing it because you crave submission. Forget about everything else and just think about that. You want to submit to your wife, which means submitting to her bull and sucking his cock until it’s nice and hard.
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“I want this, baby. I need this,” your wife says as she stands in front of you. Her fingers feel so good as they move over your stiff cock. She’s spent most of the day teasing you. You’re dripping precum.
She steps aside and you stare at her bull’s cock. Your wife plays with your balls and rubs your taint. Her touch is delicate and arousing.
She kisses your neck and whispers, “I need you to be my cuckold fluffer. I need you to show me that you know your place.”
Her fingers wrap tightly around your stiff cock and she strokes you. Your precum is the perfect lubricant. You groan. The pleasure is intense. You want to cum, but you know she’s not going to let you orgasm until you’ve done what she wants.
“I need to see his big cock in your mouth, baby. I need you to fluff him. Will you be a good boy and do that for me?” your wife whispers into your ear before gently kissing your neck. Goosebumps rise on your skin. Your body is alive with pleasure.
An internal battle rages. Part of you wants to do it. You want to submit to her and suck his cock. You want to fluff him. Part of you wants to run out of the room. Part of you wants to forget about being her cuckold and just go back to a normal marriage. All of you knows that’s not possible.
“Do it, baby,” your wife says softly. “Be my fluffer.”
You can’t resist any longer. She’s so sexy. You love her so much. You want to submit to her. You want to make her happy.
You take a step towards her bull and drop to your knees. The bedroom carpet is soft against your skin.
Your wife moans. There’s genuine pleasure behind it. She loves that you’re about to do this.
“That’s it, baby,” she says while running her fingers through your hair and over the back of your neck. “Be a good boy. Be my cuckold fluffer.”
You look at the cock in front of you. It’s big. It’s long and thick and he’s hard from the foreplay he and your wife have already enjoyed. All you have to do is open your mouth and wrap your lips around him. You need to suck his cock. It’s what your wife wants. She wants you to show them both that you fully accept your place as her cuckold.
She gently pushes on the back of your head. The slight pressure is enough to get you to lean forward, open your mouth, and take her bull’s cock onto your tongue.
You close your eyes and lick the spongy head of his dick as you close your lips around it. You’re fluffing his cock. You’re making your wife so happy.
“That’s so hot, baby,” your wife says. You can hear her masturbating. Her pussy is soaking wet. She’s pushing her fingers in and out of her cunt. You’re turning her on by being a good cuckold fluffer. She likes watching you suck cock.
Her bull groans. You take him deeper into your mouth. You make sure your tongue is active. You want to be a good fluffer for her. Now that you’re doing it, you’re committed to doing it well.
“He’s a natural,” her bull says.
“I told you he would be,” your wife adds.
They’ve been talking about it. They knew this was inevitable. They knew you’d be a good cocksucker. They knew you’d submit.
You’re a natural born cuckold fluffer.
So, Could You be a Cuckold Fluffer?
Would you get on your knees for him, cuckold? Would you wrap your lips around his dick and suck your wife’s bull until he’s ready to fuck her? Would you submit to them both? Would you embrace your place in your marriage and be a cocksucker?
If it turns her on, why wouldn’t you? If it makes your wife happy, why wouldn’t you want to be a fluffer for her and her bull? Go ahead, suck that cock.
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Cuckold creampie cleanup is hugely popular among the men (and some of women, to be fair) that are into this thrilling lifestyle. It generates a primal, deeply arousing response for the guys that are into it. It drives them wild with desire in so many ways. If you’re reading this, it’s almost certainly true that the idea of cleaning another man’s cum from your wife’s freshly-fucked, messy pussy makes your cock hard.
There’s great joy to be found in cuckold creampie cleanup for both the husband and his wife. It comes in different forms, of course, but it can be a source of pleasure and intimacy. I’m going to talk all about those joys, but first let’s explore why this element of cuckolding is so arousing.
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In some ways, the appeal of a cuckold creampie can be found in those two sentences. It’s hot enough for a cuckold to see his wife have sex with another man. It goes to a deeper, more primal level when that other man is cumming inside her.
That’s supposed to be the husband’s job, place, or right, depending on how you want to look at it. That’s the societal norm. When you marry a woman you become the only man that cums inside her. That’s a husband’s role (when it comes to reproduction, at least).
That’s part of what makes cuckolding so thrilling. By introducing another man to your marriage you’re upending societal norms. You’re inviting someone else to fuck your wife. You’re inviting someone else into your pussy while your husband watches.
Removing condoms from the equation ups the ante. It makes it a little bit naughtier. It makes it a little bit sexier, hopefully for both husband and wife.
Instead of cumming in your wife, you’re watching someone else do it. Instead of hearing her say, “cum inside me,” to you, she’s saying it to another man. Instead of using a condom, you’re watching his bare cock penetrate her pussy and pleasure her.
As you might already know, it’s quite common for men and women to find “taboo” sexual subjects to be hugely arousing. Step outside of your desires for cuckolding for a second and consider this: Is there anything more “taboo” within the bounds of a marriage than having another man cum inside your wife?
Let’s talk about how husbands and wives can find great joy in this uniquely naughty form of pleasure.
The Joys of Cuckold Creampie Cleanup for Husbands
I want you to picture your wife in bed. I want you to admire her naked body and let your gaze fall between her legs. I want you to see her wet, puffy, pink labia. Most importantly, I want you to see another man’s cum leaking from her pussy.
It turns you on, doesn’t it? You love that someone else just came inside her. You’re not sure why and it doesn’t really matter. You just know that in the moment, nothing is hotter than seeing that thick, creamy cum leaking out of her. He fucked her, he made her cum, and then he filled her with his hot load.
The joy of cuckold creampie cleanup begins before you’re even between her legs. It begins when he slides into her without protection. That’s when you know what he’s going to do. It continues as he fucks her, especially if you have a beautiful view of her pussy while his big cock is pumping in and out of her.
It reaches a beautiful crescendo when she says, “Cum inside me,” to him. Maybe she wraps her legs around him to pull him deeper inside her. Maybe her hands run over his back and ass. Maybe she looks completely lost in lust at the idea of having someone else fill her with his seed.
Your wife’s desire to have his cum inside her is part of the pleasure for you. You like when she urges him to fill her with his seed.
Of course, the best part is when she invites you between her legs. “Clean me, cuckold.” Don’t those words turn you on? Don’t you love reading them? Imagine those words in her voice. Imagine your beautiful wife saying that she wants you to clean her pussy.
Isn’t that joyful? She wants you to crawl between her legs and lick another man’s hot, sticky, thick cum out of her pussy. She wants her husband to dutifully eat someone else’s sperm from her beautiful body. It’s kinky as hell and of course it makes your cock hard.
What’s incredible is that you haven’t licked even a drop of cum out of her yet and already you’re wildly aroused. Your cock is hard and dripping precum. You can feel that beautiful sense of desire that courses through your whole body when you’re insanely, overwhelmingly turned on.
The actual creampie cleanup is where fantasy meets reality. Your first time, you might not like it very much. Cum tends not to taste very good. It can be strong enough to make you gag.
Of course, that can also be part of the pleasure. You’re turned on. Your wife has welcomed you between her legs. She had seduced you into cleaning her messy pussy.
If it doesn’t taste particularly good, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. After all, humiliation is often a part of cuckold creampie cleanup. It doesn’t have to be overt humiliation, of course, but the very act of licking up another man’s cum should generate mildly humiliating feelings at the very least.
Because of that, you should find great joy in cleaning the messy creampie even if it doesn’t taste good. Maybe you’ll find even more joy in it. Plus, you’ll get used to the taste, and that in and of itself should be thrilling.
Think about that for a second. Think about getting used to the taste of another man’s cum. That means you’re eating a whole lot of it. That means you’re cleaning cuckold creampies so frequently that your taste buds have adjusted to his salty, thick, sticky load. Your cock is nice and hard just thinking about it, isn’t it?
Every cuckold couple that enjoys creampie cleanup will develop their own particular way of doing it, and it’s in those specifics that you’ll find even more joy.
Imagine your wife running her fingers through your hair and calling you a “good boy” as you lick up her lover’s load.
Imagine her demanding that instead of crawling between her legs you get on your back and let her feed his load to you. “Are you ready to be fed like a good cucky boy?” she asks. That would make your cock hard, wouldn’t it?
Imagine her sensually kissing the man that just came inside her as you’re cleaning his mess. Imagine them sharing a romantic bond and almost completely ignoring you as you do your duty. She’s turned you into her cuckold servant that exists to make her and her lover happy.
Perhaps you and your wife will come up with something completely different. The point is that there are so many ways for you to experience joy when you’re cleaning a creampie out of your wife’s pussy.
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The Joys of Cuckold Creampie Cleanup for Wives
Cuckold creampie cleanup offers an entirely different kind of thrill for the wives on the receiving end of the pussy cleaning (and if we’re being honest, it’s not at all thrilling for some wives, which is okay). For many, the most significant part of the thrill is how much your cuckold loves it. To see his utter joy and experience his arousal as he’s cleaning you can be incredible.
There are several ways it can be joyful, though, so let’s dig in:
First, there’s an unquestionable sense of intimacy (or there can be) created by having your husband delicately, lovingly lick another man’s cum from your pussy. If there was any question about his commitment to being cuckolded, it will be answered when he licks someone else’s sperm out of you.
Second, it’s a delightfully kinky way of letting your cuckold “reclaim” you. Your lover fucks you and cums inside you, but your husband is the last man of the evening to penetrate you. He’s doing it with his tongue, of course, but that’s fitting. He’s the cuckold, after all, so he should be using his tongue.
Third, if you want to cum again or you didn’t cum with your lover’s cock inside you, your orally skilled cuckold husband can certainly get the job done while he’s cleaning a creampie out of you. He’ll be thrilled to be given the chance, though it’s just as likely that you’ll want him to stay away from your clit because it will be too sensitive.
Fourth, you can and should bask in your husband’s utter excitement and joy at getting to clean another man’s cum out of you. Some wives really get weirded out by it, and that’s okay, but it helps to look at it as fulfilling his ultimate fantasy. You’re giving him an incredible gift by letting him lick someone else’s cum out of you. It’s beautiful.
Fifth, it can be the perfect kind of foreplay if you want another round with your lover. While your husband takes his time cleaning your pussy, you can enjoy a little intimate kissing and touching with your lover. By the time your cuckold is done, he can move aside and you can get fucked all over again.
Sixth, cuckold creampie cleanup innately establishes the hierarchy in the bedroom when your lover is over. Once your husband has licked another man’s cum out of you, he knows his place. Nothing has to be said. He understands that he’s there to watch and service you when you and your lover are done. It can imbue you with a wondrous sense of power.
It’s worth mentioning that you might find great pleasure in it if you have a bit of a sadistic streak in you. That’s rare, but some women find genuine joy in humiliating their husbands (and their husbands enjoy that humiliation), and there’s no better time to do that than when he’s between your legs licking up someone else’s cum.
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How to Make Cuckold Creampie Cleanup Even More Joyful
Spreading your legs and inviting your husband to clean your cum-filled pussy will absolutely thrill him, but the experience can be even more joyful. You’ll find a few suggestions below, but they’re largely meant as ways to inspire your imagination and get you thinking about how to make it fun for both of you.
Turn up the Dirty Talk
Dirty talk can enhance any sexual experience, but it’s particularly potent when your cuckold husband is eager to lick someone else’s cum out of your pussy. You’ll probably know best what will turn him on, but here are some suggestions:
Before you let him between your legs to lick up your lover’s cum: “Do you want to clean his cum out of my messy pussy?” “Are you going to be a good cuckold and eat my lover’s cum?” “Beg me to let you clean up his cum. Beg me to let you be a cum eating cuckold.”
As he’s cleaning your lover’s cum out of you: “How does his cum taste, cuckold?” “That’s so good, cucky. Lick up every drop of his hot cum. Clean my dirty pussy.” “You’re such a good little cum slut for me.” “You love eating his cum, don’t you? You love being a good little cum eater for your wife.”
Feed Him Your Lover’s Cum
I mentioned this earlier, but it’s worth saying again. It’s a subtle change, but it can make a big difference if you shift it from him cleaning your cum-filled pussy to you feeding your lover’s cum to your cuckold.
It’s as simple as having your cuckold get on his back so you can straddle his face. You drop your pussy onto his mouth and let your lover’s cum flow onto his tongue. If he’s a little reluctant to do it, this is the perfect way to start him on the path to being a good cum eating cuckold for you.
Have Him Make You Cum
Not every woman is going to be capable of having an orgasm right after getting fucked by her lover, but it can make creampie cleanup a hotter experience for both of you if your cuckold has to make you cum while he’s eating another man’s load out of you.
Have him lick up the cum and offer your clit the stimulation it desires. Make him worship your pussy until you have an orgasm. He can go back and forth to enjoy your cum-filled pussy and get you off. He can use his fingers on your clit and his tongue in your pussy, too. This way you’ll both associate creampie cleanup with your pleasure, thereby making it a more joyful experience.
Get Your Lover Ready for Round Two as Your Cuckold Cleans You
This isn’t for everyone, obviously, but if you and your lover are interested, it can be fun to get him going for another round while your hubby is between your legs cleaning your pussy.
You can do so by kissing him, playing with his cock, letting him play with your breasts, etc. This gives your husband a chance to spend quite a bit of time between your legs, and the moment your lover is ready, hubby has to get out of the way and watch you get fucked all over again. Then he can clean another load.
My First Cuckold Creampie Cleanup Experience
Genuine creampie cleanup doesn’t happen all that often in most cuckold relationships. I’m sure there are myriad reasons for this, though I suspect worrying about safety/pregnancy and a lack of eagerness to actually do it play a significant part. It doesn’t happen all that often with my husband and me, though when it does happen I really do enjoy it.
