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It’s not uncommon for a cuckold to crave submission. It’s not uncommon for that cuckold’s wife to have no sense of how to meet her husband’s need to submit. This guide to adding a little femdom to your cuckold marriage aims to solve that problem with a series of ideas – ranging from mild to wild – to help ignite the kinky part of you.

Read through the ideas, talk about them with your cuckold, and experiment with the ones that turn you on the most. And don’t hesitate to adapt each idea to make it work for your specific situation.

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Chastity & Orgasm Control

This is the bedrock of your domination. I promise it will be so much easier to put your cuckold in a submissive place if you’ve placed his cock in chastity and you maintain strict control over his orgasms.

For the first few days he’ll likely fight you on it. He might be rude, too (a good spanking will cure that). He’ll rebel against the idea of being under your control and being unable to orgasm.

After just a few days – perhaps a little longer – things will change. He’ll become far more pliant. He’ll understand that he’s not getting out of chastity unless he’s well-behaved. He’ll understand that he must submit to be granted an orgasm, which he wants more than anything in the world.

That’s when you can really start having fun. That’s when you can begin training him to be the submissive you want him to be. Remember, dominating your cuckold should be mutually pleasurable, so you need to find a way to make it work for you (the many ideas below should give you a good starting place to begin your domination).

Here are a few tips to make chastity play more effective:

• Don’t schedule his orgasms – He should be released and allowed to climax at random intervals. That way he’ll always be on his best behavior. You can say that you might let him out on a certain day, but never guarantee it.
• He needs to orgasm from time to time – As tempting as it might be to leave him in chastity forever, you will need to give him an orgasm every once in a while. It should be more frequent at first and then you can stretch it out as you continue with chastity play.
• Tease him constantly – I wrote an article about this, but the short version is that if you’re going to put him in chastity you really need to be teasing him all the time. The idea is to arouse him as often as possible. The more aroused he gets, the more submissive he’ll be (eventually; he might be defiant and eager for release at first).
• Be strict – Remember, your cuckold craves female domination. He craves your control. If he misbehaves (like stealing the key and unlocking his cock to masturbate), you need to be strict. Walk away from the kink play for a while. You need to make it clear that if he wants to be dominated, he needs to understand that your rules are the only rules that matter. Either he submits to chastity or he doesn’t get to be your cuckold.

Strapon Sex/Pegging

Strapon sex is the ultimate form of role reversal in a relationship. Suddenly, you have the cock. You’re the one doing the fucking. He’s the one taking balls deep penetration. He’s the one getting on his hands and knees or lying on his back and spreading his legs.

That role reversal is just the beginning of the femdom cuckold play when you put on a beautiful strapon cock and fuck your husband. You can determine how far you’d like to take it, but there are all kinds of naughty ways you can assert your dominance.

If you want to tilt it towards romantic femdom, put him on his back and make love to him with your cock. Kiss him as you slide into his asshole. Fuck him slowly and really take your time to ensure he doesn’t feel even a little bit of pain.

On the other hand, you can bend him over, lube up a nice big strapon cock, and take his ass hard and fast from behind. Show him what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a good pounding.

Want to go deeper into dominating him with your strapon? That’s where verbal play comes in. Even a little dirty talk can make a strapon fucking so much more effective. It can range from pushing him a little deeper into a submissive space to humiliating him in a way you both find thrilling. Here are some examples:

“Tell me how much you love my cock, cuckold.”
“Do you want me to fuck you harder, baby? Do you want more of my cock inside you?”
“Beg me to fuck your tight little ass.”
“Bend over like a good little slut and spread your ass cheeks for me.”
“I’m going to destroy your ass, cucky. I’m going to stretch you out and make you my little bitch. I’m going to turn this ass into a pussy.”
“I’m going to fuck you hard and fast, just like my bull fucks me. I’m going to show you what it’s like to be taken, cuck.”

The more creative you are, the more he’ll enjoy it. You know better than anyone what your submissive cuckold is into, so customize your dirty talk to amp up the thrills.

Facesitting & Smothering

Facesitting is fairly self-explanatory. You sit on his face. It’s a beautiful, intoxicating way of exerting control over your submissive husband and there are several different ways to explore this particular form of femdom cuckold play.

If you look up facesitting videos, you’ll see that the girl is typically naked from the waist down, and that’s how your cuckold will most likely prefer it. Of course, what he wants doesn’t really matter in this case, does it? Do what you find the most arousing.

There’s something sexy about sitting on his face with your naked pussy or ass. You’re literally smothering him with your sex. If your cuckold isn’t allowed to fuck you, this can feel so much more powerful. He’ll be so close to the thing that he’s routinely denied. If you forbid him from licking you while you’re sitting on his face, it’s an even more painful form of domination.

That being said, if you choose to wear panties, shorts, a bikini, or any number of other articles of clothing, it’s an entirely different and delightful form of domination. Now you’re denying him the pleasure of touching your pussy. He’s close, but he doesn’t even get a taste of it. That sounds fun too, doesn’t it?

Smothering is an offshoot of facesitting that’s designed around breathplay. It’s pretty hard to actually completely deny him the ability to breathe by sitting on his face, but you can make it harder. It can give you a thrilling sense of control if you choose to put it into practice, though. Literally controlling his breath while you sit on his face can be quite the rush.

If you’re at all into kink fashion, facesitting is a great activity. Put on a pair of latex shorts, pants, or even a skirt and sit on his face. Let him smell the kinky fabric. Let him taste it if you want. He’s likely aroused by it too, and being so close can get him all hot and bothered while you remain in control of whether or not he orgasms.

Feminization

Feminizing your cuckold husband is a simple but hugely effective way of dominating him. Plus, there are so many different ways to do it.

Wearing women’s clothing, especially when it’s of a particularly feminine nature, is in direct contrast to what men are “supposed” to be. That’s why this is such an effective form of domination. When he’s in a pair of pink lace panties, it’s awfully hard for him to try and wrest control from you.

If you’re having trouble getting your husband to tamp down his annoying male ego, feminization is the first thing you should try. It’s a lot harder to complain about how often your bull fucks you and how your cuck doesn’t get to fuck you if you have him dressed in a bra, panties, and a pair of stockings. Are his complaints about having to do chores getting on your nerves? Put him in a soft satin French maid’s uniform and he won’t act up so much.

Within this particular form of femdom cuckold play there are so many ways to have fun. Below I’ve listed a handful of ideas to get you started. It shouldn’t take long to come up with other fun ways of feminizing your husband. You don’t have to limit yourself to dressing him in women’s clothes, either.

• Make him wear your dirty panties – This can be particularly fun if they have another man’s cum inside them. Just think of how humiliating it will be for your husband to have someone else’s cum tucked up against his cock and balls all day long.
• Take him shopping for his own lingerie – This is a tried and true feminization and humiliation technique. If you’re feeling bold, involve a sales girl (if she seems friendly to the idea; you can even ask ahead). Having him pick out his own panties (and a bra if you want to go further) is a great way to dominate him.
• Make him wear lingerie to bed – Sleeping in soft, feminine lingerie will unquestionably make your husband feel like less of a man. It will generate beautiful submissive feelings, too.
• Make him clean the house in women’s underwear – Put him in a pair of pretty panties and make him do chores. Tell him he’s being a good girl. If you want to increase the domination, make sure he’s in his chastity device. It’s even better if his panties are sheer so he can see his locked cock all day long.
• Send him to work in panties – He’ll spend the entire day feeling those pretty panties hugging his cock and balls. He’ll come home in a deeply submissive place.

Feel free to come up with your own naughty ideas. Remember, your cuckold wants to be dominated. He wants to feel submissive. Use that to your advantage and have fun with it.

Painful Punishments for Your Cuckold

There’s nothing quite like a vigorous, painful punishment to put a man into a submissive headspace.

The simplest (and sometimes most humiliating) form of punishment is to take him over your knee and give him a spanking on his bare ass. Combine it with a verbal description of why he’s being spanked (he’s almost certain to disappoint you in one way or another, so make note of that and tell him about it as you spank him) and you’ll find your domination is exceptionally successful.

If you want to go beyond using your hand, there are lots of options. It always adds an extra layer of humiliation to put him over your knee, but you can still use different implements to punish him, many of which are household items. These can include a hairbrush, a wooden spoon (or other kitchen items), a piece of footwear (a sandal, for instance, would be great for foot fetishists), or really anything that’s flat and can be swung with force.

If you want to have a little more fun, lay out the various items and have him pick one before you put him over your knee. The more you involve him in his punishment, the more effective it can be.

That’s why you want to keep up a dialogue with him as you deliver the punishment. Tell him ahead of time how many spanks he’s earned and then have him count them out. Have him thank you after each one, too. After all, you’re ultimately punishing him for his benefit. You’re teaching him to be a better submissive cuckold.

If you want to move beyond putting him over your knee there are all kinds of BDSM implements of pain you can use to punish him. These include canes, paddles, whips, and much more. Keep it simple at first, though. You’ll want to be familiar with whatever you’re using so you don’t injure him, which would be counter to the entire process.

Consuming His Cum

If you have any experience dominating or cuckolding your husband, chances are you’re familiar with what happens after he cums. You know that it’s the time he’s most likely to act in a deeply unpleasant and/or distasteful way. The lust/desire that built up basically leaves his body along with his cum and he almost instantly exits the submissive headspace he’s been living in.

Thankfully, having your husband consume his cum is a great way to counteract the effects of his post-orgasmic departure from a submissive headspace.

Convincing him to eat his cum is often more difficult than it might seem, in large part because the moment he has an orgasm your submissive will likely lose all interest in consuming his seed. All that wild desire that built up as you brought him to the edge of orgasm will disappear in an instant.

That’s the magic of it, though. He’ll be doing something he wouldn’t normally do, something he doesn’t really want to be doing. He’ll be doing it for you. He’ll be submitting to your desires, and in consuming his cum he will sink back into subspace, at least a little, and getting him at least a little of the way there will be enormously beneficial.

The first time is going to be the most difficult, but once you’ve convinced him to take the leap into cum consumption you should find it much easier to get him to do it after subsequent orgasms.

For the first time you might want to consider letting him consume his cum from your body. If it’s been a particularly long time since he’s had an orgasm this can be extra exciting for him. Tell him he’s been a good boy and that you’re going to let him cum on your breasts. Tell him that there’s just one little thing he has to do for you to be granted the pleasure of getting to cum on your breasts: He needs to clean up his mess.

You could also offer him a long, slow handjob and spend the entire time talking about the joys of eating his cum and how it would make you so happy if he did. Eventually, you make him promise to consume his load if you’re kind enough to give him an orgasm. Then you catch his load in your hand and gently feed it to him. If he refuses to eat it, you punish him, but not until a little later. Make sure that punishment hurts, too.

Tease and Denial

Taking control of your cuckold’s orgasms is the bedrock of introducing female domination to your relationship. Tease and denial play can help enhance your control and lure him even deeper into submission.

As with so much of femdom cuckold play, you’ll need to experiment a little to find the right balance. Your husband is going to feel frustrated when you get him all worked up and then refuse to let him climax, but that’s the point. He needs to surrender to your control. He needs to recognize that you get to decide when he cums.

His willingness to accept that frustration can be enhanced by the way you tease him. It’s most effective if done frequently and in varying ways. Take ten seconds to offer him a far more passionate kiss than you might one morning. If it’s been a while since he’s had an orgasm he’ll be suitably aroused. Walk away the moment the kiss is over. He’ll be turned on and he’ll be without the means to climax because you’re the one in control and you’ve already left the room.

Lots of little teases are great, but they should also be balanced out by longer, more involved tease play. It should be arousing for you, too, so you’ll have to find something that you enjoy. You could try tying your cuckold to the bed, dressing up in something sexy, and driving him absolutely mad. You could take him inside you and ride him a little. You could talk dirty while you stroke his cock and play with his balls. You could tie him to a chair and rub your body against his until he’s absolutely mad with lust. Then you could deny him or give him an orgasm. It’s up to you.

Tease and denial play is more effective if he has no idea when or if he’s going to cum. Keep it random. It could be that a playful kiss will lead to something more. It could be that a long play session might lead to a beautiful finish inside you. If he’s always in a place of wondering where the tease and denial play is going to go he’ll be on his best behavior and he’ll always happily offer his submission.

Fluid Exchange/Spitting/Pissing

Fluid exchange involves your cuckold submitting to your desire to have him accept your spit or piss in his mouth or on his body and it can be a remarkably effective way of putting him in his place.

Spit play is the easiest and cleanest of the two, and it’s where I’d recommend you start. It’s such a simple thing, and yet it can have such a potent effect on your submissive husband. There are so many fun ways to implement it, too. Here are just a few to help get your imagination going:

• Sit on his face and ride him with your pussy. Midway through, slide back until you’re sitting on his chest and then make him open his mouth. Lean down and slowly let your spit stream onto his tongue. Make a show of gathering it if you like. Tell him to swallow and then sit on his face again.
• Give him the pleasure of your pussy by riding him. When you have him close to an orgasm, make him open his mouth so you can spit in it. Make him hold the spit on his tongue until he has an orgasm (or until you do).
• Spit on his face while you’re riding his cock. You can make it a surprise or tell him it’s coming. Either way works.
• Spit on him or in his mouth in non-sexual situations. Walk into his office while he’s working, tell him to open his mouth, and spit on his tongue. It will immediately make him feel submissive, which is a good thing.
• Spit on his face in public. You can be as bold as you want, but I’d do it in a location where you’re in public but not one else can see, like a dressing room at a store. You assert your dominance and he feels a little panic before he can clean himself up, though of course you’ve also aroused him.

Piss play is really just a more potent form of spit play, mostly because it’s often viewed as disgusting, and with good reason. After all, you’re emptying your body’s waste onto or inside of him. Obviously, this isn’t for everyone.