The first time, we both knew beforehand that he’d be cleaning a creampie and so did my lover. We rented a hotel room, mostly because I wanted it to feel like a special occasion and I wanted to ensure it would be a beautiful, unique memory for both of us.
My husband was under strict instructions not to orgasm until after he’d cleaned me, so he watched and masturbated a little as my lover and I enjoyed a fairly long session, in part because I wanted him to build up a large load to release inside me.
He’s someone I’d been seeing long enough to trust and he’d been tested just prior to the hotel session. I enjoyed multiple orgasms with him and was feeling quite delighted by the time he actually came inside me.
I was having all kinds of verbal fun. I was talking about how my husband wanted to clean up his cum, how I wanted him to fill me so my cuckold could clean it all up, etc. I felt like it made the sex better, though I suspect a big part of that was due to the novelty of it being the first time he was going to clean up.
My lover stepped into the bathroom and showered after he came inside me. I wanted privacy with my husband. I wanted it to feel like an intimate experience between the two of us.
We kissed first. Then he kissed his way down my body and between my legs. My lover’s cum was leaking out of me at that point. I felt like my body was humming with arousal at that point. It was incredible. Again, a big part of that was that it was the first time.
I could see a mixture of nerves and excitement on my husband’s face. It’s a big thing to actually lick up another man’s cum. It can feel like it’s going to change things, though it didn’t. I didn’t look at him any differently afterwards. I just thought it was hot.
When he cleaned me, my husband made sure to pleasure me too. He made sure to lick my clit and use his fingers to turn me on. He really took his time with it. I found it intensely erotic, in part because of his excitement, in part because of what he was doing, and in part because he was giving me fantastic oral sex.
After he finished cleaning me, we shared a long, slow kiss that was lightly flavored with my lover’s cum. I took my husband’s cock inside me and had him fuck me. It was quick – he’d been rock hard and seriously turned on for over an hour – and it felt good to reward him for cleaning a creampie in that way.
After he came inside me we cuddled. My lover left after his shower and my husband and I spent the night in the hotel. I slept exceptionally well.
Do you have any cuckold creampie cleanup experiences you want to share? Leave them in the comments!
Verbal humiliation is a hugely effective way of providing your cuckold husband (or boyfriend) with intense pleasure. It’s easy to do (though it takes practice to master) and it can be done without introducing another man into your sex life (though it’s even more fun if you’ve found a lover).
This guide will take you through the pleasures and potential pitfalls of verbally humiliating your cuckold. I’ll help you discover what turns him on the most, when to push his limits, and how to know if you’ve gone too far. At the very end of the article you’ll find sample verbal humiliation in the form of audio clips if you’re looking for ideas (click here to skip ahead). If you have any questions, please feel free to leave a comment.
Verbal humiliation is a common part of BDSM play. Your husband is not alone. In fact, he’s one of millions of men and women that find sexual pleasure in being verbally humiliated. The desire for it is rooted in masochism, a trait that most cuckolds possess.
You don’t have to be a sadist to deliver effective verbal humiliation. You do have to understand that the harsh, humiliating things you’re saying are arousing to him. If you want to read a little more about erotic humiliation, please refer to this excellent article. It should help you gain a deeper understanding of your cuckold’s desires.
The Basics of a Verbal Humiliation Session
Cuckold verbal humiliation works so much better when you’re both turned on, and it works best when you’re both really worked up. You want to get to that point where hearing him moan actually thrills you because you’re so hot and bothered. Do whatever it takes to get there. If that means he goes down on you for a little bit or gives you an erotic massage, then so be it. I promise, he’ll do just about anything for the pleasure of being verbally humiliated.
If there’s something in particular that helps set the mood for you, then go for it. Perhaps you want to light a candle and turn on some music. Maybe you want to put on lingerie or something that makes you feel dominant (leather boots, anyone?). Maybe for the first few times you want to do it with the lights off because it feels easier that way. Again, whatever makes it easier for you is the right way to go.
It’s going to be more fun if there’s lots of touching and kissing and you should mix it up. Stroke his cock for a little bit and then let him take over. Make him play with your pussy or your breasts while you’re humiliating him. Kiss each other. It shouldn’t be a steady stream of dirty words pouring forth from your mouth. It should be a slow burn.
As you get more comfortable with it, feel free to think outside the box and mix it up a little. Sitting on his face and making him worship your pussy while you verbally humiliate him is hugely effective. He can masturbate while you’re doing it if you want to allow him that pleasure. You can be on your back and have him go down on you too.
I’m going to mention this again, but it’s really important that you find this experience arousing or you’re not going to want to do it again. You don’t have to be turned on by humiliating him, but you can be turned on by how he’s pleasuring your body, by a toy vibrating your clit, or even by the exceptional sexual pleasure he’s experiencing as you verbally humiliate him.
Your First Step: Discover What Turns Him on the Most
In my experience (with my fans and Patrons), every cuckold is a little bit different when it comes to what turns them on the most. Some love creampie cleanup, some aren’t into the idea at all. Some are crazy for small penis humiliation. Some are into interracial cuckolding. There are dozens of other specific elements of cuckolding that can be sources of arousal, too (check out my article on cuckold humiliation ideas for even more on this subject).
Your task is to discover what really turns your cuckold on. That’s the easiest way to begin your journey into verbally humiliating him. A little bit of dirty talk about the thing that drives him crazy with lust and you’ll have him cumming in no time.
So, how do you discover what turns him on the most? Unfortunately, this can be easier said than done. I always recommend that you start with a conversation. If he’s willing to tell you then you’ll have saved yourself a lot of time. The problem is that some guys are really insecure about this particular fantasy. They’re nervous you’re going to think less of them or that you’re going to find their fantasies disgusting, etc.
It’s up to you to convince him that he’s not going to drive you away by sharing his fantasy. The key is, you have to actually mean it. If he tells you that the thing that turns him on most is licking another man’s cum from your pussy, you can’t make a face and tell him that’s disgusting (even if you find it pretty gross). That’s a good way to ensure he won’t talk to you about it ever again. For the purposes of this article, I’m going to assume that’s an outcome you’d like to avoid. That’s why you need to be prepared for him to share anything, including stuff that might surprise you.
That being said, chances are good he’s going to share something that’s not too scary (unless the creampie cleanup stuff really freaks you out). If you need more information, feel free to ask questions. Just try not to ask questions like, “Why are you into that?” The truth is, most people can’t really tell you why they’re into a particular kink, just like they can’t tell you why they’re into a particular hair color. It just is.
If he’s struggling to describe what he’s into, you could always ask him to show you examples. There are lots of stories (I’ve written plenty) dealing with cuckold humiliation that feature verbal play in the dialogue. He could probably show you videos or even audio clips (hey, I’ve got a handful of those on my Patreon page too, and some free cuckold audio clips) that might demonstrate the sort of thing he’s into.
If he’s willing to share his fantasies with you, you can move on to the next step. If not, the section below is for you.
What if He Won’t Share
You’d think a guy would be willing to share what turns him on most if his wife was asking, right? You’d think the chance to have his fantasies come true would be enough motivation. Cuckolding is different though. It’s a fantasy that tends to go against everything men are taught. They’re not supposed to want their wives to sleep with other people. That societal programming is part of what makes the fantasy arousing, of course, but it’s also what makes it so hard to admit.
It often comes down to a man worrying that his wife is going to think less of him if he admits his fantasies. One of the dangers here is that sometimes that’s exactly what happens. Most of the time it doesn’t, though. Sometimes your marriage will see significant improvement. One of the great things about having a cuckold husband is that he’s almost always thinking about your sexual pleasure because it goes hand in hand with his (which isn’t always the case in a marriage).
If he’s not willing to share what turns him on, you’re going to have to go hunting for it. Thankfully, it shouldn’t be all that difficult to find what you’re looking for.
This works so much better if he’s wildly aroused when you’re doing it. I recommend creating a situation where you’re in control. A bit of foreplay (of the kissing and groping variety) followed by his clothes coming off and his cock ending up in your hand.
That’s when you begin the hunt. Make it as erotic as possible. Stroke his cock slowly as you whisper to him. Believe it or not, it will be easier for him to admit his deepest fantasies if you’re not making eye contact.
It’s important that you have some sort of starting point. Perhaps your husband has shared a basic cuckold fantasy with you. Perhaps you’ve seen his browser history or read an erotic story together (I might have a few suggestions for you). That’s where you start. It’s often most effective to use that erotic environment to ask questions that can be fodder for his orgasm.
Here’s a little excerpt of an imagined scenario:
You kiss his neck softly and stroke his cock. He groans in pleasure. He’s putty in your hands. You gently nibble on his earlobe and whisper, “Are you thinking about another man’s cock inside me?”
He groans again. He looks at you. He’s surprised and utterly delighted that you’re bringing this up.
“Do you wish someone else’s cock was inside me right now?” you say.
“Yes,” he says before pressing his lips against yours for a feverish kiss.
Precum leaks from his cock as you stroke him. You feel it throbbing in your hand. “Is his cock bigger than yours?” you ask.
He subtly thrusts his hips upwards. He’s telling you he likes that. You’ve hit his sweet spot. “Yes, he’s much bigger than I am,” he says.
Again you kiss his neck. You let your tongue dance over his skin. He’s getting closer now. You unleash another lusty question, “Is he fucking me better than you do?”
He groans. He can’t answer. The pleasure is too much. He cums hard. “Thank you,” he says between heavy breaths.
If that had been you and your husband you’d now know that he’s turned on by the idea of you being with a guy that has a bigger cock and that fucks you better than your husband does. You could also make the broader assumption that he’s turned on by the implication that he’s an inferior lover, because of his size and perhaps his skill.
Here’s another imagined scenario, this time using the information you learned in the last encounter:
You’re straddling your husband. His hard cock is inches from your pussy. He’s desperate to be inside you, to feel your perfect warmth and wetness around his erection.
You rub your pussy over the underside of his shaft and tease his cock head by taking a tiny fraction of it inside you.
“Not tonight, cuckold,” you say. “This little cock doesn’t deserve my pussy. You don’t fill me the way I need to be filled. You don’t fuck me the way I deserve to be fucked.” You lean forward and kiss him softly and sensually before whispering, “I deserve a man with a big cock. I need a man that fucks me better than you ever have.”
Both scenarios work as a form of cuckold verbal humiliation. The first happens to double as a way of investigating what turns him on. If you’re going to make this sort of play a regular thing in your sex life, it’s important to mix it up, so be willing to try them all.
Quick side note: It’s of the utmost importance that you’re finding pleasure in all of this. If you’re not, you will quickly come to resent your husband, and that’s a very bad outcome because resentment leads to divorce. If your husband isn’t excellent with his tongue, it’s time to teach him how to be.
Cuckolds can be selfish, but it’s easy to teach them not to be. It’s pretty simple, really. You have what he wants, which is the ability to offer him the kind of verbal humiliation that makes him cum harder than he’s ever cum before. Make him work for it a little. Make him tend to your pussy with his tongue and fingers. Chances are good his cock isn’t actually as worthless as he might want to believe it is either, so use it if you want. I promise you that you’ll enjoy this more if you come to associate it with your orgasms too.
Second Step: Dip Your Toe into Verbally Humiliating Your Cuckold
One of the dangers of verbal humiliation is that you can go a little too far and end up doing real damage. You can say something that might hit too close to home or might be so hurtful that he can’t get over it, or at least can’t get over it easily. That’s why it’s best to start slow.
I’m going to assume you’ve managed to extract at least a little bit of information from your man so you should have some idea of what he’s into. You’ll have to tailor your approach based on the specificity of that information.
For instance, if he’s told you that he’s really into the idea of you fucking someone with a bigger cock that makes you feel much better than his (this is a pretty common cuckold fantasy) you can get pretty specific with that.
Here’s an example built around the idea of an ex-boyfriend (imaginary or real) that had a bigger cock than your current man:
“His cock felt so good inside me, baby. He stretched out my tight little pussy so good when he fucked me.”
That’s a pretty mild approach that focuses on the other guy. That’s a good place to start, especially if you’re not sure how your man is going to react. If you find your man’s cock perfectly fine or utterly pleasurable and you don’t particularly want to humiliate its size, you can try that approach.
Here’s a different way of approaching the same idea:
“He was much bigger than you, baby. He felt so much better inside me. Your cock doesn’t compare to his. Sometimes I even think about him when you’re inside me. Sometimes I wish it was him fucking me instead of you.”
That’s not so mild. That’s a much more direct and potentially humiliating approach. You’re directly insulting your cuckold’s cock size. You’re telling him you wish your ex-boyfriend was still around to fuck you. Chances are good he’ll enjoy the second version more than the first, but it’s probably not the right choice out of the gate. It’s probably wise to wait until you know more about what kind of verbal humiliation he’s comfortable receiving.
Quick note: This is also a good example of why aftercare is so important. If you’re not actually fantasizing about your ex you really should tell your husband that so he doesn’t freak out the next time you have sex. You both need to be clear that the humiliation is strictly a for-pleasure activity meant to be restricted to the bedroom.
As referenced above, a safe approach on your first time is to make your cuckold humiliate himself. It can be astoundingly hot for him to have to admit to what he perceives are his shortcomings.
Here are some lines you can try out in the midst of a sensual session filled with kissing, touching, and a bit of naughty stroking:
“Do you think I deserve someone bigger than you?” “Do you want to see me cum on a bigger, better cock?” “Should I find another man to satisfy me?” “Do you want to see my tight pussy stretch around someone else’s big cock?” “Do you want me to cuckold you?”
You can tailor your questions to his particular desires. It’s important that he answer, too. That’s all part of the fun. If you need to demand an answer, do so. Embrace your power here. You hold the key to his orgasm. Don’t be afraid to use it to get what you want. You don’t have to carry all the weight here. He can participate.
If you want to get good at this it’s important to try take mental notes as you’re playing. Try and remember what really turns him on (he’ll almost certainly let you know through a louder moan, a thrust of his hips, or by cumming unexpectedly) and dig into that a little deeper next time.
The idea is to start slowly and safely and then work your way into the deeper, naughtier, potentially more interesting stuff. Just make sure you don’t go too far, too quickly and run the risk of doing damage that could be hard to repair.
An Important Note: Make Everything Lusty
This part is really important. Verbal cuckold humiliation works so much better when you take a lusty approach. You’re putting on a performance and it needs to be good. There’s a huge difference between dryly delivering a line and saying it in a way that will dig into the arousal center of his brain and get him off.
Let me give you an example. Listen to these two clips of the exact same line delivered in two different ways:
You can hear the difference, right? I can understand if you’re a little uncomfortable with this sort of thing. Like I said, you’re putting on a performance and that doesn’t work for some people. The performance is important, though. It’s almost as important as knowing what to say, so it’s worth working on. To that end, there will be more audio examples towards the end of the article if you need more references.
There’s a physical element to making everything lusty, too. Imagine the lustily delivered line above having been said right after you’ve teased him with soft kisses on his neck and a quick nibble on his earlobe, or imagine it right after a long, sensual kiss while you’re stroking his stiff cock. It’s unquestionably going to be more effective that way because all of that lusty physical play contributes to a heightened sense of arousal.
Step Three: Repeat and Dig a Little Deeper
As with anything, the more you practice verbally humiliating your cuckold, the better you’ll get at it. To me, this is absolutely something that’s worth getting better at because it can have genuinely positive benefits to you and your cuckold.
You probably don’t need me to tell you this, but if your husband is experiencing orgasms that thrill him beyond words he’s going to be better at being your husband (or at least there’s a good chance he will be).
If his orgasms are happening because of your skillful verbal humiliation he’s going to feel grateful (he damn well better), and that sense of gratefulness will have been earned. A grateful man is a good man, in my experience, and that means a better hubby and maybe even a better marriage.
So, how do you dig deeper? How do you make the verbal humiliation even better for your cuckold (other than by reading all the cuck humiliation stories on my Patreon page, of course)?
It starts by working with the advice I’ve already given. The more you know about what turns him on, the deeper you can dig. Thankfully, the more you indulge in his desire for verbal humiliation, the more likely he’ll be to share his deeper desires with you.
When he does, it’s important not to be judgmental. You don’t have to indulge his every desire, of course, but try your best to avoid saying something is disgusting or sickening. That’s a pretty good way to get him to clam up. Just take it all in and then play with the stuff that you find fun.
It’s also important to remember that there’s often a big difference between what he fantasizes about and what he wants to happen in reality.
Let’s dig into that a little. Lots of cuckolds fantasize about other men getting their wives pregnant. I know it might sound crazy, but it’s really popular and really hot for some guys (and some wives, too). To me, that’s about as extreme as cuckolding gets (if only because the result of actually doing that lasts a lifetime).
I’m fairly certain most cuckolds know that too. They get how big a deal that is. For that reason, most aren’t interested in actually doing through with it. They just like to fantasize about going through with it. That means if he shares that fantasy with you it doesn’t mean he wants someone else to get you pregnant. It just means the idea turns him on and that he knows it’s not going to be reality even if you offer up a touch of verbal humiliation about it when you’re playing.
If you’re not all that familiar with the cuckold fetish, it’s possible there’s quite a few elements of it that you’ll find a touch scary or off-putting (though I could be wrong, of course). These can include your cuckold wanting to suck your lover’s cock to get it hard for your pussy, creampie and cum cleanup, anal play (with him receiving), chastity play (his cock locked up), feminization (him in panties/lingerie) and even castration (I guess that’s more extreme than pregnancy play). There are lots more, too.
Again, there’s no need for you to delve into anything you’re not comfortable with. If you find it off-putting then don’t play in that way.
However, it might be worth exploring ways to get what you need while giving him something he needs even if you don’t find it arousing. Could you find a way to talk about him cleaning another man’s cum out of your pussy? What if he was going down on you while you did it? Wouldn’t that feel good?
Let’s play out how you might delve deeper into the verbal humiliation over the span of several sessions. I’ll use idea of another man cumming inside you as the jumping off point. This is a reliably thrilling notion for a cuckold.
“Do you want him to cum inside me? Do you want him to pump his load into your wife’s wet pussy?”
He’s probably going to say yes the first time you introduce that idea because it’s exactly what he wants. There’s something very primal about it. It ups the stakes. After all, a woman’s husband is supposed to be the one that cums inside her.
Next time, you shift it a little: “I want him to cum inside me. I want him to pump his hot load into my wet pussy.”
Let’s get a little more aggressive: “You’re going to watch him cum inside me, cuckold. You’re going to watch a bigger, better cock pump a hot load into my wet pussy.”
Even more aggressive: “Your little dick doesn’t deserve to cum inside me, cuckold. Only a real man with a cock that can actually satisfy me gets to pump his hot load into my wet pussy.”
Now we float the idea of creampie cleanup play: “Do you want to lick his cum out of my pussy, cuckold? Do you want to lick another man’s load out of your wife’s pussy?”
He does! Let’s push it a little more (he’s between your legs for this one): “Clean his cum out of me, cuckold. Clean his load out of my wet pussy. Be a good boy and lick up every drop of his seed.”
Let’s really go for it (you’re sitting on his face): “That’s it, my little cuckold cum slut. Let me feed you his load. Be a good little cum whore for me. Let it all drip into your mouth and down your throat. Eat his load like a good boy.”
Each session would obviously include more than just a few sentences, but you get the idea. There’s an awful lot to work with. You could ramp up your verbal humiliation play over the course of a few months by following that basic template and that’s just one subject. Most cuckolds are into all different kinds of pleasures, so this is a nearly limitless form of sexual exploration.
An Important Note: Humiliating Nicknames
Don’t underestimate the exceptional power of a humiliating nickname or term to tack on at the end of a skillfully delivered line of cuckold humiliation.
“Your cock isn’t big enough for me, cuckold,” will almost certainly be more effective than “Your cock isn’t big enough for me.”
Cuck, cuckold, and cucky are the three most commonly used if you want to keep it simple. You can pick just one or mix them up. You can dream up your own names too. Perhaps there’s a nickname he might find particularly humiliating that only you would know about.
Feel free to be imaginative, too. Calling him “cucky boy” or “my little cuckold” is a simple, super effective way of humiliating him.
Utilizing words that are often used to demean women can be more effective than you might imagine. Calling him a slut, whore, bitch, etc, might thrill him beyond words. Use it in the right place and you’ll really get him going (like calling him a cum slut in the example above).
Want to Go Deeper? Combine Domination and Humiliation
There’s unquestionably an element of domination when you’re verbally humiliating your cuckold. You can really amp it up if you want, though.
It starts with adopting a more demanding, dominating verbal tone. When you ask him a question it should sound like you already know the answer and that he damn well better tell you what you want to hear. The phrasing should be shifted a little, too.
“I deserve I bigger, better cock, don’t I, cuckold?” instead of “Do I deserve a bigger, better cock?”
The answer is yes to both, but in one you’re demanding he say yes and in the other you’re leaving the door open for him to say no.
It’s usually best to avoid yelling when you’re trying to dominate him. Then it just comes off like you’re angry, and anger isn’t usually all that sexy.
Skillful verbal domination is hard, though, and is the kind of thing you definitely need practice at. If you’re going to do it, just remember to behave as if you’re genuinely in control and there’s no chance he’s going to say no. Bring out his inner submissive by demanding he say yes to your desires.
Sit on his face and ride him while you verbally humiliate him. Remind him that you’re using his tongue because his cock is unworthy of your pussy and unable to pleasure you. Demand that he admit to his inferiority. Feel the power surge through you while recognizing that your domination is getting him off. It can be freeing.
A Short Cuckold Humiliation Story
How about a little story to act as an example of how things might play out when you’ve gotten a little more comfortable with the idea of humiliating your cuckold. Let’s imagine you’re not actually cuckolding him, but you’ve decided to role play a little bit.
You got dressed up in something sexy (or slutty, depending on your preference) and headed out to the car. You muss your hair and make up a little in the mirror, trying to give yourself that freshly-fucked look. Then you head back inside and the fun begins:
You open the door and your husband is waiting on the couch with an eager, expectant look on his face. He’s role playing right along with you. You’ve been out all night and he’s eager to hear about the fun you had.
“Come,” you say while walking past him and into the bedroom.
He eagerly follows. You know he’s staring at your ass in that tight skirt you wore. You shake it for him just a little bit.
You sit on the edge of the bed and pull him to you. There’s an electric kiss. “Can you taste him?” you ask.
He loves the idea that he’s tasting another man’s cock on your lips and tongue. He loves how naughty that is.
“Get naked, cuckold,” you demand.
His eyes light up with pure delight as he strips for you. When his cock emerges, you see that it’s already stiff.
You keep your naughty outfit on. You know it arouses him. You know he loves the idea that you’d dress like that for someone else. You invite him into the bed with you and delicately wrap your fingers around his stiff cock. There’s already precum dripping from the tip.
“Look who’s excited,” you say. “Were you thinking about me while I was gone?”
“Yes,” he says. He’s going to play along. “I couldn’t stop thinking about you.”
“Really? And what were you thinking about?” you ask while stroking him slowly. You don’t give him time to answer though. “Were you thinking about my lips around his big cock?” You kiss him before he has a chance to say anything.
“Were you thinking about his big cock making me cum?” you ask. This time you wait. You want to hear his answer.
“Yes,” he says. You can hear the lust in his voice. You’re making his fantasies come true.
You move closer and kiss your husband’s neck. You hear him moan. It feels good to know you have such control over his pleasure. You whisper, “He was incredible. He fucked me so much better than you ever have. He made me cum so much harder than you ever have.”
You feel his cock throb in your hand. He keeps moaning. He can’t seem to stop. You have him in a place of intense pleasure.
“I don’t know if I can go back to your cock, baby. I think it might be too disappointing to fuck your dick after I’ve had him inside me,” you say while stroking your husband faster.
You can tell he’s getting close. He’s going to cum. “The truth is, he was better than you.” You move in closer again. You nibble his ear lobe and whisper, “He was much better than you, cuckold. Your little dick is never going to feel my pussy again.”
Your husband groans loudly and cums. The orgasm is unlike any he’s experienced. You’ve just shown him a whole new kind of pleasure.
When he recovers, you pull off your panties and guide him between your legs. “Clean me,” you say, continuing the fantasy and demanding the orgasm you deserve after putting on such a wonderful performance.
That’s just one small example of the many kinds of verbal fun you can have with your cuckold.
A Final Note Before the Examples
Verbal humiliation play absolutely needs to be fun for both of you and that fun can come from different places. It can be him making you cum while you humiliate him. It can be that you find it genuinely thrilling to give him such incredible orgasms. It can be fun to put on a naughty performance while playing the part of the cuckoldress of his dreams. It’s just important that you find some form of joy in it because you’re going to get resentful really quickly if you don’t.
Also, and this is really important, you need to practice aftercare. Think of it as restoring your cuckold’s ego after you’ve just done a little damage with the verbal humiliation. Here’s an article about it. It’s not all that difficult to do and it’s an absolute must if you’re going to indulge in this sort of sexual play.
Audio Examples of Verbal Cuckold Humiliation
The hardest thing about verbally humiliating your cuckold is mastering the delivery in a way that he finds arousing. Part of that comes from understanding his fantasies (which you’ll hopefully try and do). Part of it comes from developing the skill set. It doesn’t come naturally to everyone.
Thankfully, with the help of erotic audio artist MizSpecific, I’ve prepared several audio examples of cuckold humiliation for you to listen to. The clips are all relatively short and vary from mild to extreme to give you a sense of the full spectrum of the humiliating pleasures you can offer your cuckold.
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It’s okay if you don’t understand why your husband would crave cuckold humiliation. Sexual desires, especially those that fall outside the boundaries of what’s considered “normal,” are exceptionally difficult to understand. You don’t need to understand it though. You just need to accept and embrace it. Trust me when I say that your cuck hubby will be deeply grateful that you’ve done so.
A few things to keep in mind before I dig in to the various ways you can humiliate your cuckold:
These aren’t one size fits all – It’s best to discuss cuckold humiliation as a couple. Don’t surprise him. He’ll likely be on board with some of the ideas and find others abhorrent. It’s also possible that you’ll both warm up to the more extreme ideas as you gain experience with humiliation.
You don’t have to be cuckolding him – It’s possible to enjoy some of these ideas without actually sleeping with other guys. Some work as is and others can be adjusted.
Aftercare is important – Please refer to the last section to read about aftercare and its importance in ensuring that humiliating your husband doesn’t damage him or your marriage.
Also, if you have any ideas or experiences that I’ve missed, please leave a comment and I’ll add them.
Mild Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Go Lingerie Shopping for Your Lover
It’s such a simple thing, but bringing your husband along while you buy lingerie for another man is a perfect way to humiliate him. It’s a thrilling experience for a cuckold to watch his wife try on the sexiest underwear imaginable knowing that she’s doing it to arouse someone else.
Be sure to work in plenty of verbal play along the way. Ask him “Do you think this will turn him on?” while you hold up a sexy red lace bodysuit. Confidently say “I think he’d love fucking me in this,” when you step out of the dressing room. If a dose of public humiliation works for both of you, say it loud enough for a sales girl or another customer to hear. Your cuckold’s face will burn with humiliation and his cock will throb with desire.
Flirt Openly While Your Husband Watches
This is easiest to do at a bar or lounge. Have your husband find a seat across the room and eagerly flirt with other guys while he watches. It’s even better if there’s music, as you can dance with the guys you like best. If things get a little bit intimate – touching and kissing, etc – then that’s even better. Your cuckold will sit in the corner and watch as you enjoy the attention of other men.