However, if you’re interested, I’d recommend you start by drinking a lot of water to dilute your urine, which will dissipate the sometimes overwhelming smell and make it a lot less difficult for him. You’ll also want to do it in the shower/bathtub (or outside, I suppose) because urine is a pain to clean up.

I’d also recommend starting with pissing on his body to get him used to it. There’s a very good chance he won’t want to do any of it, but that can be a good thing as you get to assert your dominance by convincing him/ordering him to welcome your piss (your waste, essentially) onto his naked body. By surrendering to that, by giving you control over his body, he will feel that submissive pleasure that he craves.

As with the spit play, here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Shower together the first time you want to piss on him. Get him turned on. Maybe soap up his cock. Then, tell him you’re going to piss on him. Tell him to lie down on the shower floor. Stand over him. Squat slowly. Start by pissing on his cock. Let him feel the heat. Smile at him as you do. If you want to reward him, let him masturbate while you’re pissing on his cock. It might help him associate piss play with his pleasure.
• Work your way up his body each time you piss on him in the shower/bathtub. Piss on his stomach. Then his chest. Then his neck. Then piss on his face while his mouth and eyes are closed. Try not to get any up his nose.
• Piss in his mouth. The first time you can make him hold it before spitting it out. You can also keep on pissing and just let it flow out of his mouth and onto the shower floor.
• Make him swallow your piss. If he wants to be good for you, he’ll drink your piss. It will make him feel enormously submissive.

Piss play can be aided by the way you talk about it. You could, for instance, call it your nectar, or your golden nectar. You could ask him if he’s ready to receive and/or drink your nectar. It can add a sense of erotic pleasure to the whole experience if you prefer a gentler approach to domination.

Putting Your Fingers in His Mouth

This is a remarkably simple form of domination, and yet it can be so potent. Whether he’s on his knees, standing in front of you, or lying beneath you, this simple act can trigger deep submissive pleasure in your husband.

The first time, try something easy like reaching up and pressing your thumb against his lower lip as you hold his gaze. He should open his mouth, and when he does, simply slip your thumb onto his tongue. He should suck without thinking, but if he doesn’t, instruct him to do so. If you’d like, you can use your index finger, which lets you get a little deeper in his mouth.
The penetration is an important part of this. You’re filling his mouth. Fucking his face, if you like. You’re taking control over that particular orifice and you’re using it for your pleasure, and in doing so you should be filling him with submissive pleasure.

It will carry extra potency if you do it while he’s on his knees in front of you. He’s taken a naturally submissive position and you then deepen that by slipping your fingers in his mouth. Pump them in and out for extra pleasure. You can also do so while he’s on his back in bed and you’re astride him, whether you’re having sex or not, though I promise your submissive cuckold will love it if he’s inside you while you’re pumping his mouth with your fingers, especially if you’re also talking about how you wish someone else’s cock was in your pussy.

Ass Worship

There’s something so naughty about ass worship. It feels a little like a forbidden orifice, mostly because of what comes out of there. That doesn’t mean it’s dirty, of course, but there is something dirty – in the best way possible – about telling your cuckold to get on his knees and worship your ass, which is why you can use it to add a little femdom to your relationship.

If you have a bull/boyfriend, then I’d recommend you have your cuckold get on his knees and worship your ass while you’re doing your hair and makeup before your next date. If you find it difficult to actually do your makeup while you’re getting your ass eaten, then let him do it for a few minutes before sending him on his way. I promise, he’ll enjoy being given the chance to worship your ass for as long as you’re willing to let him remain on his knees.

Depending on how advanced your cuckolding has become, you could have your husband worship your ass while you’re riding your bull’s cock. That works best if you’re on the couch and your cuckold is on his knees between your bull’s legs, and it certainly isn’t for every couple, but it will thrill him.

Ass worship doesn’t have to be associated with his cuckolding, though. You could have him shower with you, give your ass a good cleaning, and then get on his knees to worship it a little while you clean the rest of your body. If you’re feeling a little more dominant, you could have your cuckold get on his knees and worship your ass right after you’ve finished a workout. Make him lick up the sweat. Pull his head between your ass cheeks and smother him with them. Make him really indulge in the pleasure of tasting your sweaty asshole and he’ll love you forever.

Ruined Orgasms

A ruined orgasm is when your man has an orgasm – when you see the semen pour from his cock – but when he doesn’t experience the mind-bending pleasure that typically comes with an orgasm. Essentially, you bring him right to the edge of his climax and then you stop stimulating him, but you’ve gotten him so close that he can’t help but cum. If you do it right, he has an orgasm without any pleasure, or with severely diminished pleasure. You can imagine how frustrating that would be.

Why would a man want that? Well, it’s you asserting your dominance. You’re taking control of his orgasm in a more extreme way. You’re making him cum but denying him the pleasure he actually craves. Plus, you’re leaving him in that frustrated headspace, which is actually where he wants to be.

It takes practice to master the art of the ruined orgasm, so you might not be great at it at first, but that’s okay. It’s easiest to master via handjob, so start with that. Take your time, too. The ruination will be more potent if you’ve been teasing him for a while. Feel free to take your pleasure, too. Get on top in a 69 and have him eat your pussy while you stroke his cock. Sit on his face for a little and reach back to play with his dick. Make sure that he’s not allowed to touch his cock, though.

If you’re in tune with your cuckold’s facial expressions and the way he moans, you can also ruin his orgasm during sex, particularly with you on top. You get him right to the edge and then you stop riding him. Watch him feel the frustration as he gets to cum in his wife without actually getting to experience pleasure. This will be particularly potent if this is the first time he’s been allowed inside you for a long time because you have a bull that satisfies your needs and you don’t need your cuckold’s cock. The agony of being denied the pleasure he craves will be delicious for both of you.

Foot Worship

Everyone loves a foot rub, right? You know what makes it even better? If your man is giving that foot rub as a form of submission to you. You’re enjoying the pleasure of having your feet rubbed and he’s enjoying the pleasure of submitting to the dominant woman he loves. So, if you want a foot rub, then demand one, for you’re in control.

Foot worship goes beyond simple rubs, though. You can also make him suck on your toes. You can do so whenever you’d like, too (depending on his tolerance for a certain level of grossness, I suppose). If you’ve just been on a long, sweaty walk and/or run, have him take your shoes off and suck on your sweaty toes. Have him show his submission by doing something most men would find a little bit gross. You can also have him wash your feet, which is a surprisingly intimate gesture that has the benefit of feeling quite good.

If you’d like to get a little kinkier, you can make the foot worship include a little bit of play with his cock. Rub your toes over it. Rub the bottom of your feet over it. If you get him to produce a little bit of precum, scoop it up with your toes and make him suck them clean.

Finally, foot worship can be combined with making him clean his cum. Give him a footjob or allow him the pleasure of masturbating and cumming on your feet. Then, order him to clean up his mess and worship your beautiful toes and foot at the same time.

Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM)

This is a fairly simple power dynamic. He’s walking around the house naked and vulnerable – his cock and balls are exposed, after all – and you’re fully clothed. You’re free to touch and play with his genitals or smack his ass as you desire, while he is forbidden from doing the same with you. You’re in control. He’s the submissive.

You can extend clothed female, naked male play to the bedroom, as well. Make him strip and get in bed. Climb in with him, but while you’re fully clothed. Stroke his cock. Tease him. I promise, the notion that you still have your clothes on will absolutely change the dynamic. He will feel more vulnerable, which is where you want him to be.

If you’d still like sexual pleasure, you can simply wear a skirt or a dress and then lift it, pull your panties aside, and sit on his face. Or, you can push him to his knees and have him put his head under your skirt to give your pussy the pleasure it craves, all while he remains fully nude and eager to do as you desire.

Dressing in Leather and Latex

I can’t really explain why leather and latex make a woman look – and perhaps feel – more dominant, but I know it’s the case. It’s not magic, of course – you need to act dominant while you’re dressed in leather and latex – but it does make a difference.

Imagine your cuckold is naked and on his knees in your bedroom. You emerge from the closet in a pair of thigh high leather boots, a pair of tight leather shorts, and a tight black leather corset. He will absolutely throw himself at your feet. He will offer to worship you without you having to say a word because you will emanate the kind of dominance that he can’t help but feel drawn to.

The great thing is, there’s such a wide variety of leather and latex clothing available that you can customize your look. You can also buy pleather if you object to the cost or animal origin of leather. The options are very nearly limitless, so I’d start with a little online shopping with your submissive cuckold right next to you. See what he responds to. See what you respond to. Put together an order based on what you both enjoy and then have fun with the results. If you want to add in a riding crop to redden his ass a bit, feel free.

Collar and Leash Play

Normally, a collar and leash is reserved for a pet so you can maintain control of your creature when you take it out for a walk. That, of course, is a big part of what makes this little dose of femdom cuckold fun so delightful.

You put him on his knees. You slip the collar around his neck. You attach the leash. Now you control him. You can walk him around the house. You can order him to sit and stay. You can give him treats when he’s a good boy. Do any of those things and you will put him in a deeply submissive headspace that will utterly delight him, and you might find that it’s unexpectedly exciting to have a cuckold who’s so eager to do anything and everything you desire.

I’d recommend a comfortable collar so you can tug on it without having to worry about chafing his skin. If you happen to have a nickname for him, you could get a little tag with the name inscribed on it to put on the collar, making him feel even more like your pet once you slip it around his neck.

You can use the leash quite effectively in the bedroom. Lead him in – perhaps while dressed in a bit of leather or latex – and have him wait by the side of the bed. Get comfortable – and maybe masturbate a little while he watches and wishes he was between your legs – and then grab the leash and pull hard to urge him into the bed. Tighten your grip and lead him between your legs. Pull hard until his face is pressed against your pussy. Order him to worship you. As a bonus, you can use the loose end of the leash to offer a bit of light pain against his back while he’s using his tongue to make you cum.

If you’re into pegging, there’s nothing better than grabbing the leash and pulling back hard while you fuck him from behind with your strapon. Doing so will make him feel owned, like he’s your property, and in that moment that’s exactly what he’ll want to feel. It might make you feel exceptionally powerful, too, and that’s one of the best reasons to get into dominating your cuckold husband.

Face Dildo Sex

You’ve seen a strapon dildo, right? Well, a face dildo is basically the same thing, only it’s meant to be worn around the face, as the name suggests. It’s an exquisite way to indulge in a bit of femdom cuckold play on multiple levels, which is why I think you should try it.

First, your husband can fuck you with the face dildo, but he won’t get to experience even a hint of the physical pleasure that comes from having his cock buried in your perfect pussy, and isn’t that just thrilling? If you’re wet enough and you ride the face dildo while he’s on his back, you might even drip some of your juices onto him, which would only enhance his beautiful frustration.

Second, the face dildo makes it damn near impossible for him to talk, which in some ways turns your cuckold into little more than a silent toy for you to use. You direct him, he does as he’s told, and he can’t offer any thoughts on the matter because you don’t really care about hearing his thoughts. You just want him to satisfy you with the face dildo.

Third, if you can find a face dildo that has a little something that goes into his mouth – kind of like a little cock that’s usually used for stability – that will make him feel just a little more submissive.

If you can, I’d recommend getting him good and turned on before you introduce the face dildo. It’s especially effective if you act like you’re all kinds of horny and in need of a good fucking. You can even tell him he’s going to fuck you, because he is, it just won’t be with his cock.

Bisexual Submission

Imagine this: Your cuckold husband gets on his knees in front of a man – a gorgeous, muscular, superior man – because you told him to. He kisses the head of that man’s cock because you told him to. He parts his lips and he takes that big, beautiful cock in his mouth and he sucks on it because you told him.

Your husband is straight. He doesn’t want to suck cock. He’s not attracted to the idea of sucking cock. He’s doing it, though. He’s doing it for you. He’s doing it because he desperately wants to serve the dominant goddess in his life.

If you’re the type of woman that loves the idea of a man surrendering his sexuality for your pleasure, then I promise you’ll find immense satisfaction in introducing bisexual play into your femdom cuckold dynamic. It’s not for everyone, but if it’s for you then you will experience pure, perfect, overwhelming bliss when he does it.

Ultimately, convincing him to do it is all about focusing on his desire to submit. Don’t focus on the cock he’ll be sucking or his sexuality. Just focus on the fact that your cuckold husband wants nothing more than to make you happy, and to make you happy he needs to suck cock, or bend over and get fucked, or take a load on the face, or whatever turns you on.

Bondage

When done right, bondage is a form of total surrender, which makes it a perfect way to add a little femdom to your cuckold relationship. There are so many ways to do it, too, so it comes down to what you’d find the most exciting.

Here are a few suggestions:

• Handcuff or tie him to the bed. Blindfold him if you’d like a little sensory deprivation. Then tease him. Use his body for your pleasure. Stroke his cock. Sit on his face. Ride him if he’s big enough to give you pleasure. Then, decide if he deserves to cum. If not, deny him an orgasm.
• Handcuff him to a chair while you fuck your bull. Put the chair at the foot of the bed. Handcuff or tie his wrists and ankles. Make sure he’s naked and aroused, preferably hard as a rock. Then, invite your bull into the bedroom and do as you please with him. To make the bondage a little hotter, you could have your bull fuck you doggystyle as you stare into your bound cuckold’s eyes.
• Tie him up securely, lie him in bed, and then crawl on top of him and fuck your bull. Your cuckold will be so close to the action, but he’ll be denied any pleasure as he’s made to watch without being able to touch you. Add a blindfold to deprive him of the view he craves.
• Put him in bondage before a date. You’ll have to make sure you’re not putting him in any danger (ropes/cuffs aren’t too tight, etc), but once you’re sure of that, you can bind him so he’s unable to move and then go out on a date while he sits there and imagines all the naughty things you’re doing with another man.
• Bind him while you masturbate. You can tie him to the chair again or cuff him in bed. Then do a little work to get him turned on – a lap dance, perhaps – before you settle in and play with your pussy while he watches. Dirty talk about how much he’d love to taste your pussy or fuck you or be the one to make you cum will enhance the experience.