If you dance with a guy or have a make out session, text your husband afterwards and let him know that you could feel the guy’s big cock pressing into you. Tell him you couldn’t help but think about having it inside you and how it would feel so good to finally have a big cock fill your pussy. He’ll love that.
Tell Your Husband His Cock Isn’t Big Enough
For most women, size matters to a degree. Generally, a bigger cock feels better than a small cock. For the purposes of this exercise, you want to play that up. If you want to humiliate your husband, tell him that his cock simply isn’t big enough to make you cum like you desire. Tell him that he just doesn’t measure up. A few suggestions:
“Your cock just isn’t big enough, baby.” “I need a bigger man.” “I cum harder on a big cock than I do on your little cuckold dick.”
You know your husband best, so feel free to keep the degradation to a level you know he can handle. It’s always best to start on the mild side and work your way up. You don’t want to break the man, after all.
Tease and Denial with Verbal Humiliation
Hopefully you’ve embraced your power as the wife of a cuckold husband and taken some form of control over his orgasms. With any luck, tease and denial has already become part of your sex life. It’s thrilling to get your cuck all worked up and desperate for release before denying him the pleasure he craves. There’s even a bit of humiliation in that moment when he submits to you and puts his cock back into his pants without cumming.
You can make tease and denial play even more humiliating by adding in a verbal component. Ask him “Do you deserve to cum?” and inform him that he absolutely doesn’t, because his cock is worthless and can’t make you cum. If you’re denying him access to your pussy, bring it up. “Does your little cock miss my pussy, cuckold?” is a wonderfully effective way to remind him that he’s not allowed to fuck you because your lover does a much better job.
When you’ve made it clear he won’t be cumming, throw in a healthy dose of verbal humiliation. Try “You’re not going to cum today because this pathetic cock hasn’t made me cum in years.” Or “You don’t deserve an orgasm, cuckold. Only a cock that can make a woman cum deserves an orgasm, and your dick certainly isn’t capable of getting me off.”
Fuck in the Backseat of the Car as Your Cuckold Drives
Have your cuckold drive you around town as you fool around in the backseat. It’s better if he doesn’t know what’s going to happen. Give him a destination that’s far enough away to offer ample time for sex. Wear a skirt to make it easier and then get down to business. Start with kissing and feel free to get a little louder than usual about it. Your cuckold will be stiff with desire soon enough.
Go down on your lover in the backseat. Make it a louder blowjob than usual to ensure that your husband knows exactly what’s going on back there. Then, climb on top of that big cock and sink your pussy down on it. Take your lover for a ride until you both (hopefully) climax. Thank him for a particularly good fuck, all while your husband is driving the car. Given how turned on your cuckold will be, it’s wise to be mindful of his driving. If it seems like he’s not concentrating on the road, remind him of his responsibility to keep you safe while you’re enjoying your lover’s cock in the backseat.
Deny Your Cuckold the Pleasure of Watching
This only works if your husband is accustomed to being able to watch you have sex with your lover. If that’s the case, it can be helpful to mix it up every now and then by denying him the pleasure of it. It’s particularly effective to do it right as he’s walking into the bedroom to take his usual place. Simply stop him in the doorway and inform him that he won’t be watching tonight. Then shut the door before he has a chance to argue.
If you’d like to make it a little more painful, you can emphasize the fact that you want to be alone with your lover because you crave something a little more romantic. If you typically fuck, you’re going to make love with just the two of you in the room. You’ll know best if such a thing would be a humiliating delight for your cuckold.
Make Your Husband Sleep in the Guest Room While Your Lover is in the Master Bedroom
If you don’t have a second bedroom, the living room couch will work just fine. The idea is that your lover, the sexually superior man, is kicking your husband out of his place in the master bedroom, at least for one night.
It works best if you don’t tell your husband until after you’ve fucked your lover in the marital bed. In your post-orgasmic bliss, tell your cuckold that your lover will be spending the night. Inform your husband that he is to spend the night in the guest bedroom, alone. If you want to make it a little more humiliating, have noisy sex in the middle of the night to remind your hubby of his place. You can do so again in the morning, too.
Wear Your Bridal Lingerie for Your Lover
If you still have the lingerie you wore on your wedding night and/or your honeymoon, wear it for your lover. Inform your husband that you’ll be doing so. It’s a simple, subtle thing, but it can be humiliating to associate the lingerie you wore on the first night of your marriage with another man’s cock entering you.
This works especially well if it’s the classic all white bridal lingerie and if you only wore it on your wedding night. You can also replace your bridal lingerie with someone else precious and personal to your marriage. You could wear your husband’s favorite dress on a date with your lover, his favorite shirt, etc. You could wear the jewelry he gave you for a big anniversary. All of it can be an effective way of humiliating your cuckold.
Take Control of Your Cuckold’s Orgasms
As a cuckold’s wife, you have more power than you know. Exercise that power by demanding control over his orgasms. He’s not allowed to cum unless you give him permission to do so. Merely submitting to your command can be humiliating, as most men wouldn’t readily admit their wives have complete control over their orgasms.
If you’re a little bit imaginative, you can have a great deal of humiliating fun with your cuckold once you control his orgasms. Make him do something embarrassing before he’s allowed to climax. Make him clean the house naked, or suck your sweaty toes, or worship your ass. If he’s turned on enough, he’ll do damn near anything for the pleasure of an orgasm.
Dress Up Slutty for Your Lover
The vast majority of guys like it when a woman dresses slutty for them. They don’t necessarily want you to dress like a hooker, but getting dolled up like you’re going to a club for a night of dancing and grinding will drive any guy wild.
You’ve probably long since stopped dressing like that for your husband (if you ever did), so do it for your lover. Do it for the man that inspires wetness between your legs and fucks you to incredible orgasms. Your cuckold will feel the familiar burn of humiliation as you get tarted up to arouse another man.
Even better, take your husband shopping to buy slutty clothes for your lover. Make him pick out tight dresses and short skirts and then try them on for him. Ask him if he thinks your lover would be turned on as you model the clothes for him? Make it clear that he won’t be fucking you in them and that you only dress up like that for real men that know how to fuck you.
Subtly Remind Your Husband How Good Your Lover Is
Constant but subtle reminders of how much you enjoy sex with your lover are a simple, beautiful way to humiliate your husband. You’ll need to find a man that really knows how to fuck you, but once you’ve partnered with a guy that rocks your world, all you really need to do is communicate that to your cuckold.
It’s most effective if you do it when your husband isn’t expecting it. He should hear how good your lover is when he’s licking you afterwards or when your lover is inside you (if he’s allowed to watch), but he should also hear it when you’re at the movies, driving to a restaurant, or enjoying a Friday night with pizza and a movie. Whispering into his ear about your lover’s bigger cock or how hard another man made you cum is a perfect way to lightly humiliate your cuckold husband while also arousing him beyond his wildest dreams.
Tell Your Cuckold How Badly You Want to Be with Your Lover
This will be exceptionally easy if you’ve actually found a guy that fucks you like you deserve. You’ll be thinking about him constantly. You’ll be reliving the last time you had sex with him. To humiliate your cuckold you just need to share those thoughts.
If you get horny, make your cuckold go down on you and tell him you wish your lover was there. “I need his cock inside me so badly, baby,” is the perfect thing to say as your cuckold’s tongue is tending to your clit. The humiliation comes in part from the fact that your husband has a hard cock between his legs and in that moment you have no interest in having it inside you. You don’t even have to say it; he’ll know it by your insistence that he go down on you instead of fucking you.
If your cuckold is particularly attentive he’ll notice when your mind has drifted off and you’re daydreaming about your lover. If he asks, tell him. “I was thinking about Tyler’s big cock, honey. I think about it all the time. I want it inside me so badly.” Those words will be enough to send a wave of beautiful humiliation through your cuckold.
Make Him Admit That You Deserve to Fuck Someone Else
This is most effective when you do it repeatedly. It works especially well if you insist that your husband admit that you deserve to fuck someone else right before he’s about to stick his cock inside you.
Your goal should be to refocus your husband’s attention on your pleasure. He should have to admit, over and over again, that you need someone else to fuck you so that you can achieve the orgasms you desire and deserve. You can make it a ritual that’s tied to his sexual pleasure. Before he’s allowed to orgasm, he must first admit that he’s not capable of pleasing you and that you deserve to fuck someone else.
Make Him Beg to be Cuckolded
If you’re reading this, it’s almost guaranteed that your husband wants to be a cuckold. He might feel guilt, shame, and jealousy, but he can’t deny that the notion of you sleeping with other men turns him on. That gives you power, and you should use it to humiliate him.
If he wants you to cuckold him, make him beg for it. Make him fall to his knees, look up at his beautiful wife, and plead with you to sleep with another man. It doesn’t matter how badly he wants it and how much being a cuckold turns him on, when he’s down there asking you to fuck someone else because he’s not good enough, he’ll feel a deep sense of humiliation.
Spank Your Cuckold
While spanking isn’t necessarily related to cuckolding, you can easily tie them together. Assuming he’s inadequate in bed, give him a spanking after he fails yet again to give you an orgasm. Take him over your knee and as you’re swatting his ass, remind him that it’s happening because he couldn’t please his wife, because he couldn’t accomplish the most basic of sexual feats.
Make Your Cuckold Pay for Your Dates with Your Lover
This act of humiliation is small, simple, and rather effective. It will play with your cuckold’s mind on a primal level. The knowledge that he’s paying for you to go on a date with another man will thrill him.
There are so many ways to do it, too. You could have him hand your lover enough cash to cover the date before you leave. You could have him hand over his credit card and watch as your lover puts it in his wallet.
If you want to be especially humiliating, you could have your cuckold husband take a different table at the restaurant where you and your lover are dining. When the waitress brings the check, simply say, “My husband will take the check,” and point to where your cuckold is sitting. The public humiliation will be so beautiful for him.
Go Shopping with Your Lover and Have Your Cuckold Act as Your Valet
A little bit of public humiliation for your cuckold can be exceptionally arousing and going on a shopping trip with your lover is a great way to accomplish that.
Have your cuckold drive you to your destination. Have him carry your bags. Have him pay for everything. You can determine the level of public humiliation you’d like to dole out. For instance, if you really want to humiliate him, make it perfectly clear that you’re deep in lust with your lover as you’re checking out. Then, when the salesperson gives you the total, inform her that your husband will be paying. In that moment, your cuckold will know that the pretty girl behind the register knows some very intimate details of your sex life.
You can go shopping for anything, but it will be more humiliating if you’re shopping for sexy items for you to wear for your lover. Clothing tends to work better for the purposes of this particular humiliation idea because it’s expected that you’re going to come out of the dressing room and model it for your man. In this case, your cuckold will have to witness you modeling it for your lover. Of course, doing a little lingerie shopping is always fun too.
Moderate Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Make Him Wear Panties
One day, when your cuckold is in the shower, pick a pair of panties for him to wear and leave them on the bed (or somewhere else he’ll see them) along with a simple note. “I’d like to see you in these,” or something similar. This works particularly well with a chastity device.
If you want to deepen the humiliation, you can explain exactly why you want him wearing panties. You can be as harsh as you think he can take. “Since you don’t have a real man’s cock, yours should be in a pair of pretty pink lace panties, don’t you think?” He’ll burn with humiliation and be overcome with lust.
Go Panty Shopping for Your Husband
Once he’s wearing panties, you can increase the humiliation by taking him on a shopping trip to buy a pair of his own. Victoria’s Secret is the easiest place. If he’s okay with public humiliation, make sure to comment about how good a sexy pair of panties would look on him. The sales girls will almost always go along with it too, so you can ask them to help you pick out a pair of panties for your husband.
Put His Cock in Chastity
For a man to lose control over his cock and his orgasms can be deeply humiliating. Buy a chastity device, lock his cock inside it, and keep the key on a chain around your neck. He’ll be constantly reminded that you have control over his orgasms, that you’re in charge, and that he needs to be a good boy if he wants release.
If you’d like to increase the humiliation, you can constantly remind him why he’s locked up in the first place. “Your cock is too small to pleasure me, so I’ve locked it up,” is a good place to start. “If your cock can’t please me, then why should you be able to please yourself?” is another good one.
Please check out my article on chastity teasing to add a little extra flavor to your chastity device play.
Do Things with Your Lover You Won’t Do with Hubby
Believe it or not, this tends to happen organically. When you’re with a man that rocks your world in ways you haven’t experienced in years, you tend to want to go the extra mile to please him.
There are lots of options for this. If you never give your husband blowjobs, then go wild with your lover. A shocking number of hotwives have their first anal experience with a lover. Whatever you do, the important thing is to make it clear to your husband that you’re doing it. It’s especially effective if it’s something your cuckold has always wanted. If he’s bugged you about anal sex for years, make sure you emphasize that you’re giving your lover your ass because he’s better in bed.
Share Pregnancy Fantasies with Him
Another man getting you pregnant is the ultimate cuckold humiliation, and while I don’t endorse actually going all the way and letting someone else knock you up (unless your husband can’t get you pregnant, in which case you could talk about it), there’s no harm in sharing pregnancy fantasies with him.
You might find that this arouses both of you, but even if it’s just a delightful humiliation for him, it’s worth doing. It’s most effective if you’re both naked and fooling around. Take hold of his cock and stroke him gently as you kiss his neck and whisper into his ear. Feel free to be as bold as you want.
“I went off the pill, honey, and you won’t be cumming in me anymore. I want to make sure he gets me pregnant.” “I’m going to have another man’s baby.” “Soon, my belly is going to be swollen with his seed, honey. He’s going to get me pregnant. He’s going to knock up your wife.”
Make Your Husband Watch without Being Able to Masturbate
If your husband is like most cuckolds, he desperately wants to watch you get fucked and he really wants to jerk off while another man’s cock is filling you. Deny him that pleasure. Let him watch, but forbid him from masturbating. If he can’t be trusted, then lock his cock in a chastity device.