Ultimately, think of this as a playground. You get to decide how he’s bound, how much freedom he has once he’s bound, and how you want to play with him once you have him under your control. The more powerless he feels, the more turned on he’s likely to be.

Put Him into Service

The simplest way to execute this is to pick a night and make it clear that your husband is effectively your butler for the duration of the evening. Have him prepare dinner for you. Have him serve it like he’s a waiter. If you want, you can deny him the chance to eat with you, or you can set his plate on the floor and make him eat like he’s a pet. His service should include body worship, too, so feel free to make him give you a lengthy massage from head to toe. Make him worship your pussy and ass to your heart’s content.

You can also put him into service in public. When you go shopping, treat him like your butler. Have him hold every piece of clothing you want to try on. Make him wait outside the fitting room with your clothes so he can hand you each piece while you publicly order him around. If you go out for coffee, have him order for you while you find a table. Make him clear away your dishes when you’re done, even if there’s a waiter for that.

If you have a bull, involve him in your cuckold’s service. Invite him over for dinner. Have your cuckold act as your waiter for the entire night. Make him cook, set the table, serve the two of you, check in every so often to make sure you’re happy, and clear the table. Have him rub your feet as you cuddle with your bull on the couch. If your cuckold’s service extends to preparing you orally, have him do so before you and your bull fuck.

If you have any friends that know about your lifestyle, invite them over for afternoon tea or a glass of wine and have your cuckold serve you. If your friends are open-minded, have your cuckold do so naked or in a pair of tight underwear that show off his small cock (if he has one). He’ll feel your domination in every way, and that’s what a submissive cuckold wants.

CBT

Pain can mean pleasure, for both you and your husband. If that’s the case for either of you, then you can incorporate CBT into your femdom cuckold play. Start slowly and carefully, though, because you can do actual damage here, and you don’t want to ruin either his cock or his balls, even if you don’t have any particular use for either in a sexual context.

A quick visit to a BDSM shop (online or in store) will reveal all kinds of devices for use in CBT femdom play. They are all geared towards creating sensations of pain and restriction for his cock, his balls, or both. I’d start with the stuff that’s least painful, like a collar and leash for his balls that allows you to stretch them a bit and then tug hard when you’re feeling the need to make him suffer just a bit. You could also try something like the humbler, which is a device that attaches to his balls and can then be attached to his ankles, which makes it difficult to move without tugging hard on his balls.

A man’s cock is actually fairly malleable, meaning it can withstand a decent amount of abuse, particularly when flaccid. You can yank and pull on it (within reason) to your heart’s content when it’s soft. If you want to be particularly devilish, you can buy a device that goes around his cock and has spikes on the inside. If he gets hard, he feels the pain of those spikes, and you determine if he gets hard.

Ultimately, there are so many ways to indulge in CBT that I can’t cover them all here, but it’s worth exploring if you and your cuckold find pleasure in pain.

He Wears a Cock Sheath/Strapon

This lovely little bit of femdom cuckold sex can work on two levels, both of which should trigger your cuckold’s submissive nature.

First, you’re letting him fuck you while denying him the pleasure of being inside you. Instead of slipping his cock into your pussy, he must wear a sheath or a strapon. I’d recommend the sheath – it’s essentially a semi-hollow tube that he wears over his cock – as he’ll actually be inside you, only he won’t be able to feel the pleasure of your pussy because of the sheath. I’m not sure I can think of a more potent form of denial.

Second, by insisting that he fuck you with the sheath or a strapon, you’re rejecting your husband’s cock, which will feel like a particularly blissful form of domination to him, especially if he has a small to average-sized dick. You can feel free to be explicit about it, too. Tell him that you need something bigger, that you need something that can satisfy you.

If you already have a strapon because you intend on fucking him, go ahead and have him use that to fuck you. It’s a little easier if his cock is locked in a chastity cage, though, because otherwise he might get hard and you might feel his cock pressing against your ass while he thrusts the strapon inside you, and I don’t think that’s what you want.

Butt Plug Play

There’s just something so kinky about taking ownership of your cuckold’s asshole, and whether you’re pegging him or not, butt plug play can be a dominant delight.

It’s essentially impossible for him to wear a butt plug and not know that it’s inside him, that his asshole has been penetrated and filled because his dominant wife demanded it. It’s a great way to keep him in a submissive headspace for as long as you desire, and you can increase the size of the plug if you want it to occupy a more significant space in his mind, though I’d recommend using the big ones for short term play.

There are so many ways to have fun with this little taste of femdom. Here are a few suggestions:

• Make a ritual out of plugging him. Have him shower and clean out that area. Have him get on his hands and knees for you. Have him reach back and spread his ass cheeks. If you want to be extra naughty, have him suck on the butt plug to lube it up a little (though also use lots of lubrication). You could even have him beg you to plug his ass.
• Buy him a pretty jeweled butt plug. It’s a little bit feminine and it will make it feel like his asshole is now decorated for your pleasure.
• Demand that he prove he’s still wearing his plug at random times. If you’re out, find a quiet, safe spot and have him pull down his pants and spread his cheeks. If he’s at home and you’re out, demand that he take a picture to show you that you still own his asshole and that it’s still plugged.
• Get a Bluetooth controlled vibrating plug and turn it on whenever you want. You can even turn it on from a long distance, which means you could vibrate your cuckold’s plugged asshole while he’s at work.
• Use the plug as a precursor to strapon sex with your cuckold. Put it in his asshole and tell him you’re just loosening him up for when you fuck him. He’ll spend every moment until you fuck him in a beautiful, submissive headspace.

Cocksucker Training with Your Strapon

Giving a blowjob doesn’t have to be a submissive act (it can be the exact opposite), but it certainly can be, and this particular form of femdom is all about making your cuckold feel submissive through the act of oral worship.

Put on your strapon and feel that surge of power that comes from being the one with the big, beautiful dick bouncing in front of you. Order your cuckold husband to fall to his knees in front of you and feel the power that accompanies such a thing. Look down at him and take your strapon in your hand. Stroke it slowly and smile as you tell him exactly what you’re going to do: Train him to be a good cocksucker for you.

Verbal play works exceptionally well in this instance. You want to keep him in that submissive headspace with lots of dirty talk. When he takes your dick in his mouth, tell him he’s being a good cocksucker for you. Instruct him to take it deeper for your pleasure. Instruct him to choke on it if you want to get a little more aggressive.

If you want, face fuck him a little bit. It might be unpleasant and he’ll probably gag, but he’ll feel submissive and you might feel incredibly powerful. Grab his head with both hands (or grab a really tight handful of his hair) and then pump your cock in and out of his mouth like it’s a hole meant for your pleasure. Feel the power that comes with doing so and let him feel the submission.

If you want this to be a little more fun, you can try and find a strapon that includes a small vibrator designed to pleasure your clit while you’re using it. There are also strapless dildos with one end that slides into you, which can actually make the experience quite pleasurable for you.

Pussy Worship

This bit of femdom cuckold fun is fairly simple: Let your husband worship your pussy, or, demand that he worship it. Either way, he offers himself in submission to your desires and you get to enjoy oral sex.

There are ways to amp up the femdom though, and I promise your husband will appreciate it. Here are a few ideas:

• Stand above him while he worships you from his knees. Make sure he looks up into your eyes while he eats your pussy. Run your fingers through his hair, tell him he’s a good boy, and even move your hips a little like you’re fucking his face.
• Ignore him while he’s worshiping your pussy. I know that might sound a little crazy, but if you order him between your legs and then turn on the TV and watch while he’s licking you, it can make him feel even more submissive. If you’re a little distracted, it can also make him work harder to make you cum, and the reward for him will feel particularly sweet when you finally begin to near your orgasm and start moaning.
• Have him worship your pussy in public. You can be as bold as you want here, but don’t risk getting arrested. Instead, sneak into a restaurant bathroom for a quick session so he has the taste of your pussy on his tongue while he eats dinner. Or maybe pull him behind a tree on a hike and have him go down on you for a bit. Use your best judgment, but don’t be afraid to indulge in a little public pussy worship if it’s safe.
• He worships anytime, any place. Say you’re in the middle of making dinner and you’d like a bit of pleasure. Call him in (or join him if he’s making dinner) and order him to his knees. Make him worship your pussy. If you’re showering and you’d like a little bit of pleasure, call him to the bathroom, make him get naked, and push him to his knees to eat you out. Each time you do so in an unexpected way, you assert your dominance over your submissive cuckold and he feels the pleasure even more intensely.

It’s important that you mix it up, for anything that becomes routine (like, say, a weekly Friday night worship session on the couch) can get a little boring. As with all of these ideas, feel free to get creative.

Verbal Humiliation

For an in depth look at verbally humiliating your cuckold, click the link to read the article I wrote (it includes audio examples).

Verbal humiliation is something of an art form. You have to find the sweet spot where you’re humiliating your cuckold but not hitting him so hard that you end up destroying him.

Generally, this is best accomplished by experimenting and discovering what turns both you and him on. For example, he might love hearing about how small his cock is. You might love the idea of talking about how well your bull fucks you. Assuming your bull has a big cock, you can easily master a form of dirty talk that includes your pleasure and your cuckold’s pleasure.

Refer to the article linked above for a much more detailed look at this form of femdom for your cuckold.

I hope you found the article informative, and I hope your marriage gets a little more interesting as you add a bit of femdom to your existing cuckold play.

I believe it’s possible to train the perfect cuckold. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend you train a man to be your ideal cuck, but I believe it can be done and you’ll find a detailed plan below. So, whether you’re here because you want to train your man to be your loyal, loving cuckold or you’re just looking to fantasize and have a little naughty fun, please enjoy the plan I’ve put together.

In case it’s not clear, this is mostly for the purpose of entertainment and arousal, though I do believe this would work. It should also be obvious that this is not to be done to a man that’s not interested in being cuckolded.

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Laying the Foundation for His Cuckolding

We begin long before you’ve cuckolded him. He’s almost certainly expressed an interest in cuckolding, because it’s almost exclusively a male fantasy. Lots of women get into it, of course, but they’re typically introduced to their idea by their husbands (or boyfriends, partners, etc).

So, he’s shared his fantasy with you. You’ve gone through the stages where you’re freaked out by it, you’re weirded out because you think he just wants to pimp you out to other guys to get his rocks off, and you think he’s a little bit of a freak. Now you’ve reached the state where you’re actually intrigued by the idea of getting to have great sex and make your husband’s biggest fantasy come true in doing so.

Now, I want you to imagine a scenario for me:

You make his fantasy come true. You fuck someone else. You come home. You tell your husband about it while giving him a handjob or masturbating with him or while he’s fucking you. He cums. He has the best orgasm of his life. Then, not long after, he feels a sense of shame because he got off on the idea of his wife fucking someone else.

He gets surly. He gets angry. He lashes out because of that shame. Suddenly you’re fighting. It’s no longer idyllic. Now it’s miserable. You never cuckold him again. He doesn’t stop fantasizing about it, though. He can’t stop fantasizing about it, even though it hurt when you made it a reality. He begs you to cuckold him again. He says he’ll be better this time. He’s lying, which is why you need to train him.

Ultimately, this first stage of training is about preventing the shame spiral. It doesn’t have to take a long time, but I believe it’s a necessity to a healthy, long term cuckold relationship. And, while it will take some work on your part, it should be fairly easy to do.

The basics of it are pretty simple. You’re going to use his overwhelming desire to be cuckolded – if he’s brought up the fantasy, I promise you that nothing in the world turns him on quite like being cuckolded – to assert just a little bit of control over him. Once you have that control, you can train him not to crash into a place of emotional agony after you’ve cuckolded him for the first time.

Orgasm Control

That control – and this is the part that might trip up some women – comes from taking control of his orgasms. This is important for one very particular reason: The hornier your husband is, the more thrilling he’ll find the idea of being cuckolded, and the easier he’ll be to train. Once he cums, it’s quite likely every bit of his desire to be cuckolded will drain away for some amount of time, and if he cums often enough it’s damn near impossible to train him, so you need to be the one in charge of his orgasms.

With any luck, you’ll be able to tell your husband – and future cuckold – that you’re now in control of his orgasms without him objecting too loudly. You determine when he gets to cum. Not him. That means no masturbation. No sneaking orgasms in the shower or when you’re out of the house.

Does the idea of orgasm control thrill you? Then you might enjoy Diary of a Submissive Cuckold, a 14-part story on my Patreon page. I promise, the sub is a very good boy and his domme is eager to train him to do exactly as she desires and serve her every need.

Some men will be happy to follow this rule because you’re going to make their fantasy come true. Some men, however, are exceptionally weak and they won’t be able to resist masturbating constantly. There’s a solution for those men, though: A chastity device. Lock his cock in a cage and you hold the key. He can’t even get hard, let alone masturbate. If your husband is willing, I’d recommend putting him in the cage no matter what, for it gives you a far greater sense of control and it’s quite good at building a sense of desperation in him.

Once you’ve seized control of his orgasms, your husband becomes very easy to train, and you can begin to help him understand that his cuckold fantasy is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s a delicate balance to achieve. He wants to feel humiliation – that’s where so much of the pleasure comes from – but you want to stop it from transitioning to shame, because that’s an enormously destructive emotion. It takes some practice to get it right, but if you stay attuned to your husband’s needs, I’m certain you can do it.

Your Pleasure is His Pleasure

The first layer of the foundation of your cuckold/hotwife relationship is orgasm control. The second layer is to shift the way your husband thinks about your pleasure. You want him to take on the traits of a submissive, where providing you pleasure is what brings him pleasure. You’re looking to train the selfishness out of him, and you can achieve that in a fairly simple manner.

Essentially, he needs to earn his orgasms by doing things that make you happy. This is why you’re taking control of his climaxes. This largely comes down to what makes you happy, but I’d suggest mixing in both sexual and nonsexual behaviors.

It’s also important to note that pleasure doesn’t have to mean an orgasm for him. It could simply mean that you offer him a deeply passionate kiss, or that you cuddle up in bed while wearing lingerie he loves, or that you tease his cock a little without letting him cum. You do need to let him cum from time to time, though, as he’ll lose interest in the whole thing if he’s never permitted to climax.

A lovely side effect of your husband’s desire to be cuckolded: He really, really likes seeing you cum. It turns him on to see you cum, which means you can reward him by letting him get you off. If he’s good, you can spread your legs and let him eat your pussy. You can let him finger you or use a toy on you. He’ll be frustrated that he can’t fuck you, but he’ll find pleasure in your orgasm and it will be rewarding for him even if you don’t also grant him a climax.

You’re setting up a basic reward system. Your husband does something that you like and you reward him with a little bit of pleasure, thereby making it clear that he needs to earn his pleasure by making you happy. I know it doesn’t seem like this has much to do with cuckolding, but this is just part of the foundation.

It’s a necessity that his behavior be randomly rewarded. If he knows exactly what he can do to get a reward, he’ll only do those things. If he’s randomly rewarded for doing all manner of things that make you happy, he’ll start doing anything he can to make you happy. He’ll even start putting in a great deal of thought into what he could do that might bring you pleasure or make you happy, which is exactly the mindset you want to achieve before you delve into the real cuckold training.

If you want a few ideas on how to spice up orgasm control for the both of you, I’ve listed some below:

• Make Him Work For It – Let him know that you’ve decided that he needs to make you cum 10 times (or the amount of your choosing) before he’s allowed to orgasm again. Then, make him work for the right to make you cum. You’ll be amazed at the lengths he’s willing to go just so you’ll welcome him between your legs to lick your pussy to a beautiful orgasm.
• Tease and Denial – Work tease and denial into your control of his orgasms. Let him know you’ll be giving him a handjob that night but he has only five minutes to cum. Oil your hands up and make him feel good, but don’t let him cum. Keep him hard and mad with desire for the entire five minutes and then cut him off. Repeat as many days in a row as you’d like. You can do tease and denial in all kinds of ways, but it’s not fun for all men, so only indulge if your man enjoys it.
• Lingerie Shopping – If he’s well-behaved, reward him with a trip to your local lingerie store. Let him pick out something for you to wear. Try it on for him. Buy it. Bring it home. Model it for him again. Excite him with a little kissing and touching. If he’s been particularly good, reward him by letting him fuck you. If you want him to be a little better, tell him that he can earn the chance to fuck you in the beautiful lingerie you just bought.

Once you’ve taken control of his orgasms and you’ve both found your comfort zone with that sort of play, it’s time to delve into the pleasures of cuckold training. Some of what you read below may seem crazy, but I promise that your husband – who wants to be cuckolded – will find it thrilling, and it should be useful for helping him be in the right mindset when you actually cuckold him.

Gently Deflating Your Would-Be Cuckold’s Ego

As I’m sure most women know, a man’s ego can be a troublesome thing. It can be far more troublesome when you cuckold him, for a man’s ego instinctively responds to his cuckolding with a sense of pain, sometimes causing him to lash out. That’s why you want to deflate his ego little by little through cuckold training. What’s great about this, though, is that he’ll find it hugely arousing.

There are several steps I’d recommend taking to do this and I’ve outlined them below:

Making it Clear Your Husband Isn’t Quite Good Enough and/or That You Need More

One of the underpinnings of a typical cuckold fantasy (and I’m talking cuckolding here, not stag/hotwife), is your husband’s belief (or desire, really) that he doesn’t fuck you the way you need/deserve to be fucked. It’s often related to cock size (would-be cuckolds tend to obsess over cock size), but it can also be related to stamina, or skill, or even looks/body.

Even if you’re satisfied with your sex life – and I’ll bet many of you are – you can use your husband’s beliefs to help train him into the perfect cuckold. You must start gently, though. I recommend doing so when you’ve got him in a state of desire and when you’ve decided he’s going to get to orgasm, as training a good cuckold is so much easier when he routinely cums while thinking about you having sex with another man.

So, let’s play out a scenario:

Your husband is naked in your bed. You’re naked, dressed in lingerie, or however you’d prefer to be. You’re next to him. You have his stiff cock in your hand. You’re stroking him slowly. You want to further his training, so you decide a little bit of dirty talk focused on his shortcomings (perceived or real) is the perfect way to do it.

“I’ve decided that I deserve to fuck someone with a bigger cock than yours,” you say softly.

With any luck, he moans and maybe you feel his cock get a little bit stiffer in your hand. That’s how you know you’re doing it right.

“You can’t satisfy me with this little thing,” you say. “Not like I deserve to be satisfied. Sometimes, when I’m really turned on, it’s like I can’t even feel you inside me.”

You’ll need to make sure you’re not being too harsh – some would-be cuckolds need gentler play – because you don’t want to destroy his ego. You just want to shrink it bit by bit.

You can also do something similar while you’re having sex with him:

You straddle your husband. You take him inside you. You smile as he fills you. It feels nice, but it could probably feel better. That’s not exactly uncommon. But, your husband wants to be a cuckold, so you can actually have a little fun with the notion that it could feel better. You can just tell him.

You ride him slowly. You bite your lower lip in that seductive manner. You moan a little and then say, “Mmm, I do wish your cock was a little bigger. I wish you were a little deeper inside me. I wish it felt like you were stretching out my tight little pussy.”

While you might not actually like the idea of your pussy being stretched – who would, really? – your husband will enjoy it, mostly because he’s thinking about how much you’d enjoy fucking someone with a bigger cock than his. You might very well bring him to a rather quick orgasm if you offer up that kind of cuckold-related dirty talk, and then next time you can reference the fact that he came so quickly as a way to shrink his ego just a little bit more.

If you want to come at it from a more positive place, you can emphasize your husband’s skill in other areas:

Get him all worked up. Hugely turned on. Desperate to fuck you. Maybe you even give him a little preview of your pussy by sitting on his cock, taking him inside you for a few short seconds, and then pulling off and sitting across his stomach.

“I know you want to fuck me, baby, but I’d really love it if you’d eat my pussy instead,” you say with a smile. “You’re just so good with your tongue. You make me feel so, so good. I know your dick is so hard and you’re so desperate to be inside me, but I want to have a really good orgasm and your tongue is the only way that’s going to happen for me.”

You’re not explicitly saying that he can’t fuck you worth a damn, but you’re implying it, and by doing so you’re helping to diminish his ego a little and you’re helping him focus on your pleasure, which is ultimately where you want your cuckold husband focused at all times.

Toy Play Brings Pleasure for Both of You

After you’ve gotten comfortable with dirty talk and the gentle deflation of your husband’s ego via that dirty talk, it’s time to introduce sex toys.

Now, I understand that most sex toys for women are designed by men and are deeply flawed because of that. After all, deep penetration with a massively thick dildo is generally not hugely pleasurable because it doesn’t also come with clitoral stimulation. However, a phallic dildo can be an exceptionally useful cuckold training tool, and for that reason I highly recommend its use.

If you’ve been paying attention, it will come as no surprise that you should purchase a toy that’s larger than your husband’s cock. If you want, you can get one that’s lifelike – with veins running down the shaft and the mushroom head and all of that – but it’s not an absolute necessity. Anything long, fairly thick, and phallic will get the job done.

As an aside, if your husband has a big cock but still wants to be cuckolded, don’t worry about the size thing. Just get a nice dildo – at least the size of his cock – and put on a naughty little show about how good it feels to fuck yourself with it while your husband watches.

The first time, I’d recommend using the toy on yourself while your husband watches. Fool around to get each other turned on, get naked, and then bring out the sex toy that you’re going to tease him with. If you want to make it even more potent, make the appearance of the toy a surprise.

Have your husband position his body so he can see your pussy. You want him to witness the penetration. It would be ideal if he can see your face, too, as you’ll be putting on a bit of a show for him and you want him to witness your pleasure.

Let’s play out how this might go:

Your husband is naked with his hand around his stiff cock. He’s sitting at the foot of the bed, as you instructed. You roll over, open the nightstand, and pull out the new toy you purchased. You hold it up and see your husband’s eyes go wide.

“It’s big, isn’t it?” you ask.

He nods and watches as you run your fingers up and down the shaft, much like you’re stroking a cock, only one that’s a great deal bigger than your husband’s.

“Would you like to watch me fuck myself with this big cock?” you ask.

“Yes,” your husband says. You can hear that his breathing has gotten a little heavier. His pupils are dilated. His cock seems a bit harder. He’s aroused at the idea of you fucking that toy.

“You know it’s a lot bigger than you,” you say.

He nods.

“When I went shopping for it, I couldn’t help but get the big one. I thought I deserved, finally, after all these years, to have a long, thick cock inside me, to fuck a nice big cock that could actually fill my tight pussy,” you say.

He groans. You’re saying exactly what he’s always longed to hear. You place the tip of the toy against your pussy lips. You gather some of your wetness to help lubricate the tip and then gently push it into your tight hole.

You arch your back and moan. You reach down and play with your clit. Your husband looks utterly mesmerized by the sight of you penetrating your pussy with the big dildo and you can’t help but enjoy that look in his eyes.

“Does it turn you on to watch a big cock fuck your wife?” you ask.

He nods.

You fuck yourself harder and faster. You rub your clit furiously. Your husband masturbates right along with you.

“You can cum when I do,” you instruct. “But only when I do. Only when I cum all over this big cock are you allowed to climax. Do you understand?”

“Yes,” he says.

You fuck yourself hard. You can hear how wet you are and you know your husband can hear it too. You cum on the big cock in your pussy. Your husband cums with you. You watch his face and see the intensity of his pleasure. It makes you smile to know that you’ve made him cum so hard. Your orgasm feels damn good, too.

You pull the toy from your pussy. You hold it up so your husband can see that it’s slick with your juices. You smile at him and he smiles back, for you’ve both just had fantastically pleasurable orgasms while a big cock filled your pussy.

If you want to mix things up, you can ride the toy. You could have your husband lie on his back and then crawl up near his head, slip the toy into your pussy, and ride it while he watches from just a few inches away.

You could also – this might be a little more difficult to pull off – rest the toy against his stomach or pubic area and ride it, almost like you’re riding him, only his dick isn’t inside you and he’s instead watching you ride something far larger. If you rode it while sitting across your husband’s stomach, you could have him reach down and play with your clit, thereby helping you cum while someone else’s cock (in his mind, at least) is inside you.

It’s worth pointing out that the dirty talk can be a huge difference maker at this stage. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend talking about your desire to have someone else’s cock inside you – your husband might not be ready for it yet – but you can certainly do that if you think he’d enjoy it.

You could just keep it simple, though, and talk about how good the toy feels, and if it’s bigger than him, than how good it feels to have a big cock inside you. Even if doesn’t actually feel that much better – and it might not – remember that you’re training your cuckold here, and part of that training is to put him in a state of arousal while he’s thinking about being cuckolded.

At some point I’d recommend asking your husband to fuck you with the toy. It can be remarkably effective to have him use something bigger on you while his own cock remains stiff and denied between his legs. He’ll almost certainly find it pleasurable to be able to control the toy – or the other cock – fucking you, and he’ll appreciate the close up view. Word of warning: He might get too exuberant and fuck you too hard or too deep, so make sure to warn him to go slowly at first.

Introducing the Idea of Another Man

At some point you’ll need to advance your husband’s cuckold training to the point that you explicitly introduce the idea of another man into the conversation. The best time is once you’ve both had fun with the toy and he seems like he’s itching to expand to the next level of pleasure, which is when his fantasy takes one step closer to becoming reality.

There are a few options for introducing the idea of another man to your husband’s cuckold training:

The Nameless, Faceless Man

This is most easily done when using the toy. Instead of talking about how good the toy feels, start talking about how good ‘he’ feels, or how good ‘his’ cock feels.

“Baby, he feels so good inside me,” you could say as you’re fucking yourself with the toy. Or, even better, while your husband is fucking you with it. “His cock feels so good inside me,” is another good choice. If you feel comfortable dishing out a touch of verbal humiliation, you could also say, “His cock feels so much better than yours.”

Talk About an Ex-Boyfriend

This one is a little more dangerous, so be careful. It’s better if it’s an ex from a long time ago (college, perhaps) so it’s not realistic that you could fuck him again. I know that sounds crazy, since your husband wants you to fuck someone else, but at this stage he’s likely still dealing with heavy insecurity regarding his fantasy, and if it gets too close to reality right now it can blow up in your face.

That being said, if you can talk about actual memories of actual great sex you had with someone else, that will be a remarkably potent way to thrill your husband and aid in his training.

Here’s an example of how that could play out:

You’re curled up on the couch with your husband. You’ve both had a glass of wine. You’re feeling just a little bit buzzed in that way that puts a smile on your face and leaves you with that wondrous, slightly floaty feeling.

“You know what I was thinking about today?” you ask as you reach out and rub his knee.

“What?” your husband asks as he looks down and smiles. He can tell you’re in a little bit of a naughty mood.

“A guy I dated in college,” you say.

Your husband’s eyes go wide for a moment as it dawns on him that his fantasy is on your mind. “Oh, really?” he asks. “What…why were you thinking about him?”

You smile and your hand moves up his thigh, stopping short of his crotch but making your intentions known. “Well, this guy, he was the first time I had truly great sex in my life. It was so good that I can remember it even now. All I have to do is close my eyes and it’s almost like I can feel him inside me again, like I can feel his muscular body on top of mine, like I can feel how my body responded to the pleasure of having him inside me.”