Even better, tie him to a chair with a really good view of the sex. His hands will be bound and he’ll be insanely aroused but completely unable to do anything about it. To make it extra painful, get him hard after you tie him up and then leave him to join your lover in bed and have mind-blowing sex while your cuck watches.
Let Your Husband Listen on the Phone While You Fuck Your Lover
Go to a hotel room or your lover’s place and call your husband. Put the phone on speaker and mute him so he can listen without you hearing anything from his end. Then, enjoy an evening of pleasure with another man’s cock inside you.
You can choose to act as if your cuckold isn’t there, or you can play it up a little. The latter is the more humiliating choice. Moan a little louder. Go down on your lover a little more vigorously. If it works for you, add in verbal play like “Your cock is so much bigger than my husband’s” or “Your cock feels so much better than my husband’s.” A little something like “I missed this cock baby. I need it inside me so badly,” is a good way to remind your cuckold why you’re with another man and he’s at home.
Make Your Husband Thank Your Lover for Fucking You
It can be remarkably humiliating for a cuckold husband to thank another man for fucking his wife. This is especially true if he’s made to explain exactly why he’s so grateful that another man has taken his place in the bedroom.
In most cuckold relationships, the wife is with another man because her husband can’t quite give her everything she needs sexually. If that’s the case in your relationship, then your cuckold will experience deep humiliation when he thanks your lover for giving you what he’s been unable to provide. This one is a little dangerous though, so be sure your husband can handle it before you require it of him.
Make Your Husband Beg Your Lover to Fuck You
Your cuckold husband will be enormously turned on whenever you’re with your lover. If he’s allowed to watch you fool around and enjoy sensual foreplay, this will be doubly true. You can use that to humiliate him. In that moment right before your lover’s cock penetrates you, make your husband beg him to fuck you.
When he gets turned on like that, the one thing in the world your husband wants is to see you have sex with another man. Make him give voice to that. Make him beg another man to fuck you. Make him do it exactly as you want. Make him repeat himself over and over. Make him say that he wants another man to fuck his wife because he’s inadequate when it comes to sex.
Make Your Husband Do Errands for Your Lover
Invite your lover over to fuck you, but instead of letting your husband watch, make him leave the house to do errands for your lover. If he needs his car washed, your cuckold can do it while the two of you are having sex. If he needs his dry cleaning picked up, that’s perfect. The more menial the task, the more humiliating it will be.
To add a little extra humiliation, invite your cuckold into the bedroom after you and your lover have fucked. He should walk through the door to see the two of you naked and cuddled together. In that moment, when you would typically reward him with an orgasm or the chance to lick your pussy, send him out on another errand and let him know that while he’s gone, you’ll be fucking your lover again.
Go on a Romantic Vacation with Your Lover
A romantic vacation would typically be reserved for you and your husband, which is precisely why going on one with your lover will be humiliating for your cuckold. I wouldn’t recommend this unless you really like your lover and can spend time with him doing something other than having sex.
Start with a weekend away. Pick a hotel that’s known for romance (a boutique hotel is always a good choice) and pack lots of lingerie and sexy clothes, making it clear to your cuckold that you’re going to spending a lot of time fucking someone else while you’re away. You can even have hubby help you pack.
While you’re there, treat it like any other vacation. Enjoy the romance and the great sex. Enjoy a new experience with a man you’re hopefully enamored with, at least sexually. If you want to increase the humiliation, be in constant contact with your cuckold. Send him texts about the great sex you just had or call him and let him listen while you fuck. You can even send him pictures of the fun you’re having.
Swallow Your Lover’s Cum, Not Your Husband’s
Guys love it when you swallow their cum. You can make that work for you as a naughty way to humiliate your husband. It can be as simple as swallowing your lover’s cum while your husband watches. If you happen to swallow your husband’s cum, you can inform him that you’ll no longer be doing so and that only your lover gets the pleasure of cumming in your mouth.
Perhaps you find the whole thing disgusting (you wouldn’t be alone). If that’s the case, you can still do it every once in a while just to arouse your lover and humiliate your husband. If you’ve never swallowed your cuckold’s cum, just imagine what he’ll feel when you let another man cum in your mouth so you can swallow it.
Spend Valentine’s Day with Your Lover
Valentine’s Day is for couples and you’d normally spend it with your husband. For a dose of cuckold humiliation, consider spending it with your lover. There’s a lot of room to have fun with this scenario.
Before V-Day, go lingerie shopping with your husband and pick out something you’re going to wear for your lover. Inform your husband that the man that makes you cum is the one that deserves to spend the year’s most romantic holiday with you. You can invite your lover to your house and make your cuckold serve you both (refill your champagne glasses, bring you chocolate, etc).
You could also go on a romantic dinner date with your lover and check in to a hotel for the evening, leaving your cuckold to stay home and imagine what you’re doing. Upending what is traditionally a holiday for couples and turning it into a holiday for you and your lover is rife with humiliating possibilities for your cuck.
Make Your Cuckold Find a Lover for You
It’s easier than ever to go online and find a man to fuck, which means your cuckold can do it for you. The entire experience will be blissfully humiliating. You can tell him what you’re looking for or let him make the choice. Either way, he’ll have to spend hours, maybe days, considering what kind of man would be suitable to fuck his wife and to make her cum far better than he’s ever been able to.
When he talks to the guys, have him make it clear that he’s looking for someone to fuck his wife because he’s inadequate in bed. It will make every interaction with your potential lovers humiliating. You’ll have to make sure he’s not picking a crazy person, but by the time the search is over you’ll have a new man to fuck and your cuckold will be suitably humiliated.
Make Your Cuckold Admit That He Has an Inadequate Cock
Take your husband to the bedroom and have him strip. Get naked with him (or wear lingerie) and turn him on. Have him lie on his back while you kiss him, grind on him, and generally drive him wild with desire.
When he’s reached a place of wild desire, press your body next to his and take his cock in your hand. Gently run your fingers around the head and feel him shudder with pleasure next to you. The goal here is to get your husband to a place where he readily admits that his cock simply isn’t good enough to satisfy you (even if that’s not entirely true).
You’re free to take whatever approach works best for you. A soft, slow, sensual approach is what I’d recommend, though. Nibble his ear lobe while you slowly stroke his cock and whisper, “Don’t you think I deserve something bigger and better than your cock?” You can tell him about a former lover that had the size you crave. It might take a while for him to come around, but soon he’ll eagerly admit that his dick just isn’t good enough for you.
Do a Cock Comparison
This only works if there’s a significant size difference between your cuckold and your lover (which is not always the case). If that size difference exists, this is an exceptionally effective form of humiliation.
Get your lover hard through your preferred means (kissing, handjob, oral sex, etc). Make your cuckold watch and masturbate, though he must not cum. Once they’re both erect, have them stand close enough that the comparison is obvious.
It works best if you let both cocks rest in the palm of your hands. If you can stand being on your knees between the two of them, that will be most effective. That way, your cuckold will be forced to look down at you and your lover’s cock as you both show and tell him exactly why he has no business fucking you.
The verbal component is important here. You need to tell him exactly why his cock doesn’t get to fuck you. Don’t just show it. Talk about it. Ask your cuckold questions, too, and make him answer. “Do you understand why your cock doesn’t belong inside me, cuckold?” is a good example.
It’s also worth doing this from your knees because you can make your cuckold watch as you offer your lover oral pleasure. Take him into your mouth and run your tongue over the head of his cock. Ask your cuckold if he’s jealous. Tell him that only a man with a nice big cock deserves the pleasure of your mouth.
Make Your Cuckold Watch from Outside the House
The idea is fairly simple and straightforward: You send your husband out of the house while you enjoy your lover’s big cock and you give him permission to watch through the window.
This idea works on multiple levels. First, you’re denying him the pleasure of watching in person, which he no doubt enjoys. Second, you’re making him hide outside the house like a pervy voyeur and he will no doubt have to hope he doesn’t get caught, especially if he’s going to masturbate as he watches (which you should encourage him to do).
If you want to make this naughty idea even more fun, plan to do it with a man that doesn’t know you cuckold your husband. It’s even better if it’s a friend of his. Send your cuckold out in a way where his friend would expect him to be gone for quite a while. Then, use your seductive charms to convince that friend to fuck you, all while your cuckold watches from outside the house like the pervy voyeur he is.
Make Your Cuckold Massage You and Your Lover
Your cuckold almost certainly enjoys giving you massages (and if he doesn’t, you really should train him to do so; it’s wonderful). He probably wouldn’t enjoy giving your bull a massage, though. He’d probably find it quite humiliating, in fact.
Try a simple scenario to start out. Have your cuckold sit on the floor as you and your lover enjoy a movie. Make the cuckold massage your feet. He can start with yours, but he’ll have to rub your lover’s feet too.
If you want to make it a little more humiliating, start to make out with your lover as your cuckold is massaging you. Make it seem like his foot rub has enticed you into showing your sexual desire for the other man in your life.
If you want to graduate to different kinds of massage, go ahead. Turn your cuckold into your personal masseuse if you want. He could give you both back rubs and then watch as you fuck.
Advanced Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Have Him Place Your Lover’s Cock Inside You
When you and your lover are ready to fuck, have your cuckold guide his cock inside you. Get into position, and then order the cuck to take hold of your lover’s dick and place it at the entrance to your pussy. Adding in a “good boy” when he’s completed his task can be very effective. You can have him do it multiple times over the course of a fuck session, too. With every position switch your cuckold can be called over to place your lover’s cock inside you.
Make Him Wear a Condom While Your Lover Gets to Cum Inside You
Your husband is likely accustomed to releasing his cum inside you. Let’s end that. This one is hard to do if you’re not with a lover long term, but if you get to the point where you’re letting another man cum inside you, take that pleasure away from your husband.
It’s hottest to do it right before you’re going to have sex with your cuckold (assuming you still do so). He’s between your legs, his cock is hard and dripping with precum, and just as he’s about to slide into you, pull out a condom and insist that he put it on. Inform him that from now on your lover will be the only man that gets to cum inside you.
Want to make it a little more humiliating? Try these bits of dirty talk: “Only a man that gives me orgasms gets to cum inside me.” “Only a real man’s cock gets to cum inside me.” “It’s his pussy now, honey. Only he gets to cum inside me.” “I don’t want your cum inside me anymore. I only want his.”
Deny Him Access to Your Pussy
Your pussy is a great source of pleasure for your husband, so why not deny him access to it? The very act of forbidding him from fucking you is delightful (especially if you’re getting all the sex you need from someone else), but you can make it so much more humiliating.
If you want to humiliate your cuckold, make it absolutely clear why he’s being denied. Ask him “Why would I let you fuck me when you can’t make me cum?” You could also try, “You don’t deserve to fuck me, cuckold. Your cock isn’t worthy of my pussy. I need a better, bigger man.” Make it clear that he’s not allowed to fuck you because he doesn’t satisfy you and you’ll put him in his place.
Tell a Friend about Your Husband’s Inadequate Cock
We’re treading on dangerous ground here, so I certainly don’t recommend it to everyone, but it’s unquestionably humiliating to tell a close friend about your husband’s small cock or his lack of skill in bed. Obviously your cuckold needs to know you’ve shared this information, but you need to be sure he can handle it and not be completely destroyed by your sharing.
If he can handle that kind of humiliation, consider doing it while he’s in the room. Have him sit and listen as you tell your friend how your husband can’t please you in bed or doesn’t have a big enough cock to fill you like you desire. You can do the same thing with a lover, to be honest, and while it won’t be quite as humiliating, it can be a good place to start.
Have Pregnancy Risk Sex, or Fake It
I honestly can’t recommend having genuine pregnancy risk sex (that’s unprotected sex with your lover when you’re not using some form of birth control). To me, the potential consequences far outweigh the pleasure. However, there’s nothing wrong with pretending that you’re doing it. Tell your husband that you’ve gone off the pill (or pulled out the ring) and that you want your lover to get you pregnant.
The other risk here is that it’s hard to know how your husband is going to react. That’s why you should know ahead of time if your cuckold finds pregnancy play arousing while being humiliating, or if it would just make him furious. You don’t want to cross a boundary.
Try a Cuckold 69
If you’re not familiar, a cuckold 69 is when your husband is on the bottom, you’re on top of him, and your lover is fucking you from behind. Your cuckold gets an extreme close up view of another man sliding into your pussy. He gets to witness your lover’s size and your wetness for him. Plus, you can make him lick your clit, lick your lover’s shaft, or suck on his balls if you so choose.
You can play with your husband’s cock if you’d like, but you’re also welcome to leave it alone entirely. It’s a little more frustrating and humiliating for him to be so close to your mouth and hands and to be denied those pleasures. Feel free to concentrate on your pleasure in that moment (and if your husband is licking your clit as you get fucked, it should be quite pleasurable).
Make Your Husband Eat His Cum
Many men are aroused by the idea of eating their cum, but only before they’ve had an orgasm. Once they climax, every bit of that desire goes away. You can humiliate your cuckold continually by making him eat his cum every time he has an orgasm.
You don’t need a reason other than he’s a cuckold and you’re his wife and it’s what you want. He might fight you, but eventually he’ll relent. He wants you to fuck other men. He wants you to tease him about it. He wants you to reward him with the chance to lick your pussy. Just make it clear that if he doesn’t consume his cum after every orgasm, he gets none of those things. He’ll be your little cum slut before you know it.
Make Your Husband Your Waiter/Servant/Slave for an Evening
Invite your lover over for the evening. Have your husband greet him at the door, take his coat, and offer him a drink. Have dinner together and make your cuckold act as your waiter. Make him see to your every need for the evening, like he’s your servant.