You close your eyes, smile, and imagine your old boyfriend fucking you. You bite your lower lip in that suggestive way and then unleash a soft moan while your hand moves between your husband’s legs. Now he’s thinking about you fucking someone else and he’s getting turned on, which is exactly what you want.

You open your eyes as you find your husband’s cock – which is now hard – and you say, “He was much bigger than you. He filled my pussy so much better than you do, baby. Every time he fucked me I had an incredible orgasm.”

You can see that he’s turned on, that he wants more. It’s your choice how much you give him at this point. You can keep up the dirty talk and jerk him off, or (and this would be my choice) you can have him go down on you while you talk about sex with your ex and how good it felt. Honestly, it might be good for you to actually imagine having sex with another man while your husband goes down on you, because eventually you’ll be doing that very thing when you cuckold him.

Talking About Someone in Your Life That You Desire

The final option for introducing the idea of another man is to talk about someone you haven’t fucked but that could actually become your sexual partner. This could be a coworker, a friend of your husband’s (though that’s a little dangerous, so be careful), or a random guy you see in the grocery store.

If you feel like things are moving along well, it’s not a bad idea to start talking about random guys you find attractive, honestly. Say you’re at the grocery store. You walk by a gorgeous guy. You give him a smile. When you’ve walked past him, you could turn to your husband and quietly say that you’d love to fuck the guy that just walked by. It will be a small thrill for your husband, but the whole point of this part of his training is to offer up lots of small thrills to condition him to find cuckolding thrilling without completely crashing into a place of emotional despair once it happens.

Associate Your Husband’s Pleasure with Cuckolding

As you know, you should be in control of your husband’s orgasms at this point. You decide when and how he cums, which should make it easy for you to use his climaxes to benefit his cuckold training.

From this point forward, most of your husband’s orgasms should have a cuckold flavor to them. I understand if you want to make love to him from time to time and you don’t want cuckolding to have anything to do with it, but it’s important to his training that you begin to associate his pleasure – as much of it as possible – with his fantasy.

Now, I’m going to assume that you’re into the idea of having sex with other men. If you’re not, you really shouldn’t be training your husband to be a cuckold. If you are, then it should be plenty pleasurable to fantasize right along with him.

Some ideas for how to associate his pleasure with cuckolding (all of these are most effective as he nears his orgasm):

• During sex, casually mention that you wish he had a bigger cock, that he could fill you better than he does, that he could reach deeper places inside you.
• Say someone else’s name – perhaps the ex-boyfriend you’ve been talking about or someone else you’ve fantasized about fucking – while your husband is fucking you.
• Get him really turned – close to an orgasm, in fact – before you take him inside you. Then, when it’s clear he’s going to cum too quickly, mention that you’d much rather be with a man that could actually last long enough to make you cum. You probably won’t get to cum until afterwards in this case, so you may not want to do it, but it can be a fun way to tease your husband.
• A dirty talk handjob where you go on at length about anything cuckold related – someone else you want to fuck, an ex-boyfriend, the lack of size between your husband’s legs, etc – is a great way to associate his pleasure with cuckolding.
• Have him go down on you while he masturbates. Make it clear that you’re thinking of someone else – that you’re actively fantasizing – while he’s licking your pussy. Let him cum while giving you head as long as he makes you cum too.

This is the most effective form of cuckold training. You need to lay the foundation before you get to this stage, but taking your time and having plenty of cuckold-fueled orgasms – for the both of you, in fact – before you actually sleep with another man is a great way to ensure that he’s both eager and well-prepared to see his fantasy come true.

However, it’s important to monitor his emotional state after his orgasms and engage in just a little bit of aftercare. At this stage that should be as simple as telling your husband you love him after he’s cum, as he really just needs a little reassurance that he’s not useless or incapable of making his wife happy. If you fail to offer that reassurance you may find that he sinks into a bad emotional place, and you want to avoid that at all costs.

It’s Time to Flirt with Another Man

Now we’re getting to the fun part. You’re not yet ready to cuckold him for the first time, but his training is ready to take the next step. It’s time to do a little flirting while he watches. It’s really a test for both of you. You need to make sure he can actually handle it – and not spin out emotionally and get angry – and you need to make sure that you’re actually interested in cuckolding him (sometimes reality isn’t as much fun as fantasy).

You’ll likely have a better sense of how to find someone to flirt with in your local area than I do – especially while your husband can watch from a distance – so I’m not going to prescribe something specific. I will give a few examples, though:

• Go to a Bar/Club – Put on something sexy and head out to a bar/club. It’s best if you find a place that’s likely to be populated by the kinds of guys you’re interested in. Then, have a seat at the bar while your husband finds a seat some distance away (far enough that he can’t hear the flirting is the best option). You’re a sexy single woman at a bar, so people will flirt with you. The best part is, there’s absolutely no pressure on you, so you’re free to have fun, accept a few free drinks, and enjoy what it feels like to openly, gleefully flirt again.
• Grocery Store – This might sound a little insane, but there’s actually quite a lot of flirting that goes on at the grocery store. You’ll need to dress up a little – men are visual creatures, after all – but in this case it’s a little more casual. Perhaps athletic wear – men love a pair of tight leggings on a lady – and then you’re good to go. Have your husband linger behind you as you’re in an aisle and chances are good someone will do a little flirting. If you’re on the shorter side and you spot a tall gentleman you’d like to flirt with, have him grab something from a high shelf for you as a starter.
• Online – It’s not quite as fun as doing it in person, but you can make an account on a dating app and do a little online flirting. In this case, I’d avoid posting face pictures, but you can also be honest about the fact that you’re married and looking to have a little fun, and that your husband knows. So, you’ll get plenty of guys that are eager to provide you with exactly what you need. The bonus here is that your husband – and future cuckold – can read everything right alongside you. As you probably know, you’re more likely to run into complete and utter creeps with this method, but that’s life.
• The Park – If you have a dog, leash them up and take them to the park. As always, wear something that makes you look good and then do a little flirting. Lots of guys will come up to pet your dog and then get in a little bit of flirtatious conversation. If you do it in the right location your husband will be able to listen while seeming like he’s just another park goer.
• The Gym – If you don’t have a gym membership, get one. If you’re confident in your body, dress like it when you go to the gym. Guys will absolutely flirt with you. You’ll be beating them away with a towel, in fact. Plus, your husband can go with you. It can look like he’s a stranger working out next to you while some guy is busy trying to pick you up.

This step is about more than just the flirting, though. It’s about what you do with your husband afterwards, too.

Your best option is to do a little cuckold-fueled flirting with your husband. Ask him if he enjoyed watching you flirt with that hot guy. Ask him if it turned him on to think of you giving that guy your number. If the guy was bold enough to ask you out, let your husband know that was the case and watch him get turned on.

You can also work the flirting into the step above where you make sure all your husband’s orgasms are cuckold-fueled. If you flirted with someone particularly attractive – someone that you actually had a spark with – work it into a fantasy while you’re using the toy or stroking your husband’s cock. Ask him if he’d have enjoyed watching you kiss the guy, or take it further and ask him if he’d have enjoyed seeing you fuck that guy.

Ultimately, you want the flirting to do two things. First, you’re looking to further ease your husband into the notion of being cuckolded for real. Second, you want to boost your confidence for when you actually welcome another man into your sex life. Sometimes it will backfire – it doesn’t always go well – but most of the time you should emerge feeling really good about yourself, and eventually you’ll be flirting all the time and your body will be buzzing with those delightful sensations that come from feeling like you’re exceptionally attractive.

His Training Pays off When You Cuckold Him for the First Time

Now it’s getting real. By this point, your husband should be ready to be cuckolded for the first time. His training should have diminished his ego and prepared him for the emotional toll of his wife having sex with someone else. It should also have primed him to find it intensely pleasurable. In fact, if things go well, your husband will have the most incredible sexual experiences of his life after you’ve cuckolded him. And it goes without saying that you should also get to enjoy the best orgasms of your life.

At this point you’re free to cuckold him however you’d like, but I’ll lay out the process below with some tips that I think will help make it as smooth as possible.

Choosing the Right Guy for the First Time

This part’s actually pretty important, and it’s all about you, because you want to ensure that you have truly great sex when you cuckold him for the first time. If it’s bad sex, you certainly won’t enjoy it, but neither will your husband, because what he truly cares about – and craves – is his wife having genuinely great sex with another man.

How you choose is up to you. You’ve likely been doing quite a lot of flirting as you’ve worked on your husband’s cuckold training, so perhaps you have a few guys in mind that you know you’ll have sexual chemistry with.

I’d recommend involving your husband in choosing the guy. This could take the form of browsing guys on a dating app with him by your side, or having him take pictures (I’d recommend no face pictures, but that’s up to you) for you to send to another man. If you’re planning on cuckolding him with someone you already know, then talk to your husband about the guy, why you like him, and why you think the sex will be great. It can be very helpful for his training if both of you orgasm while thinking about the guy you intend on sleeping with.

It’s entirely up to you, but I’d recommend not having your husband present the first time you cuckold him. It can make it more difficult for everyone in a way that might hinder the pleasure of it. Your new partner might have trouble performing with your husband watching. Your husband might lose control of his emotions and interrupt and/or ruin it for you somehow. Plus, you might find it a little strange to have sex while someone is watching, even if that someone is your husband.

As a small bonus, you can thrill your husband by taking him shopping for your date. You can buy new underwear, a lingerie set if you’re feeling bold, or an entire outfit. Use it as a way to arouse your husband and to further his cuckold training. Ask him if he thinks your date would enjoy seeing you in a variety of outfits and/or pieces of lingerie. Remind him that it’s not about what he would want, but what the other man in your life would want.

Training Him on the Day of His First Cuckolding

Your husband’s emotions are likely to be heightened on the day of his first cuckolding. You can use that to your advantage, and to continue and deepen his training. Here are some tips for how to do that:

• Frequent Check-Ins – Ask him early and often how he’s feeling. If he expresses nerves or anxiety, try and sooth it with a gentle touch, a soft kiss, and a few loving words. If you can, try and lure him to a place of arousal, as associating his cuckolding with his pleasure is the best way to ensure he remains well-behaved.
• Involve Him in Getting You Ready – I wrote an entire article called a Cuckold’s Duties on Date Night (you can also read the story A Dutiful Cuckold). It’s certainly geared towards a more advanced form of cuckolding, but it lays out the many things a cuckold can do to help his wife get ready for her date. They range from showering with you – and doing much of the work of cleaning you – to dressing you or giving your pussy a quick bit of oral worship to leave you wet and excited for your date.
• No Masturbation While You’re Gone – Before you leave, make him promise that he will not masturbate while you’re gone. If you have him in a cage, you won’t have to do that, of course, but this is hugely important. If he cums before you get home, he’ll have ruined your best chance to further his training and he’ll have done so because he was just too weak to resist surrendering to the pleasure of being cuckolded. If he masturbates, express your disappointment and then deny him any sort of cuckold-related pleasure for a certain period of time (a few days, a week perhaps) as a mild form of punishment.
• Text Him While You’re Out – While you’re gone, your husband will likely experience a tidal wave of emotions. He’ll feel anxious and nervous and scared that he’s going to lose you. He’ll feel hugely aroused, too. The idea of texting him is to try and keep him aroused instead of anxious. Assuming things are going well, let him know. Tell him that your date looks good, that he just touched you, that you just kissed, etc. Let him know when you’re going back to your date’s place or the hotel room you’ve booked. Let him know you’re about to have sex with another man. Keep him focused on what’s happening on your date, not on his anxiety.
• Make Him Cum When You Get Home – When you return home, your mission is to give your husband a great orgasm (assuming you’ve had one on your date). Draw it out if you can and fill his head with all the naughty details of the sex you just had. Let him ask questions if he has any and answer them in as lusty a manner as you can manage. If he wants to go down on you – he might – let him do so if you’re comfortable. You choose how he cums. Handjob, blowjob, masturbation, sex. It’s up to you. Just let him cum while you fill his head with erotic thoughts of the other man that fucked you.

Dealing with His Feelings and Aftercare

At some point after his orgasm, there’s a very good chance your husband – and now your cuckold – is going to experience a wealth of difficult, perhaps even unpleasant feelings. If you want him to be a well-trained cuckold going forward, you need to help him work his way through those feelings.

Thankfully, that’s fairly simple to do, especially if you’ve done the cuckold training I outlined above, as it’s almost all geared towards ensuring he maintains an even-keeled emotional state once you’ve actually made his fantasy a reality. You just need to engage in a bit of aftercare. Essentially, your task is to remind him that you love him, that he’ll always be the man you love more than any other, and that you thoroughly enjoyed making his fantasy a reality (assuming that’s the case).

It honestly shouldn’t take that much effort. Just make sure you’re monitoring his emotional state. As you know, men aren’t always good at expressing how they’re feeling, so your husband might be in a bad place but unwilling to talk about it. You might have to take the lead. Something as simple as a bit of physical affection – a hug and a kiss followed by a quick “I love you” – can do the trick.

Encourage him to talk to you, too, and whatever you do, don’t let him spin out into a place of emotional devastation because you’ve fucked someone else. It might seem insane that a man who fantasized about such a thing could then get sullen and moody because you did as he desired, but it can happen and it can be hugely destructive.

Letting Your Cuckold Watch

I wrote an article on the subject of letting your cuckold watch you and your bull have sex and it’s a great resource if you’re seeking more in depth thoughts on the matter.