It will be most thrilling and humiliating if you extend his service to your sexual play. Have him undress you as your lover watches. Have him prepare your pussy with his tongue. If you’ve delved into bisexual play, have him fluff your lover to get him hard for you. Treat him like a borderline slave and you’ll deepen his humiliation.
Give Your Cuckold Cock-Flavored Kisses
Invite your husband to join you on your knees in front of your lover. Make him watch as you give a sensual, sexy blowjob. Show him how much you love sucking your lover’s big cock. Then, pull your mouth off the thick erection and share a long, deep tongue kiss with your cuckold. Ask him “How does his cock taste, cucky?”
This is especially good for couples that have yet to delve into bisexual play (or those that will never cross that boundary). To watch you eagerly devour another man’s cock is humiliating enough, so pulling him to share kisses right after you’ve pulled your mouth off that dick doubles down on those delightful feelings. Do it over and over, and make sure that there’s plenty of dirty talk to go along with it.
Have a Friend Spank Him
Spanking can be so much more humiliating for your cuckold if you involve a friend. You can be up front about it too. Tell your husband that you’ve invited your friend over because you need someone else to understand just how inadequate he is. Then, have him strip to show her his small cock before he bends over her knees and takes a spanking.
You need to make sure your friend is fully on board and understands that what you’re doing isn’t to be discussed outside of your house. There’s no need to completely destroy your husband by inviting a friend that will blab to everyone she knows about your marriage. If you have that trust, and she happens to be kinky, then ask her over to give your cuckold husband’s ass a hard spanking.
Make Your Cuckold Masturbate in a Condom Filled with Your Lover’s Cum
First you get the pleasure of having sex with your lover. Feel free to take your time and make it especially arousing for your cuckold. If he can be trusted to masturbate without cumming, let him do it. This will work better if he’s really turned on by the time you offer him the condom.
After your lover has ejaculated in the condom, carefully pull it off of him and offer it to your husband. Make sure you haven’t informed him of your plans. It will be more humiliating if it’s a surprise.
Inform him that if he wants to orgasm he’ll have to put on the used condom and bathe his cock in your lover’s cum while he masturbates. Chances are good he’ll do it without hesitation.
Begin a Regular Cum Feeding Practice
For the purposes of this idea, cum feeding is the act of you literally feeding your cuckold a load of semen from your pussy. It specifically involves you sitting on his face and letting the sperm seep out of your body and into his mouth.
It’s obviously very similar to him cleaning a creampie, but this act feels more dominant. This is him submissively lying on his back while you straddle his face and feed him from your pussy. It will have a different mental impact on him, and you want that.
You don’t even have to have a lover to do this. You can feed your cuckold his own loads if you haven’t begun sleeping with anyone yet. Verbal play during the cum feeding can be very helpful. Ask him if it tastes good. Tell him that he’s a good boy for eating semen out of your body. Tell him how much you love feeding him a yummy load.
Bring Your Cuckold on Vacation with You and Your Lover
It’s always fun to go on a vacation with your lover, but it’s so much more humiliating for your cuckold if you bring him along. Just think of the possibilities.
You could get a room with two beds and spend the entire vacation in your lover’s bed. You could make your cuckold listen as you have sex while he’s forbidden from masturbating or joining in any way. You could have him join in and make him suck cock, clean your pussy, etc.
You absolutely should have your cuckold serve the both of you. Make him bring your bags to your room. Make him cover all the bills. Make him rub sunscreen on the both of you. It’s vacation, and anything goes. Feel free to treat him like little more than a servant. The humiliation of it will thrill him.
Seduce Your Husband’s Boss
There’s some obvious danger with this one that you should consider, especially in modern workplaces. You don’t want to get your husband fired, after all. Still, it can be wonderfully humiliating for him if you seduce his boss, and there are multiple ways to do it.
You could seduce his boss without sharing the knowledge that you’re a hotwife and your husband is a cuckold. You could make him think that he’s fucking a cheating wife. You could tell him that he’s incredible, that he’s so much better than your husband. Then you share it all with your cuckold and he spends the rest of his work days knowing that his boss is well aware of his sexual shortcomings.
You could also seduce his boss and share the reality of your marriage with him. You could tell him that your cuckold husband’s small cock doesn’t satisfy you, that you want a powerful, strong, sexy man to fuck you. You could fuck your husband’s boss over and over and tell him that he doesn’t need to be shy about reminding your cuckold that he’s been fucking his wife.
Recreate Your Wedding Night, Only with Your Lover Fucking You
Chances are good that you and your husband got into cuckolding long after you were married. Chances are also good that he’s had a fantasy about a cuckold wedding night at some point in his life. Why not make that fantasy a reality as a chance to humiliate him?
If possible, rent a room at the hotel where you spent your wedding night. If it still fits, put on your wedding dress and the lingerie you wore. Re-enact the part where you and your husband entered the hotel room (perhaps he carried you across the threshold). From that point forward, change everything.
Have your lover waiting in the room. Put your cuckold in his place immediately. Inform him that the first person to fuck your married pussy is going to be your lover because your husband’s cock is too small to satisfy you (or any reason you prefer).
From there you can use your imagination. You could make your cuckold sleep on the floor while your lover sleeps in the bed with you. You could make him orally service both of you. You could fuck him with a strapon. The possibilities are endless and they’re all humiliating for your cuckold.
Have Your Cuckold Fuck a Blow Up Doll
This is most effective if your cuckold is particularly desperate for an orgasm, so try for multiple weeks of denial before you introduce the blow up doll. He still won’t want to do it, of course, but if you tell him it’s the only way he’s allowed to orgasm, he’ll embrace his humiliation and slide his disappointing little cock into the rubber pussy of the blow up doll.
To enhance everyone’s pleasure, don’t tell your cuckold he’ll be fucking a blow up doll that evening. Just tell him that he’s going to have the pleasure of an orgasm. Get him all worked up with touching and kissing. Get him to that place of lusty madness – much easier if he hasn’t cum in a long time – and then bring the blow up doll out of the closet, lay it in the bed, and instruct your cuckold to fuck it. As always, the delivery matters, so here are a few examples of what you might say to make his humiliation a little deeper, and a little more exciting:
“That’s the only pussy you’re getting for a long time, cuckold, so you can fuck that rubber slut or you can fuck no one.” “You’re certainly not fucking me anytime soon, so I’d take what you can get, cuck.” “That’s right, cucky. A blow up doll is the only kind of woman that will ever have any interest in having your cock inside her.”
You don’t have to have your bull watch, but the experience will be more humiliating for your cuckold if he does. If you want to make it extra humiliating, you and your bull could fuck on one side of the bed while your cuckold fucks the blow up doll on the other side. As he gets closer to his orgasm, pay closer attention to him. Laugh at how pathetic he looks as he’s about to cum inside a blow up doll and I guarantee you’ll deepen the pleasure of his orgasm.
Extreme Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Have Him Fluff Your Lover
Want to push your cuckold’s boundaries? Have him suck your lover’s cock to get him nice and hard for your pussy. Have your lover stand and order your cuckold to fall to his knees in front of the superior man. Order him to suck cock, to get that big beautiful dick hard for you.
You can deepen his humiliation with verbal encouragement/taunting: “You’re such a good cocksucker, cuckold.” “Do you like being a cocksucker?” “What a nasty cock slut you are.”
If your lover is comfortable with it, having him join the verbal play can be deeply humiliating for your cuckold. Hearing another man call him a good cocksucker or a slut will put him in his place as a cuckold.
Have Him Suck Your Lover’s Balls
There are a couple of fun ways to do this. While you’re going down on your lover, invite your husband to join you and have him suck on those big balls. It might be a little difficult to find enough room for the both of you, but it’s worth it. If you can’t both fit in there, pull your mouth off and have your cuck suck his nuts for a bit.
To increase the humiliation, have him suck your lover’s balls while you’re getting fucked. This is easiest if your lover is sitting in a chair or on the couch and you’re on top. Have him slide his ass forward until his balls are right at the edge and then invite your cuckold to get in there and take those nuts into his mouth.
Have Him Rim Your Lover’s Ass
Your lover needs to be extra clean back there (he should shower right before sex, to be honest) but it’s deliciously humiliating to make your cuckold rim his asshole while you’re getting fucked. This is easiest to accomplish during doggystyle with your lover standing while you’re in the bed.
Have your cuckold get on his knees behind your lover. He should have a beautiful view of your pussy being filled. Let him watch for a little while, and then order your cuckold to eat out your lover’s asshole. As an added benefit, your lover will get to enjoy a rimjob while he’s inside you.
Strapon Fuck Your Husband
Strapon sex (sometimes referred to as pegging) isn’t necessarily humiliating. Lots of couples indulge in pegging without any element of humiliation. That’s why I’m calling this a strapon fucking. Let’s think of this as something a little different. You’re savaging his asshole. You’re making him your bitch. You’re taking away a little part of his manhood as you pound him with your strapon cock.
Extra humiliation: Either buy a dildo that’s a close facsimile to your lover’s or buy a make-your-own-dildo kit and make an exact copy of his cock and then fuck your cuckold with it. While you’re doing so, rain verbal humiliation down on him. “Do you like his cock in your ass, cuckold?” Getting fucked by your lover’s dick while you’re wielding it should be sufficiently humiliating for any cuckold.
Make Him Clean a Creampie
Once you’ve started having unprotected sex with your lover, it’s worth making your husband clean up another man’s cum. Presumably he’s cumming inside you – why deny yourself that pleasure? – and that alone can be wonderfully humiliating for your cuckold. Take it to the next level and make him clean that creampie.
After your lover has cum inside you, invite your cuckold between your legs. Let him admire another man’s cum as it leaks out of you, and then order him to clean it up. “Clean me, cuckold. Clean his cum out of me.” Verbal play can significantly increase the humiliation and pleasure your cuck feels. “This is your place, cuckold. Eating another man’s cum out of your wife’s pussy is your place. Now be a good boy and clean me.”
Make a Girlfriend Babysit Your Cuckold as You Fuck Your Lover
This is a delightful form of humiliation that requires you having a friend that’s totally on board. You invite that friend over to babysit your husband while you’re out fucking your lover. It works best if you have a reason. The simplest is that you don’t trust him not to masturbate and your friend is there to ensure he’s a good boy all night long.
If you want to deepen the humiliation, tell your friend to engage with your cuckold. “How does it feel to know that your wife is getting fucked by a bigger, better cock right now, cuckold?” is an effective question that will put him into a place of deep cuckold humiliation, especially if he’s forced to answer. Have your friend make it clear you’ve told her all about how good your lover is in bed and how much better he is than your cuckold husband.
Have Your Cuckold Take a Facial from Your Lover
You’ll have to consult with your lover beforehand, but if he’s willing to give your husband a facial it will be deliciously humiliating. As long as you know your cuckold will go along with almost anything, it’s best to keep it a surprise. Play along as if you’re going to stick to the normal routine (whatever that might be), and then as your lover is getting close to his climax, order your husband to his knees.
It should be as simple as saying, “He’s going to cum on your face.” If he’s a good hubby, he’ll wait to be covered in another man’s spunk. He’ll be anxious, aroused, excited, and humiliated before anything happens. When thick ropes of cum are sprayed across his face, he’ll unquestionably feel the humiliation. If you’re feeling naughty, call him a cum slut or tell him he looks good with another man’s cum on his face.
Make Hubby Drink Your Lover’s Cum from a Glass
Whenever your husband consumes your lover’s cum it’s humiliating, but there are so many delicious ways to do it that it’s worth trying them all. In this case, you’ll pour your lover’s cum out of a condom and into a drink and make your husband drink it while you both watch.
After your lover has cum, have your cuckold prepare the drink. A clear liquid works best – Vodka or Gin would be perfect – as he’ll be able to see the semen in the glass before he drinks it. Hand your husband the condom and watch as he pours it into the drink. Then encourage him to drink it down. “Does his cum taste good, cucky?” is a nice way to humiliate him as he’s consuming another man’s seed.
Make Your Cuckold Clean Your Lover’s Cum of Your Engagement Ring
As your lover is about to cum, have him pull out and shoot his cum on your wedding band and engagement ring. Hold your hand on your stomach so he won’t make a massive mess with his cumshot. Once he’s finished, have your cuckold come right over and clean up the cum.
The act of licking another man’s semen off the ring he gave you to propose marriage is a beautiful form of humiliation. It will linger long after he’s done it and you can bring it up over and over again.
Find a Bisexual Guy to Fuck Your Husband
For a straight man, the act of being anally penetrated by another guy is deeply humiliating. That’s why you’re going to convince your cuckold to bend over for another man and take it up the ass.
This isn’t something you want to force him into. You need to convince him that he wants it, or at least convince him to submit to it for your pleasure. That should be easy enough to do, honestly. Most straight husbands will freak out at the notion that getting fucked makes them gay, but if he’s doing it for you, it has no impact on his sexuality.
Orgasm denial with lots of teasing is the best way to warm him up to the idea. While you’re slowly stroking his cock, tell him the idea of watching him get fucked turns you on. Tell him how badly you want him to take another man’s dick in his ass. Tell him how badly you want him to submit to cock for you.
This works best if you really are turned on by it. It can be that bisexual play turns you on, that your husband’s submission turns you on, or that you genuinely enjoy humiliating him. When he finally gets fucked, you should be involved. Play with his cock as he’s taking it anally, or let him lick your pussy and give you pleasure. It all works.
Make Your Cuckold Clean an Anal Creampie
You need to be extra clean before you do this, but once you are there’s little risk of harm coming to your cuckold when he eats another man’s cum out of your asshole. It’s that extra bit of filthiness that introduces a higher level of humiliation to this behavior.
This works even better if your lover is the only one permitted to have anal sex with you. Have your cuckold watch and remind him of that fact while you’re being taken anally. Then, urge your lover to cum inside you so your cucky can clean it up (also, play with your clit while you’re having anal sex as it will make it even better).