In short, it can be exceptionally pleasurable for your cuckold to watch you have great sex with another man. It can also be used as a training tool in a variety of ways:

• Witnessing You Have Great Sex is Great Training – If the sex you’re having with your new man truly is great, you can train your cuckold simply by having him watch. All he has to do is witness you having better sex with someone else than you have with him and it will help him embrace the cuckold mindset. Plus, it will really turn him on, and that’s the best kind of training you can do.
• Hand Holding During Sex – Have your husband hold your hand as someone else fucks you. It helps him connect to you while another man is inside you and providing you with the pleasure you deserve. Look at your husband every so often, too. Stare into his eyes. Smile. Moan as you near your orgasm with someone else’s cock inside you. It will solidify his position as your cuckold.
• You Can Cum Together – Your husband can never cum before you do if he’s watching. The chance of an emotional outburst is far too high. If he does, kick him out of the room. If he doesn’t, have him cum right along with you, especially early on. If the man inside you can cum at the same time, it’s perfect. Nothing reinforces your husband’s position as a cuckold more than watching you and your bull cum as a result of the great sex you’re having while he cums as a result of stroking his cuckold cock while someone else fucks his wife.
• He Can Worship You Afterwards – If he doesn’t cum, your husband might enjoy crawling between your legs and licking your pussy after your bull has pulled out (this is a little more advanced, so I wouldn’t necessarily try it right away). It’s a good way to reinforce his position as a cuckold if you’re so inclined to do so.

Sex with Your Cuckold

After you’ve cuckolded him for the first time, having sex with your husband can be a great way to continue his training. It’s not necessary and I wouldn’t recommend you do it every time (you might not want your entire sex life to become about cuckolding), but it can be exceptionally useful in continuing to turn him into the cuckold you want him to be.

But how, exactly? Here are a few ways:

• A Form of Aftercare – Having sex with your husband is a great form of aftercare. Make it free of anything to do with cuckolding and just connect with him. If he’s feeling insecure about the fact that someone else fucked you exceptionally well, this can be a good way to cure that (unless he’s crappy in bed, in which case it might only make that worse).
• An Even Better Cuckold-Fueled Orgasm – This is almost the exact opposite of the recommendation above, because in this case you’re going to have sex with him while fueling his cuckold fantasies. If you’re interested in fucking him right after your bull has been inside you, go for it. Talk dirty to him about the fact that someone else just fucked you. If he can handle it, tell him that your bull was better, that his dick was bigger, that you wish he was still inside you. After your husband cums, tell him you love him.
• Reinforcing His Desires and Your Pleasure Through Q&A – You get on top and take your husband inside you. You stare into his eyes. You tease him with your pussy. Then you ask him questions that probe his desires. “Do I deserve to fuck someone better than you?” “Do I deserve to enjoy [Insert Bull’s Name] cock instead of yours?” “Do I deserve to fuck him whenever I want?” “Do you think you can satisfy me with this cock of yours?” “Do you think you can fuck me as well as he does?” “Do you think you can make me cum as hard as he does?”
• Sex Where You Don’t Cum – You may not be able to prevent yourself from cumming, but if you can, it can be fun and useful to have your husband cum without satisfying you. He might even find it arousing, plus, you can use it to reinforce the idea that you need someone else – the man you’ve been cuckolding him with, hopefully – to satisfy you.

You’ve Mastered the Basics of Cuckold Training

At this point, if you’ve followed that plan – and adapted it to fit your needs and the needs of your husband – chances are good you have a well-trained cuckold and a newly adventurous sex life that includes great sex with another man, better orgasms for you and your husband, and a great deal more excitement in your life.

Please keep in mind that the primary benefit of everything above is to help your husband stay in a happy, healthy mental state when you cuckold him. It can be emotionally wrenching experience and you don’t want your marriage to implode because of that.

It’s also to help keep you in that healthy mental state. Taking it slowly and following each of the steps – and staying in those steps for weeks or even months at a time – will let you learn about your husband’s fantasy and see that it can, in fact, be something beautiful that will benefit both of you in the long run.

Now, what if you want to go further? Cuckolding is a remarkably deep fantasy, after all. There are dozens of naughty avenues to explore, all of which can yield astonishingly pleasurable results. If that’s the case (or if it ever becomes the case in the future), continue reading for a wealth of ideas for taking your husband’s cuckold training into the advanced and extreme stages.

Advanced Cuckold Training

You’ve trained your husband into a happy, emotionally healthy cuckold. He loves the fact that you have a bull (or boyfriend, or lover, or fuck buddy, or however you want to refer to him). You’re both experiencing higher levels of sexual satisfaction than at any point in your marriage. In other words, cuckolding really works for you, so you’re interested in going a little deeper into this kinky fantasy. You’re ready to try the advanced version of the lifestyle.

Ultimately, advanced cuckold training is about further developing the cuckold mindset in your husband. In doing so, you’re freeing him to experience even more pleasure – and no matter how hard he cums at the basic kind of cuckolding, if he’s into it (and not all guys want the advanced play), the advanced kind will make him cum harder – and to let you have an even more fulfilling sex life with both your cuckold husband and your bull. In essence, the more advanced you get, the more comfortable you’ll both feel inhabiting your new roles in the sexual part of your marriage (though you might notice changes outside the bedroom, too).

Below are some general ideas to help further develop the cuckold mindset. Some build on ideas I’ve already mentioned and others are entirely new:

• Have Your Husband Go Down on You Immediately After You’ve Fucked Another Man – Perhaps you’re already doing this, but if you want to advance his training, make it a regular thing. Ensure that your husband hasn’t yet had an orgasm and then welcome him between your legs to worship your pussy after you’ve been satisfied by someone else. If your clit is too sensitive, simply have him kiss and lick your labia or put his tongue inside you. Instruct him to use his mouth to sooth your sore pussy after you were fucked with such power and skill by the man that makes you cum so hard.Push the dirty talk as far as you think your husband can take it. Tell him that your bull fucks you better than your husband, which is why he’s licking your pussy while your bull gets to fill you with his big cock. Tell him he’s not worthy of your pussy. Tell him he doesn’t deserve to fuck you. If you want, deny him an orgasm despite how turned on he is. Or, let him cum with his tongue deep inside you, which is right where your bull’s cock was mere minutes ago.
• Preparation Is Mandatory – Make your husband prepare you for your dates with your bull. Make him wash your body. Make him trim your pubic hair to your bull’s liking. Make him dry you off. Make him lotion your legs. Make him watch as you do your hair and makeup to ensure that another man – a superior man – wants to fuck you. Make him dress you in the lingerie and sexy clothes you’ve picked for your date. If you’re comfortable with it, make him worship your ass while you do your hair and makeup. Make him fully aware of the fact that you’re taking a great deal of time to get ready for another man while he’s eating your ass like a cuckold.
• Have Your Husband Buy Condoms for You – You could buy condoms. Your bull could buy condoms. But, it’s so much more effective to make your husband buy them. If your bull’s cock is big enough to warrant Magnum condoms, even better. Send your husband out with a shopping list with just one item: “Condoms, so another man can fuck your wife like you’re incapable of doing.” Make him hold that note in his hand and read it before he picks out the condoms that someone else will use to satisfy you.
• Make Your Bull Your Primary Sexual Partner – This will likely happen naturally, because if you’re with a man that fucks you better than your husband – and there’s no point in any of this if that’s not the case – he will eventually fuck you more than your husband does. This will help your husband’s training if you make sure to point it out as often as possible.Doing so in small ways and non-sexual situations can be effective, too. You could even do it while on a date with your husband. The trailers are playing in the movie theater and you just lean over and whisper, “Did you know that my bull has fucked me more in the past month than you do?” before giving him a kiss on the cheek and offering up a soft moan. He’ll love it.
• Utilize Denial More Frequently – Your husband will enjoy you taking a little more control, and denial can be a great way to take control. You can deny him just about anything, too. Deny him the ability to watch. Deny him the ability to cum after you’ve cum with another man’s cock inside you. Deny him the ability to lick your pussy – which he may grow to love – after you’ve been fucked. Deny him the pleasure of fucking you. Deny him the pleasure of fucking you without protection and make him wear a condom. Use your imagination and I promise your cuckold husband will enjoy it.
• Indicate Your Bull’s Superiority – There are so many ways to do this. You can tell your husband that he’ll be spending the night in the guest room while your bull sleeps in bed with you. You can give your bull things you don’t give your husband, like a long slow blowjob, or even, if you’re feeling bold, anal sex. You can deny your husband things that you give your bull. It can be whatever thrills you.Some women choose to reserve blowjobs only for their bull, or to swallow his cum and not their husband’s cum. You could even wear certain things for your bull that you won’t wear for your husband. The world is your oyster, and every choice you make will both thrill your cuckold and remind him of his place, which will aid in his training.

Training Your Cuckold Husband to be More Submissive

If you truly desire to venture into the advanced level of cuckolding, it will be helpful if your husband is more submissive. Thankfully, he’ll almost certainly find submitting to you in the bedroom a thrilling experience, so it shouldn’t be difficult to get him to embrace it.

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Below you’ll find a list of ideas that can help make your husband more submissive. Please note that these go hand in hand with everything you’ve learned above, particularly your control over his orgasms. Remember that he’ll work hard to earn his orgasm and to please you, and don’t be afraid to make it clear that if he wants to cum he needs to do as you desire. Again, he’ll almost certainly find it thrilling:

• Put Him in Chastity – If you haven’t already done this, now might be the time. This takes orgasm control to an entirely different level, as you’re now in control of his cock, which – if he’s like most men – is the center of his manhood. Lock it up and wear the key around your neck. Tease him with it constantly. Arouse him constantly. Make it obvious that he needs to do as you desire or he’s never come out of that cage.
• He Must Consume His Cum – There are few things that make a man feel more submissive than having him eat his cum. He will not want to do so – not even remotely – so when he does, he will instantly feel a sense of submission because he’s just done something for you that he wouldn’t otherwise have done. It’s also a great way to help conquer the issues that can arise after a cuckold has an orgasm.
• Have Him Go Down on You in Front of Your Bull – Order him to do so. Remind him that it’s his place to worship your pussy and that it’s your bull’s place to fuck you. Watch him fall to his knees. Watch him submit. Both you and your bull should watch. Remind him that he’s getting you wet for another man. If you want, tell him he’s a ‘good boy’ and see if that choice of words thrills him. If it does, use it frequently.
• Have Him Watch in a Submissive Position – Believe it or not, having him watch while he’s on his knees by the side of the bed – instead of in the bed with you or relaxing in a chair, for instance – will make him feel more submissive. You can instruct him to keep his hands behind his back – even if he’s in a chastity cage – to further deepen his submission.
• Put Him in Bondage While He Watches – Set him free from his cage, get him hard with touching, kissing, and dirty talk, and then either tie or handcuff him to a chair. You want him massively aroused while he’s watching. You want him to look down at his cock and wish he could masturbate but be unable to do so while you and your bull pursue your pleasure, preferably while your husband has a view of the other man’s cock actually moving in and out of your body.
• Fuck in a Cuckold Sex Position – Put him beneath you in a cuckold 69 while your bull takes you from behind. Ride your bull in reverse cowgirl while your cuckold rests between his legs and watches from just a few inches away. Get on top of your cuckold and look down into his eyes while you get fucked from behind. Have your cuckold lie next to you while you have missionary sex with another man. If you’re feeling bold, sit on your cuckold’s chest and have your bull fuck you missionary style as you use your husband as furniture, though be careful you don’t hurt him.
• Service During Your Dates – If you’re thirsty, have your cuckold get you a drink. If you need a towel to clean up after sex, have him get it. If for some reason you need lubrication, have him get it or provide it with his tongue. In general, you can train him to be a good submissive by having him serve you in every imaginable way when your bull is over, or both before and after he arrives for a date.

Introduce Bisexual Play

Imagine, if you will, convincing a straight man to suck cock for you. Imagine how much power and control you’d have to wield over him. Imagine how submissive he’d had to feel to be willing to do that for you. Imagine how well-trained he’d be if he was even willing to consider it, let alone do it. That’s why, if you want to embark on advanced cuckold training, you should consider stepping into the realm of bisexual play.

Now, please understand that this isn’t for everyone. Some cuckolds – and some of their wives – will absolutely hate this idea. If you’re one of those people, skip right over it. If not, read ahead.

Ultimately, bisexual play has nothing to do with his sexuality and everything to do with his willingness to submit. He’s not sucking cock because he wants to suck cock. He’s sucking cock because you want him to. That’s what matters, and for some cuckolds, that’s where the pleasure comes from. For some women – those that enjoy domination – convincing their husband to submit and suck cock is pure joy.

Related: Bisexual Cuckold Stories on my Patreon page. If the idea of sucking cock for your wife turns you on, I promise I’ve written erotic tales that will thrill you.