Have your cuckold approach you from behind while you’re on your hands and knees. There likely won’t be much cum to clean up at that point, but there should be plenty of left over moisture from the sex. Have him lick it up. If the creampie is leaking out, have him clean that too. Chances are good you’ll have to sit on his face to effectively lick your lover’s cum from your asshole. That’s even better.
Strapon Fuck Your Cuckold as He Blows Your Lover
Have your cuckold get on his hands and knees and take your lover’s cock into his mouth. Tell him, “That’s it baby, suck his cock. Be a good little cocksucker for me,” while you lube his asshole to be penetrated by your strapon.
Gently push inside him as he continues to suck cock. Make sure you’re using a dildo that will fit inside him with ease. Once you’re inside your cuckold, find a rhythm with your lover and spit roast him properly. You fuck his ass and your lover fucks his mouth.
Want to up the ante? Treat him to verbal humiliation. “You’re such a slut, taking cock from both ends,” is a good place to start. You can have your lover get it on the action too, asking your cuckold if his cock tastes good, etc.
Have a Friend Strapon Fuck Him
We’ve talked about how taking a strapon ass fucking can humiliate your cuckold husband, but you can go deeper. Invite a friend over to do it. Humiliate him in front of another woman, and one that’s anally pounding him.
This should include lots of verbal play, so make sure your friend understands how you want to do it. You should have a sense of how much your husband can take and how harsh you want to be with him.
Because your friend will be fucking him (doggystyle, preferably) you can be more intimate with your husband. Look him in the eyes. Kiss him. Ask him, “Does her cock feel good in your ass, cuckold?” Make him answer. Tell her to spank his ass while she’s fucking him. If she’s comfortable with it, have her get verbal too. She could say things like, “Take my cock, cuck. Take my dick up your ass you little slut.” It will all be intensely humiliating.
Have Your Cuckold Wear Your Cum Filled Panties
This one works best if you’re having unprotected sex with your lover. Whether your cuckold is watching or not, enjoy the incredible sex you typically have with your lover. After he cums inside you, quickly put on your panties. It’s best to choose a pair that will do a fairly good job of holding the cum in them as it leaks out of you. If it can also be a pair that your cuckold would find extra humiliating to wear, even better (maybe pink satin with frilly bows).
Wait long enough for most of your lover’s cum to leak out of your pussy and into your panties. Once it has, pull the panties off and hand them to your cuckold. Make him wear them.
The humiliation of wearing your panties will be significantly increased by having to do so while they’re full of your lover’s cum. Make him spend hours with another man’s semen soaking into his balls and resting against his small cock.
As always, a little verbal humiliation can go a long way here:
“How does it feel to have a superior man’s cum in your panties, cuck?” “Do you like the way his warm cum feels against your worthless cock, honey?”
If you’re feeling extra naughty, make your cuckold reach into your panties and play with his cock like it’s a clit. Make him use your lover’s cum as lube as he rubs the head of his dick. Make him stop before he cums.
Make Your Cuckold Completely Satisfy Your Lover
We’re in full bisexual territory here, because you’re going to make your cuckold do all the work of making your lover cum. He’s going to suck cock and he’s going to get fucked. He’s going to be you for an evening. Emphasize that point, too. He’s taking your place in pleasuring your lover. He’s doing it because you can’t.
If you want, you can tell him that you’re on your period and you just don’t want to have sex. You can also just make him do it. Even hearing you demand that he satisfy your bull will be humiliating. Having to actually do it will deepen that feeling.
Help him out by coaching him through it. Tell him how good he looks with your lover’s cock in his mouth. Tell him that he’s being such a good boy by submitting to your desires and giving a gorgeous blowjob. Play with his asshole as he’s giving head and tell him that soon he’s going to get fucked by a real man.
Have your cuckold husband get on his hands and knees. Make him beg for your lover’s cock. Tell him you want to see him get fucked. Tell him you want him to fall in love with your lover’s big dick just like you have.
Have your lover fuck your cuckold until he cums. For an extra dose of humiliation, have your lover wear a condom, and when he’s done peel it off and feed the load to your cuckold. Then, make him thank your lover for fucking him.
Send Your Cuckold to Your Lover’s House to Suck Him Off
Take your cuckold’s cocksucking to the next level by sending him to your lover’s house to suck him off without your supervision or encouragement. This works even better if you’re doing it because you’re out of town.
The next time you go on a business trip, confer with your lover beforehand and arrange for him to welcome your cuckold to his home. Then inform your cuckold that he needs to step in for you and see to your lover’s sexual needs by sucking him off in your stead.
This is a wonderful form of bisexual cuckold humiliation. It may take a little convincing, but you’ll get him there eventually. Make sure you emphasize that your cuckold is doing it for you. Let him know that it would make you exceptionally happy if he were to suck your lover’s cock and swallow his load when you’re not able to. If he does it once, you can make him do it again and again.
Feed Him a Load of Your Lover’s Cum from a Condom
Consuming another man’s cum is wonderfully humiliating for a cuckold. It works on a deep, primal level and is a great way of putting him in his place.
You can deepen his humiliation by coming up with a variety of ways to get him to consume your lover’s cum. A simple, exceptionally hot way of doing it is to have your lover cum in a condom and then feed your cuckold that cum.
You can make it more humiliating by making a little production out of it. Dip the tip of the condom in his mouth. Make him suck your juices off of it. Make him beg for the pleasure of eating your lover’s cum.
Then, put the open end in his mouth and lift the cum-filled tip. Make sure the cum slides down the condom slowly. You want your cuckold to have to live with the anticipation for a little while. Finally, make him hold the cum in his mouth before he swallows. Make him show it to you. Then give him the instruction to consume your lover’s load.
Make Your Cuckold Consume Your Lover’s Cum in Public
You will need to be subtle about this, but it can be deeply humiliating to make your cuckold consume your lover’s cum in public. He’ll be torn between a deep desire to submit to your naughty request and a desire to hide the fact that he’s a cum eating cuckold. It will be so sexy.
The easiest way to do it is to mix your lover’s cum into a drink. Bars and lounges are usually dark so you’ll likely be able to pour it from a condom and into the drink without anyone noticing. Then your cuckold is free to enjoy delicious sips of a cum-flavored drink as you all hang out together. Plus, you can offer a little extra humiliation via the manner in which you extract the cum. Make him watch you fuck your lover in the car to collect the cum. Slip into the bathroom as he waits at the bar, knowing full well that his wife is fucking another man.
If you’re in the mood to be a little bolder, you could have your lover cum inside you, let it leak out into your panties, and then make your cuckold lick them clean in public. It’s best not to do something that could get you arrested, but feel free to be as imaginative as you want with this one.
Have Your Cuckold Give You Both Post-Workout Rimjobs
Your cuckold almost certainly loves licking asshole. It’s a little humiliating on its own and it makes him feel delightfully submissive. If you want to humiliate him a little more, amp things up by making your cuckold give you and your lover a rimjob right after you finish a workout.
The idea is that your asses will be sweaty and perhaps a little ripe. Make your cuckold clean up all that sweat, and make sure you emphasize that’s why he’s doing it. He’s using his tongue to clean you both up. Eating a sweaty, salty, potentially smelly ass is humiliating, but the fact that you’re just using him is humiliating too.
You can deepen that portion of the humiliation by engaging in a casual conversation with your lover as your cuckold cleans both your asses with his tongue. You can act like he’s not even there. You can also try and make it lusty if you want. If you happen to be aroused by receiving a rimjob, then let your cuckold get you both going and fuck after he’s done.
Aftercare
Aftercare is of the utmost importance to any relationship delving into kinky, BDSM-related play. The same is true of your cuckold relationship. While your husband might find humiliation exceptionally arousing, it can also be emotionally damaging. Aftercare is meant to soothe any emotional pain he might have suffered and return your relationship to a normal state.
This article does a great job of detailing aftercare in BDSM relationships. Cuckold humiliation, as detailed in my article, doesn’t always fall into a “scene.” After all, if you’re making an offhanded comment about your husband’s small cock while you’re at dinner or mentioning how much you’d like to sleep with a guy you just flirted with, you’re not doing so within the confines of scene, at least in the traditional sense.
That means you have to engage in aftercare a little differently, but most of the time it will be pretty simple. Tell your husband you love him. Show him physical affection. Compliment the things he does well. Ultimately, the humiliation damages his ego (while turning him on like nothing else). You need to counterbalance that in other areas. If you’re not prepared to do so, you shouldn’t engage in cuckold humiliation play.
Your Ideas
What did I miss? I’m sure there are lots more naughty ideas for cuckold humiliation out there and I’d love to hear them. Share your thoughts in the comments and I’ll update the post with any original ideas that I missed.
You’ve all heard the term cuckold angst, right? If not, you’re almost certainly familiar with the notion. You badly want your wife to sleep with other men, to cum on another man’s cock, to have incredible sex with him, but the idea of it makes you a little bit anxious, too.
If you’ve actually experienced cuckolding, you’ve likely been knee deep in those feelings. On the one hand you’re overwhelmingly aroused. On the other you’re nervous she might leave you or that she’s not going to give a damn about you when she gets back because she just connected with another man on a deep, beautiful level.
It’s for these reasons (and many others) that cuckolding is a deeply complicated and (in some ways) dangerous fetish to indulge. If you just wanted to be spanked, that would be easy. If your fantasy involves introducing another man into your marriage, that’s a whole lot harder.
That goes double for the guys that are turned on by the notion of their wife falling in love with another guy, or leaving them for that guy. How do you pursue that fantasy without destroying your marriage or doing irreparable harm? It might not be possible.
Chastity play can be a thrilling addition to any marriage, but it’s an especially sexy addition to a cuckold marriage. My husband and I have played with locking his cock for many years now and it’s still exciting for both of us when I bring out the device and slip him into it. The teasing is what makes it work, though.
You’ll certainly get some benefit out of locking his cock up and leaving it that way for a predetermined amount of time, but you’re going to have so much more fun if you incorporate teasing into it. If you’re driving him crazy with lust the entire time he’s in chastity it will be so much more exciting and arousing for both of you.
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What Does it Mean to Tease?
I don’t mean making fun of him. We’re not in middle school. I mean turning him on, only it’s teasing because he can’t get hard, let alone have an orgasm. It’s the ultimate cock tease and it makes chastity play so much more satisfying for you and your man.
Ideally you’ll keep him in a constant state of arousal. It works wonders because he’ll be far more attentive than usual, and even though he’s not getting off you’ll be offering him some sense of pleasure. Even when you’re denying him the orgasms he craves you can bring him a form of sexual joy, which he’ll love you for.
Locking Him Up
Even if you know when you’re going to let him out of chastity, don’t tell your husband. Never tell him, in fact. It’s always better if he has no idea. You can’t leave him in there forever, but if he’s constantly wondering when you’re going to release him he’ll be better behaved, more attentive, and constantly aroused.
Sometimes I like to arouse him before I put on the chastity device. A little kissing or lap grinding and soon enough he’s got a throbbing erection. Then I inform him he’s going to be locked up. The teasing has already begun. Once his cock deflates I slip the device on him, lock it, and put the key around my neck.
I like to arouse him as soon as he’s locked, too. More of whatever we were doing that got him hard in the first place. I repeat the process, only this time he can’t get hard. Instead, he feels the dull ache of his cock trying in vain to get erect in the sheath that engulfs it.
Once He’s Locked Up
This is where the real fun begins because there are so many things you can do to have fun with your husband once his cock is locked in its chastity device. The basic idea is simple: You want him aroused as often as possible. It might seem cruel to you, but if he wants to be in chastity then he wants to be aroused all the time.
There are lots of wonderful ways to tease him, so I’m going to run down a list of just some of them. Ultimately, you’re the best judge of what’s going to arouse him most since you should know your husband’s particular desires better than anyone.
Walk around in your underwear/naked – I love doing this when he’s locked up. I actually like to wear a pair of boyshort panties and then go braless while in a tight top or something cropped.
Lots more kissing – We make out constantly when he’s locked up. It’s the fastest way to turn him on and he’ll never turn it down. Even though he knows his cock is going to ache because it can’t get hard, he loves to kiss. With just a little tongue he’s stiff and aching.
More physical contact – Initiate lots of physical contact. It can be as simple as a tight hug while you’re in your underwear or naked. I love pressing my naked ass into his crotch and listening to him groan. Giving a brief lap dance while he’s in chastity is a beautiful form of agony for him.
Make him worship your body – This is an absolute must when he’s locked up. He craves your body. He craves you. Have him worship it. Have him kiss you all over. Have him give you a massage. Make sure he goes down on you lots. The more you cum while he’s locked up, the more aroused he’ll be.
Tease and denial handjob – For this one I like to cuff him to the bedposts. Once his hands are immobilized I’ll unlock his cock and tease it. Make sure you don’t get too vigorous if he’s been locked up for a while because he might cum really quickly. Get him hard, make him drip precum, and then wait until he’s soft again and lock him up. Once he’s back in his cage and the key is around your neck you can unlock his hands.
Shower with him – Most chastity devices are shower safe, so invite your husband to join you. Have him wash your body and your hair. Rub your wet nakedness against him. Wash his balls and his cock in the chastity device. Be attentive. Make it an erotic experience for both of you.
If he’s into anal play, go for it – Don’t force this on him, but if your husband is into anal play of any kind, doing it while he’s in chastity is perfect. Whether that’s pegging, fingering, or toys, go for it. You’ll have his cock dripping precum like crazy before you know it.
Your personal form of teasing – Like I said earlier, you should know better than anyone how to arouse your man. Use it. Remember, he wants to be teased and aroused and denied orgasm, even if he complains.
Cuckolding & Chastity
Cuckolding him while he’s locked up is the ultimate form of teasing. If you have a date, lock him up and slip the key into your purse or wear it around you’re neck if you’re comfortable with that. While you’re out, tease him via text or send pictures if you’re feeling bold. He will ache in the chastity device and he’ll know that his only chance of freedom will come when you get home.