You’re going to have the highest chance of success by slowly introducing the idea. Here’s how it could unfold, slowly but surely over the course of several weeks or months:

• Licking and Sucking Toys You’ve Used – It can be great fun for your cuckold to watch you fuck a toy if you don’t have a bull available. His first introduction to bisexual play can be sucking that toy clean after it comes out of you. Help him embrace it by acting like it’s incredibly hot to watch him suck it clean.
• Have Him Put a Condom on Your Bull’s Cock – You can do this together the first time, and the truth is it’s a really great way to enhance his cuckold training. He’s literally preparing the man you’ve chosen to fuck you – the man that should be better than your husband at fucking you – and in doing so he’s embracing that he is, in some ways, less than that man.
• Have Him Guide Your Bull’s Cock Inside You – The next step is to have your cuckold grab your bull’s cock – ideally after he’s put a condom on it – and place it inside you. This is easiest if you’re on top, but it can work in just about any position. It’s a small, easy step forward in bisexual play that he shouldn’t have much trouble getting over.
• Taste Your Pussy Immediately After Your Bull Pulls Out – Before he uses his mouth on another man’s cock, have your cuckold use his mouth on your pussy mere moments after your bull’s been inside you. When he does, ask him if he likes the taste of your bull’s cock, if he likes putting his tongue where a superior cock just was.
• Kiss Him Immediately After Blowing Your Bull – You go down on your bull. Your cuckold watches right next to you. Pull off of his cock and then lean over and kiss your husband immediately. Put your tongue in his mouth. Then ask him if he likes the taste of your bull’s cock.
• Have Him Kiss Your Bull’s Cock – The first time you should do this while you’re giving your bull a blowjob. Have your cuckold come a little closer and give the cock a kiss. Just a simple, quick kiss. Moan when he does it. Make it feel like it turns you on. If you want, stroke his cock a little while he does it, just to reinforce the idea that coming in contact with your bull’s cock should be arousing to him.
• Do the Same Thing with His Balls – Have your cuckold kiss your bull’s balls. Again, do it together at first. Help him warm up to the idea of sexual contact with another man.
• Blow Your Bull Together – Now it’s time for him to take your bull’s cock in his mouth. Do it together the first several times. Start with a kiss. Then a lick. Then have him take the head in his mouth while you offer encouraging, lusty dirty talk. Play with his cock. Make it obvious you’re turned on by it.
• Make Him Fluff Your Bull – It’s time. He needs to suck cock for you. First, have him watch as you and your bull fool around. Kissing, touching, some fingering of your pussy. Then have your cuckold go down on you to get you nice and wet. Then, tell him he needs to prepare your bull. Tell him he needs to suck his cock to get it nice and hard for your pussy. This works very well if you’re both sitting on the couch while your cuckold is on his knees in front of you. He’ll feel more submissive, and thus be more inclined to do as you desire.
• Pussy to Mouth Play – He’s well-trained as a bisexual cuckold at this point, but you can further his training. If you’re riding your bull, hop off his cock and tell your cuckold to suck your pussy juices off of it. If you’re having doggystyle sex, have your bull pull out and feed your cuckold his dick for a little bit. You can do the same in missionary. It all works really well.
• Cleaning Your Bull’s Cock After Sex – Your bull’s cock will likely be wet, slippery, and perhaps even a little bit cum-covered after he’s fucked you. It will do wonders for your husband’s cuckold training if you have him suck that cock clean.
• Creampie Cleanup/Cum Feeding – The previous idea leads naturally into creampie cleanup and/or cum feeding. It’s an extension of bisexual play to have your husband eat another man’s load out of you or off of your body, and in many ways it’s the ultimate form of cuckolding, so don’t be shy about indulging in it when you feel your cuckold is ready to handle such a thrilling/humiliating task.

Remember that you should have him indulge in each of those ideas multiple times. You’re trying to desensitize him to the idea of bisexual play – something he’ll almost certainly resist – so there’s value in really taking your time with it. And remember to make it fun and sexy since that’s the whole point of cuckold training.

Introduce Anal Play

Most straight men aren’t into being anally penetrated. The mere thought of it can be a little humiliating, and the actual act typically ranges from uncomfortable to painful. That can make anal play helpful for taking your cuckold even deeper into his training, though.

The goal here – as with all of the training tips I’ve given – is to make him a better cuckold. In this case, you’re asserting your control and helping to tame his ego, as that can become a recurring problem for a man who fantasizes about cuckolding, an inherently humiliating sexual kink.

If done right, anal play should be pleasurable, and when it is, your husband’s ego remain in a tamed place so he doesn’t get self-righteous or destructively petulant when you have lots of sex with someone that fucks you better than him.

Here are some tips for introducing anal play:

• Rubbing His Asshole During Masturbation – Make it cuckold-themed masturbation. Have him stroke his cock as you talk dirty to him about the pleasure of fucking another man. Play with his balls. Let your fingers make their way to his taint – that space between his balls and asshole – and then finally move towards his asshole. Rub it in slow, small circles. Don’t penetrate him. Just tease him. Watch him have an orgasm. Don’t say anything about it. Just let him marinate in the fact that anal play made him cum. You can also do the same thing with a vibrator, which will almost certainly feel even better than your fingers.
• Butt Plug Play – Get a small plug – or a package that includes 3-4 in increasing sizes – and slip one into your cuckold’s ass before your bull comes over. There’s no need to say why. You’re doing it because it’s what you want, and he’s going to wear it for the same reason. It’s just a tiny bit humiliating – or a lot, depending on how he feels about anal play – and that should translate to extra arousal for him, as a cuckold tends to enjoy humiliation. You can also use the plug if he’s being a bit petulant and you want to correct his behavior. Just make him bend over and slip it in his ass – him being bent over is a particularly effective way of plugging him – and give him a quick spank before he can go back to his day.
• Dildo Penetration – Now it’s time to fuck his ass. Get a small dildo. Lube it up. Rub it around his asshole while you’re giving him a handjob or he’s masturbating. Then, slowly but surely penetrate him. Do it while he’s turned on or close to orgasm. Have him cum with the toy in his ass. Now he’s had an orgasm while getting ass fucked. How delightfully humiliating for him.
• Pegging – You can take the previous step even further by getting a strapon and fucking your husband with it. The role reversal – you’re the one with the cock doing the fucking – should be a potent thrill for him and bring out his submissive side.

While it might, at first, seem like anal play with your husband and cuckolding don’t really go together, it can be useful in training him to be the man you want him to be. To put it simply: Anal play distances your cuckold from your bull even further, which will make your husband even better behaved, particularly if the anal play includes orgasms for him.

Mild Feminization

Yes, we’re getting pretty advanced here, and I certainly wouldn’t recommend this for everyone because it certainly isn’t for everyone. However, a touch of feminization can be a powerful way to ensure that your husband behaves exceptionally well both while you’re cuckolding him and during everyday life.

The mild form really just involves using panties as a means of humiliation for your husband. For instance, you could surprise him with a pair of panties and make him wear them when your bull comes over. Explain that a cuckold belongs in a pair of panties when a real man is in the house. This is best done when he’s been denied an orgasm for a fair amount of time, as it will be a significant source of humiliation for him and you want him in a place where he finds that humiliation arousing.

The panties should be used sparingly or they’ll lose their effect. I wouldn’t even use them every time your bull comes over. Just every once in a while, perhaps if your cuckold has been badly behaved in the previous few days. You can use them outside of cuckolding situations, too, if you’d like. Make him wear a pair of panties to work for a day if he’s misbehaved, or have him put on a pair before you go out on a date just to remind him of his place.

The style of panties you have him wear can significantly shift the level of humiliation. A pair of white cotton panties is a lot different from a delicate pink lace thong, for instance. Pretty pink satin panties with little satin bows at the hips would be even more humiliating for your cuckold, and at this stage you’re using humiliation to both arouse and train him, so feel free to build up a collection of panties you can utilize however you see fit in his training.

Involve a Friend

This one is challenging, because you need a very specific kind of friend to involve her in your husband’s cuckolding. But, if you have that friend, this can be a great way of deepening his training.

First, the fact that someone else – besides your bull – knows that you cuckold your husband makes the whole thing more real, which in turn makes it harder for your cuckold to engage in denial when he’s experiencing angst. It helps him accept that he’s a cuckold, that you’ve taken to his fantasy and that you now fuck your bull because he’s better in bed than your husband is.

If you have a kinky friend you might be able to interest her in cucksitting. You go on a date with your bull and she comes over to your house to spend the night with your cuckold, perhaps because you don’t trust him not to try and masturbate while he thinks about the fact that you’re out with another man, and a man that fucks you far better than your husband does.

His cucksitter can then spend the night working on his training. She can ask questions about you and your bull and why he likes the fact that another man fucks you. She can ask to see his locked up cock. You can give her permission to play with him, if you’d like. She could have him worship her pussy or ass, or do something far simpler like rub her feet. Offering his submission, even in a small way, to another woman can be hugely helpful in training him to be a good cuckold.

It might also be helpful for you to have a friend you can talk to about your new lifestyle, so even if you don’t want to go the cucksitter route I’d recommend finding someone you can share the details of your husband’s cuckolding with.

Extreme Cuckolding

You can go further if you want. I wouldn’t recommend it, honestly, because everything below is the sort of thing that changes your marriage and how you see your husband. It’s damn near impossible to come back from those changes, too, so while you both might find it arousing and while it will make him a better trained cuckold, I’d proceed with caution.

All that being said, here are some ideas for extreme cuckolding, should you want to explore an even kinkier version of this lifestyle:

Full Feminization

Making him wear panties every once in a while is nice for a touch of humiliation and ego control, but what if you want more? What if you no longer see your husband as a man and you want to make that clear? Full feminization is the answer. If you go this route, remember to constantly remind your cuckold that he’s no longer a man, which is precisely why he’s being dressed as a woman all the time. Here are some ways to begin full feminization:

• He Shaves Everything – Your cuckold is now shaved from the neck down. Every bit of hair on his body goes, just like is expected of modern women.
• Panties All the Time – Panties are no longer just an occasional thing. Now he wears them all the time. He only has one or two pairs of male underwear for occasions where he absolutely must wear them. Frequent panty shopping trips – that also include telling a sales person that you’re shopping for your husband – are a must.
• Bras All the Time – Buy him bras. Delicate little bras with lots of lace. Buy matching bra and panty sets. Make him wear them. Make him wear them all the time. After all, he’s no longer a real man so he might as well wear women’s underwear.
• He Sleeps in Lingerie – He now sleeps in delicate, feminine lingerie. Satin and silk nighties. Nightgowns. Camisoles and boyshorts. Delicate satin pajamas. Add a little spray of perfume to his nightwear to make it even more feminine.
• Ear Piercings – Go ahead and get his ears pierced. Make him wear pretty, feminine earrings when he’s in the house.
• Lipstick for Sucking Cock – He’ll likely be blowing your bull with great frequency now. Make him wear lipstick when he does it. Tell him his red lips look good wrapped around a real man’s cock.
• Work Around the House in Women’s Clothes – Have him do his chores around the house in his feminine underwear or sleepwear. Or, buy him a pretty maid’s uniform and make him wear that.
• Female-Style Masturbation – If his cock is locked in a cage, make it so that he can only masturbate and cum like a woman. Give him a vibrator. Let him use it on his locked cock. It might take some practice, but he will learn to cum like that, and he will enjoy it.

That’s just a handful of ideas. I’m sure you could come up with lots more if you were in the mood to completely eradicate your husband’s masculinity.

Move Him Out of the Master Bedroom

If you’ve gotten to this point it’s likely – even probable – that your husband isn’t having much sex with you. Perhaps none at all. At the very least, your bull has become your primary sexual partner. That makes it a good time for your husband to move out of the master bedroom and into the guest room.

You no longer see him as a man, so he certainly can’t be the man of the house. Doesn’t it make sense that he shouldn’t sleep in the bed that’s reserved for the man of the house? Instead, that bed will now be reserved for the man that meets your sexual needs. Perhaps you have one bull that you see or perhaps you have lots of sexual partners. Either way, the man that fucks you and makes you cum gets to sleep in your bed and your husband is relegated to the guest bedroom.

This is even more effective if you occasionally invite your cuckold to spend the night with you in your bed. It makes it a treat to get to sleep with you in the bed that you used to share together.

If you want to make it an even more effective type of training, you can have sex with your husband when he spends the night in the bed, only you can make it a lot closer to lesbian sex. Have him dress in pretty lingerie. Fool around with him. Masturbate together with your vibrators. Grind on him. Sit on his face. He’s not a man in your eyes, so treat him as such while you deepen your bond by engaging in intimate play.

Make Him a Pussy Free Cuckold

Most of the time, couples engaging in the cuckold lifestyle still have sex with each other. Sex with you can be a useful tool in training your cuckold, in fact, as there’s a very good chance he finds your pussy to be a massively pleasurable thing.

However, you can take his training to an extreme by making him a pussy free cuckold. You could inform him that he will never, ever be permitted to fuck you. His cock is not worthy of you or your pussy (or your mouth, for that matter) and so he’s fucked you for the last time. You only fuck real men from now on and your cuckold has proven that he’s not even remotely a real man, so he doesn’t get to have you anymore.

You might find it liberating to make him pussy free, but you’ll have to hold to your decision if it’s going to have any impact. If you’re making this decision, though, I suspect you won’t have any problem not fucking your cuckold, since he’s probably rather worthless in bed. Make sure that he gets to cum from time to time, though, as a total lack of sexual pleasure in his life will probably have a significant negative impact on him.

Aggressive Small Penis Humiliation

This only works when applicable, of course, but an all out assault on his cock can be a great way to keep your cuckold in his place and ensure that you successfully train him to understand that he has no business fucking you.

This kind of SPH is about more than a quick little comment about how you can’t really feel his cock inside you or that he’s quite a bit smaller than your bull. It’s about how his cock is completely and utterly useless. It’s about how he couldn’t please you or any other woman on the planet with the pathetic excuse for a dick that rests between his legs. It’s about making sure that he knows that.

You can combine small penis humiliation quite nicely with chastity, too. When he’s locked up he’ll be quite small, of course, and you can humiliate him regularly about that.

“Look at that worthless, locked up little dick of yours. Do you really think any woman would want that thing, cucky?”

“You know that tiny, sad, pathetic little dicklet of yours is never going to enjoy my pussy again, don’t you? I never should have let you fuck me in the first place – you’ve never been worthy of me – but I’m certainly never making that mistake again, you pathetic excuse for a man.”

You may not want to dole out such heavy humiliation and he may not be able to take it, so calibrate what you say based on what you think he can handle.

Your Bull Fucks Him

You’ll need a bisexual bull for this (or you can ask a helpful bi/gay friend or find someone online), but having your straight husband get on his hands and knees and take a cock up the ass is about as extreme as cuckolding gets.

It is, in a way, the act that will symbolically take the rest of his manhood, especially since it won’t happen unless your husband offers it up. He’ll willingly get in the bed and let another man fuck him. He’ll feel his panties being lowered. He’ll feel his ass being lubed. He’ll feel the thick head of someone else’s cock penetrate him. He’ll get fucked, and hopefully he’ll get fucked bareback and take a load in the ass, completing the total destruction of his manhood.