If your cuckold husband is permitted to watch, then put him in chastity the next time you get fucked with him in the room. If possible, have him locked up for several days beforehand. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how crazily aroused he is. If you’ve ever wanted to push his boundaries and have him explore new avenues (fluffing your bull/boyfriend, cleanup, etc) pushing him towards them while he’s locked up is a good way to go.
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Don’t Feel Bad
Some women genuinely feel bad about teasing their men and denying them orgasm. You need to change your thinking if that’s the case. Remember, he wants this (if he doesn’t then you really shouldn’t be locking him up). He wants to be in chastity. He wants to be teased and turned on and denied orgasm.
A Note to the Chastised Men: What Not to Do
Your wife (or girlfriend) is giving you a gift by putting you in chastity and teasing you. She’s making one of your fantasies come true, but it’s a two person game. You have a part to play and there are some things you absolutely cannot do.
Don’t make her feel guilty – You’re going to want to be released, badly. You might get desperate for it. Don’t, even for a second, make her feel guilty for locking you up. Don’t emotionally manipulate her into giving you an orgasm. Don’t be cruel for even a second.
Don’t beg for release too much – A little bit of begging for release can be exciting, but don’t go overboard. It can quickly become unattractive. The moment you become a sniveling weakling in her eyes is the moment it stops being fun to lock you up.
Don’t get sullen or immature – Sometimes the frustration of being locked up can overwhelm a guy. He can go from being horny and lustful to being annoyed and sullen that he’s not being released. Try your best not to go to that place. It’s really unattractive and will quickly end the game.
Ladies, if your man starts acting like an asshole at any point during the chastity experience, give him the key and walk away. If he can’t handle being locked and teased, don’t bother with it. Don’t let him manipulate and abuse you. If he’s not willing to submit while you have his cock in a chastity device, he’s not really worth playing with in this way.
One Final Thought
As with anything, you’re probably not going to be great at chastity teasing the first time you do it. It takes practice to get good at anything, so don’t be afraid to screw up. Also, please make sure you’re communicating with him constantly. Check in on how he’s doing and how the experience is for him. Get feedback on how you’re doing. I know that might seem a little weird, but you’re working together on this and for it to be great you need to be a team.
My husband and I have found chastity teasing to be a thrilling addition to our sex life and I think you will to. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask in the comments.
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In a typical cuckold fantasy it’s exceedingly easy to find a man to fuck your wife. She’s hot and any guy would kill for a chance to fill her pussy, right? Instinctively, that seems spot on, but in the real world it turns out it can be far more difficult than you might imagine to find the right man for the job. I’m going to go over some of the reasons why that’s the case and help you find a perfect man to meet her needs and yours.
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Talk About What You Want
One of the reasons so many couples run into trouble is they don’t really know what they want. Sometimes the husband and wife disagree on the perfect man to fuck her, and sometimes they haven’t really talked about it at all and they end up with a total dud, or a man that gets way too aggressive and dominant when they’re looking for nothing more than a stunt cock.
The best way to talk about what you want is to do it in a fantasy context. Engage in a mutual masturbation session and talk dirty about your cuckolding fantasies, which should be shared at this point. Tell each other what you crave in a bull or boyfriend. Do it often, and soon enough a picture will take shape that will guide you to the man of your shared dreams.
You can also sit and have an honest conversation outside of the bedroom and your fantasies. You should absolutely do this before you try and find someone, but I always think it’s worth doing it in a naughty, sexual manner too because that’s just so much fun.
The Many Ways Potential Bulls/Boyfriends Will Disappoint You
You’re almost certainly going to experience some sort of disappointment and/or letdown in your search for a bull/boyfriend. If you take your time with the process those disappointments will end up happening via emails and texts, not when you’re in the bedroom or in the middle of a sexual encounter.
First let’s talk about the way guys can disappoint you when you’re actually in the room and ready to have some good sex:
Performance issues – This one is shockingly common and happens most frequently when the husband is in the room watching. Some men just aren’t comfortable having sex with an audience. Some guys turn out to be less comfortable fucking another man’s wife too. What’s often so odd is that some guys aren’t into the notion of having sex with a married woman when her husband is totally into it, even if he’s not in the room watching.
Flaking out – Guys just don’t show up sometimes. Even if they were great in emails, texts, and phone calls, they just don’t come at the appointed time. There are a host of reasons this happens, but it’s usually a blessing. If he doesn’t show up and didn’t call to let you know why, he’s not worth being with.
Too rough/dominant – Sometimes a bull/boyfriend will go way over the top with his dominance. He’ll pull hair, smack her ass, and get rough when she has no interest in it. This is not a good thing. A good bull/boyfriend strives to understand what a couple wants from him and delivers it.
His cock is not as advertised – This one always strikes me as insane, but some guys are more than happy to lie about the size of their cock. I guess they assume that you’ll just go for it once you’re in the room and they’ll get laid. Don’t. Kick his ass out and go find someone else. Unless you like the look of his cock. In which case, go ahead and have some fun.
He cums too quickly – This one is tough, because some guys will cum quickly their first time with a woman because it’s really exciting. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ever see him again, but you’re free to kick him to the curb if it happens and you’re not happy. It’s worth sticking around until he can get hard again though. If he cums super quick the second time around you know he’s not worth your time.
Most of the time the guys will disappoint you before you ever get to a face to face meeting. You need patience to find the right guy for you (usually, at least; some couples find the right guy the first time out). Here are some of the ways a potential bull/boyfriend will disappoint you via email/text/phone calls.
Picture collecting – Some guys get off on convincing you to send them a naked or naughty picture with no intention of being your bull/boyfriend. For this reason I prefer using dating sites where you post a picture in your profile and that should be enough for prospective guys. If a potential date is too pushy about getting your picture, stop messaging him.
The “hey” or “what’s up” guys – I will never understand the deluge of guys that will send a message that consists entirely of “hey” or “what’s up” or some other worthless variation. Do those guys think I’m going to respond to that? Do they think that’s good enough? If a man isn’t willing to put in enough effort to write out a few sentences in an email, he’s not going to be anywhere near good enough for you.
Cyber sexers – Some men have no intention of getting off their couches or out of their desk chairs. They just want to masturbate to a fantasy. Generally they’ll push you for details on what you’d do together or ask for more pictures. You can safely ignore those guys.
Married guys that are cheating – This can be hard to suss out, but at some point it usually becomes obvious that you’re talking to a married guy that’s fucking behind his wife’s back. He’ll be short on any sort of personal information, really shy about sharing a face picture, and cagey about meeting in a place that’s too public. Always check the ring finger. Longtime wedding ring wearers will typically have a little bit of a mark there.
Time wasters – Some guys just get off on playing the role of a man that fucks married women. They’ll mostly want to chat endlessly, send emails, and maybe get into naughty texting. That can be fun, so you’re welcome to pursue it, but it’s not going to end up with the sex you crave, so feel free to cut the cord when it becomes obvious he’s not really interested in meeting up.
Tips for Finding the Right Bull/Boyfriend for You
There’s no guaranteed way to do this. Ultimately, you have to find what works for you as a couple. I can give you a few pointers on how to make it easier though.
Where to Search Online – I’ve found that swingers personals sites are the best place to start. SwingLifestyle.com and SDC.com are both great and filled with real people, unlike most adult dating sites (which are usually filled with fake profiles and desperate men). There are lots of married guys that have complete sexual freedom and are allowed to fuck without their wife around. There are single guys that want to play with couples too, so you have lots of options. FetLife.com is a kink-focused social network and a great place to build relationships, but it can take more time to find a guy.
Experience is Better – If it’s your first time being with another man it’s best to go with someone that has plenty of experience in the field. He’ll know how to read the both of you and deliver a pleasurable experience.
Find Someone that Knows About Cuckolding – If you’re playing as a cuckold couple you need a guy that knows all about the world of cuckolding. You need him to know that your husband’s needs must be met along with yours. Ultimately, a cuckold relationship involves the husband, wife, and the man you’ve brought into your bedroom.
Be Clear About What You Want – It’s possible you won’t really know what you want, but you should try your best to figure it out as a couple before you search for a bull/boyfriend. If you can explain what you’re looking for, it’s infinitely easier to find a guy that meets your needs and will deliver an experience that pleases both husband and wife. It can be as simple as wanting a big cock that can last a long time or a little more complicated, like a dominant bull that will make you both submit without pushing your limits too far. There’s a guy for every couple, so as long as you’re clear you’ll be able to find him. It’s also possible to message and chat with lots of guys before you decide what you really want.
Meet in Public First – It’s always smart, especially when you’re starting out, to meet with a potential bull/boyfriend in a public place before you even consider making him a sexual partner. A coffee place is simplest since there’s no commitment to staying for a long time. The meeting is meant to confirm he’s been honest about his age/looks/general fitness level and to make sure he doesn’t come off as a psycho in person. If you like what you see you can then make a date for sex.
I hope this helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to leave them in the comments.
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Sadly, many marriages fail to survive a cuckold adventure. There are myriad reasons for this – the marriage was already weak, the couple never really planned anything, they picked the wrong guy for her to sleep with, and more – but the inescapable truth is that your marriage may not make it to the other side of cuckolding.
That being said, many marriages have thrived with a hotwife/cuckold arrangement. When it works well, everyone gets what they want and often more than they imagined was possible. My goal in this article is to help you and your partner decide if you have the kind of marriage that can thrive when cuckolding is introduced.
First Things First: Is Your Marriage Healthy and Happy?
Spend a little time in the world of alternative sexual lifestyles (cuckolding, hotwifing, swinging, BDSM play of all kinds, etc) and you discover that they’re almost never the solution to a marriage that’s already on the rocks. In fact, chances are good that if you’re marriage is struggling, introducing cuckolding is a surefire way to blow it up.
Under the best of circumstances, introducing a new sexual partner to your relationship adds an element of chaos. Having sex with a new person will have emotional and likely physical repercussions, and if there’s resentment built up between the married couple, those repercussions and that chaos will be like a giant wedge that falls between the two of you and inexorably pushes you apart.
Every cuckold experiences jealousy. It’s a natural and oftentimes enthralling part of the experience. However, if your marriage is struggling that jealousy may tear you apart instead of bringing you closer. It can be difficult to honestly assess the state of your marriage, but if you actually direct your brain to do so, it should come easily. Do you feel resentment towards your partner with any sort of frequency? Do you blame them for any unhappiness you feel?
If your biggest problem is that your sex life has gotten stale or that you both feel unsatisfied with the action in the bedroom, cuckolding may be the right answer for you. If you have years of unanswered resentments and frustrations built up, cuckolding will likely tear your marriage apart.
Emotional Consequences of Cuckolding
This is real, and something too few couples consider before jumping into cuckolding. There is almost always an emotional component to it, and it can be destructive. How you manage your reaction to that, as a couple and as individuals, can go a long way towards determining if your marriage will survive a new sexual lifestyle.
For Men – There are many elements that make cuckolding arousing for men. For each guy that’s into being cuckolded it’s generally a different combination that brings him pleasure. Some enjoy a sense of humiliation or being overtly and sometimes cruelly humiliated by their wife and her lover. Some find pleasure in seeing their wives pleasured. Some enjoy the anxiety that comes with knowing another man is fucking their wife, and hopefully doing it better. Some get intensely jealous.
What’s often most problematic for men into cuckolding is the deeply held societal programming that says a woman is supposed to be faithful to her husband. Though we’re in a time of great change with regards to the sexes, it is still seen as deeply humiliating for a man when his wife sleeps with someone else. Even if a married man finds that humiliation pleasurable or badly wants his wife to sleep with other men even if it’s not humiliating, the programming that lives in his subconscious may torture him and lead to emotional outbursts.
For Women – Some married women that venture into cuckolding with their husbands feel a great sense of guilt. This tends to come from the same type of societal programming that puts a great deal of pressure on women to be good wives and mothers, which typically includes being faithful. Even if her husband loves the idea of being a cuckold and watching or hearing about her sleeping with other men, the guilt may be impossible for a wife to avoid.
In a cuckold marriage, the woman is having sex with other men and is therefore almost certain to develop emotional attachments to those men. This is typically the most dangerous part of the lifestyle. It is most common when she has sex with the same man over the course of several weeks or months. During sex, hormones are released that effectively bond you to the person that’s making you climax. They’re almost impossible to ignore, so the effect will be felt.
This is the biggest risk factor to any cuckolding marriage. If the wife is not receiving emotional support and feeling loved by her husband, there’s a very good chance she’ll leave him for one of the new men she’s sleeping with. That’s why it’s of the utmost importance to make sure you have a strong marriage before you jump into cuckolding.
Fantasy is Different than Reality
Admittedly, this is largely for the men out there, but it’s an important point. Chances are good that the cuckolding fantasies you’ve been having for years won’t match up to reality. The sex your wife has with another man might be bad the first time out. She might not be willing to indulge in the specific dirty talk you desire. Maybe she’ll never be willing to have unprotected sex with someone.
You need to consider what sort of cuckolding pleasures it will take to make you happy. If it’s a very specific and kinky fantasy, check with her first before you jump into the deep end. It’s entirely possible your wife will be on board for doing anything and everything you desire.
Communication is Key in a Cuckolding Marriage
Good communication is the key to making any marriage work, but it’s especially important if you’re going to get into cuckolding. If something is making you uncomfortable, you need to be clear about it. Nothing will destroy this type of relationship faster than a bad experience where one of you feels like you weren’t protected.
You can practice your communication skills by sharing your fantasies with each other, because communicating is about more than talking. It’s about hearing what your partner is saying, understanding what they’re saying, and accepting what they’re saying. It’s about being open and welcoming and empathetic. So before you dive into the world of real cuckolding, try a bit of sharing in the bedroom and see how that goes.
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