If you’re at this place you’ve already taken your cuckold far into the depths of humiliation, but this is an entirely different step, so be cautious before you do it. If you, your bull, and your cuckold enjoy this, there’s no reason you can’t do it multiple times, though.

Try My List of Cuckold Humiliation Ideas

I wrote a massive list of ways to humiliate your cuckold. Towards the bottom of the page you’ll find the more extreme ideas. Check out some of those for ways to take your cuckold’s training to its absolute extreme.

Oh, and always remember that a little bit of aftercare goes a long way. You shouldn’t be trying to destroy your husband, after all (if that’s your goal you should really just get a divorce) and a bit of aftercare will reassure him that you love him and is, in fact, the secret to a truly effective cuckold training routine.

I hope that some of the ideas above have been helpful (or at least entertaining) for you and that you accomplish your training goals, whatever they are. Thank you for reading 🙂

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Let me walk you through what to expect when you clean your first cuckold creampie. Your actual experience may differ from what you read below, but hopefully you’ll be better prepared when you’re done with this naughty little article.

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First, You Witness Your Cuckolding

Before you can clean a creampie from your wife’s pussy someone else will need to fill her with his cum (this is a cuckold creampie you’re cleaning, after all). Thankfully, you’ll get to witness the beautiful coupling of your wife and the man she’s chosen for this occasion. He’ll likely be someone she’s been with on numerous occasions, which means the sex should be particularly good. If you’re lucky, this will be the first time they’re having unprotected sex, which should make it better for everyone.

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The experience of watching will change for you because you’ll be thinking about how this night is going to end differently than most. You’ll still watch your wife and her lover have spectacular sex, but now you’ll be thinking about how you’re going to crawl between her legs and clean his cum out of her when they’re done. You’ll watch his cock slide in and out of her pussy and obsess about the moment when he unleashes his load. You’ll think about how he’s going to cum inside your wife’s pussy and how she’s going to have you clean his mess. You’ll think about how it feels like the epitome of cuckolding to lick someone else’s cum from her pussy. It should go without saying that you’ll be out of your mind with desire as you watch them have sex.

That last part is important because it will help you overcome any fear you might have regarding cleaning your first cuckold creampie. If you’re turned on enough you’ll do just about anything, so it should go without saying that you won’t have an orgasm before you’ve cleaned your first creampie. If you lack self-control, have your wife lock you in chastity until you’re done cleaning her lover’s load. Otherwise, enjoy the arousal that builds inside you as you fantasize about licking someone else’s cum out of her body for the first time.

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She Invites You to Clean Your First Cuckold Creampie

This is the moment. Her lover pulls out of her pussy. Your wife spreads her legs. She invites you to crawl between them. You eagerly take your place. You stare at her puffy, pink, slippery pussy lips. They’re gaping open just a little from the good fucking she just received. You see just a trickle of his cum leak out of her. You see what you’re going to consume. You see another man’s thick seed in your wife’s pussy.

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She might just point to her pussy to urge you to go to work. She might spread her labia to guide you between them to claim your prize as her cuckold. Chances are good she’ll give you a little verbal guidance, though. If you’re a connected couple chances are good she’ll know what you want to hear. Do you know what you want to hear? Here are a few options:

• “Clean me.”
• “Clean my messy pussy.”
• “Clean his cum out of me.”
• “Clean up his mess.”
• “Be a good cuckold and lick up his cum.”
• “Eat my messy pussy.”
• “Eat my cum-filled cunt.”
• “Do your duty. Lick up his load.”

There are so many options and chances are good they’ll all thrill you because each gives you permission to do what you’ve fantasized about. Each invites you to lick another man’s cum from your wife’s pussy. Each invites you to become the cuckold you’ve always dreamed of being.

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What to Expect when You Clean Your First Cuckold Creampie

It’s after she invites you to clean her lover’s cum out of her pussy that reality will almost certainly depart from your fantasy. That doesn’t mean you’re going to hate it. It just means that it might be different from what you’ve imagined (and what you’ve potentially fantasized about for years). Here are a few things to keep in mind so you’re not caught off guard if you happen:

• Cum does not taste good. You might already know that, but if you don’t you need to be prepared for that. Chances are good that you’re not going to enjoy the taste the first time you push your tongue into your wife’s cum-filled pussy. It’s going to be salty and bitter and it might be downright awful (cum does taste different from man to man, so you better hope you don’t get a rancid load). That’s okay, though. It doesn’t have to taste good. After all, eating another man’s cum from your wife’s pussy is just as much about reinforcing your place as her cuckold as it is about your pleasure. If it tastes bad it might be even more of a turn on. It might make you sink a little deeper into that cuckold subspace. It might make your dick throb even harder.
• The consistency of his cum might vary significantly. Not all men shoot thick loads. The thickness often depends on how long it takes him to cum. If he cums quicker the load will likely be thicker. If he really takes his time it will likely be runnier. For that reason, you might not get to lick up the creamy load you’ve fantasized about.
• Your wife’s clit will likely be very sensitive. For that reason, she might not want you to try and make her cum. She’ll welcome you between her legs to clean her lover’s seed from here pussy, but if you’re not tending to her clit then she won’t experience much in the way of physical pleasure. That’s okay, though. Cleaning another man’s cum from your wife is about building the bond between a cuckold and his hotwife. It’s also possible your wife recovers quickly and she’ll be happy to let you make her cum with your tongue when you’re done licking up his load.
• His cum might be deep inside her. It’s possible that you’ll dive into your wife’s pussy to lick up his load and discover that you can’t find much cum. In reality, his cum is supposed to stay inside her. That means you may end up cleaning a lot less than you’d like to or that she might have to sit on your face and let gravity pull most of his cum out of her and into your mouth. You wouldn’t mind a little cum feeding, would you?

It’s possible you’ll run into other pitfalls that pull your experience further from your fantasy. If that happens, remind yourself that you’re licking another man’s cum from your wife’s freshly-fucked pussy. That’s all that matters. You’re cleaning a creampie, even if it isn’t exactly as you imagined it would be. Also, if the first time isn’t great, remember that it will almost certainly be better the second time.

Discussing it Beforehand Can Make it Better

I know it feels a little unsexy to talk about it beforehand, but having a conversation with your wife about what you want your first cuckold creampie cleanup to be can make it so much hotter for both of you.

For instance, if you want her to shower you with dirty talk as you’re licking someone else’s cum out of her, let your wife know. She’s not a mind reader and it’s unfair to expect her to be. Be careful not to be too demanding, of course. You don’t want her to feel like she’s nothing more than a sex toy to you.

Make sure to ask her if there’s anything you can do to make it better for her. For instance, she might not want it to feel like you’re devouring her pussy. She might want you to be slow and gentle as you lick his cum out of her. Remember, a cuckold relationship only works if both parties are happy, so do whatever it takes to make her happy.

Finally, remember that practice makes perfect no matter what you’re doing. If cleaning a creampie doesn’t live up to your fantasies the first time, try it again. It will almost certainly get better once you know what to expect.

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Step into a fantasy with me, my sweet cuckolds. Your wife has the freedom to pursue her desire for other men. She’s made you her cuckold and you’ve embraced that reality. You want to be the best cuckold possible.

To be a good cuckold for your beautiful hotwife you must do as you’ve been trained on date night. You must embrace a cuckold’s duties. Are you ready?

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A Cuckold’s Duties Before the Date

To ensure your wife and her bull enjoy their evening to the fullest, you must embrace your role as her cuckold long before the date actually begins:

Prepare the Bedroom – Your wife and her bull are going to end up in your bedroom on date night, which means it’s your job to ensure it’s ready for them. You will put a fresh set of sheets on the bed, including new pillow cases. If they require lubrication you will ensure it’s available on the nightstand. Make sure the bedroom is clean, as well. Vacuum, dust every surface, and put away any clothes you may have left out.

Help Your Wife Get Ready – It is a cuckold’s privilege to help his wife get ready for date night with her bull. Your duties can vary depending on how generous your wife is feeling, but they can include washing her hair and body in the shower, shaving her pussy for him, gently patting her body dry with a freshly-washed towel, picking out lingerie and a dress for her to wear for her bull, and helping her get dressed.

If you’re a particularly dutiful cuckold, your wife might offer you the wonderful treat of letting you worship her ass while she does her hair and makeup. If she does let you drop to your knees behind her, make sure that you express your gratitude for allowing you the pleasure of worshiping her ass on date night.

Ensure the House is Prepared for Their Arrival – Your wife and her bull may choose to go straight to the bedroom after their date. If that’s the case, you’ve done your job. They might prefer to relax on the couch with a glass of wine or eat a lovely dessert before indulging in their desire for each other. If that’s the case, it’s your duty to make sure you’re prepared for that before the date.

It’s also important that your home be clean. It’s your duty to clean it. Vacuum and dust any room your wife and her bull might enter on date night to ensure a happy experience for both of them.

Act as Her Chauffeur – Your wife shouldn’t have to drive herself on date night and she should be free to fool around in the car with her bull when they’re together, which is why it’s a cuckold’s duty to act as his wife’s chauffeur on date night.

Open the back door for your wife and shut it gently once she’s situated herself in the car. Slip into the driver’s seat, start the car, and ask her if there’s any music she’d like to listen to. Once you’ve ensured she’s happy, drive to either pick up her bull or meet at the destination for their date.

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A Cuckold’s Duties During the Date

When your wife is on a date with her bull your job – above everything else – is to ensure her happiness. That means doing whatever you are told without considering your needs. Don’t be selfish.

Date night can mean many things for a wife and her bull, so your duties will almost certainly vary depending on your situation. Below are some of those duties.

Drive Wherever They Desire – You will continue to act as your wife’s chauffeur during her date. That means driving wherever she and her bull desire. It might mean taking them to a restaurant, the movie theater, a sporting event, or to a quiet spot where they can fool around in the car while you sit in the front seat with a throbbing erection in your pants.

Pay for Everything – As a cuckold, it is your duty to offer to pay for everything when your wife is on a date with her bull. Some bulls might turn you down, but you must offer. It might get expensive, but it should be your pleasure to pay as much as it takes to ensure your wife’s happiness.

Be Ready to Wait – It’s possible that you’ll end up waiting in the car for long stretches as your wife and her bull enjoy their date. If they go to a restaurant, they’re not going to invite you to dine with them. Instead, you’re going to wait in the car as another man enjoys dinner with your wife and does his best to romance her. You will likely experience jealousy, but it’s your duty to squash that feeling and remember your wife’s happiness. She wants to be on a date with her bull. She wants to be romanced. It’s your duty to make sure that she gets what she wants.

Drive as They Fool Around – If you’re acting as a chauffeur for your wife and her bull it’s almost guaranteed that they’re going to fool around in the back seat. Your duty is to restrain your desire to watch and keep your eyes on the road. You can look in the rearview mirror when you reach a stop sign or a red light, but you don’t get to pull over and over and you don’t get to turn around and watch. You’re the driver.

If your wife wants to go down on her bull in the back seat, you don’t get to watch. If she wants to fuck him in the back seat while you’re driving, the best you can hope for is to see her bouncing on him in the rear view mirror. Otherwise the best you can do is listen.

A Cuckold’s Duties After the Date

It’s the action that happens after the date that’s almost certainly going to be the most fun for everyone involved. The dinner, movie, fun at the park, etc, is all just an appetizer to the sex your wife and her bull are going to have. It’s what she wants, it’s what he wants, and it’s what you want.

Of course, as a cuckold, there are certain duties that come with that. Below are the duties you might be expected to attend to after the date:

Make Drinks – If your wife and her bull would like to enjoy an after dinner drink before the real fun begins, it’s a cuckold’s duty to prepare those drinks. As with any task, give it your best effort. You’re not just throwing ice and a bit of whiskey in a glass. You’re setting the mood for what’s to come and presentation matters.

Prepare Your Wife’s Pussy – A cuckold should always be eager to prepare his wife’s pussy for a superior man’s cock. When she desires it, drop to your knees in front of her and use your mouth to get her wet. Remember, it’s not your duty to make her cum, so this isn’t the same as when you worship her pussy with the idea of getting her off. This is about getting your wife wet for the man she’s chosen to fuck her.

Fluff Her Bull – A cuckold’s sexuality is of little importance. It’s his submission that matters. That’s why you should be willing and eager to get on your knees to fluff your wife’s bull. You should offer your mouth to get him hard. You should do so to show that you recognize his status as the superior man. You should suck his cock and get him hard to show that you’re dedicated to your wife’s pleasure above all else.

Watch without Masturbating – Cuckolding should be a mutually pleasurable part of a marriage. It should lead to deep satisfaction for both you and your wife. However, it is a cuckold’s duty to delay his pleasure until his wife has experienced hers. That’s why you should expect to watch without masturbating. You should concentrate on witnessing your wife’s pleasure and offering your assistance in any way she desires.

You may be called upon to clean her pussy juices off her bull’s cock or fluff him after your wife has climaxed and she needs a short break before taking him again. You may be called upon to worship her ass while her bull is fucking her. You may be called upon to suck his balls or worship his ass. You need to be ready to do all of those things and if you masturbate we both know you’re going to cum before they’re done and you’ll find yourself lacking the motivation required to serve.

Clean Up – You will clean up when your wife and her bull are finished fucking. If they’re using condoms that will likely mean disposing of the prophylactic and cleaning his cock afterwards. You might be required to use your mouth to suck the remaining cum from his shaft, but she might let you use a damp towel as well.

If they’re not using condoms you should expect to clean her bull’s cock and your wife’s cum-filled pussy. If he decides to cum on her body, you should expect to lick it up and swallow his seed. Doing so is a beautiful sign that you recognize your place in the relationship. A cuckold swallows the superior man’s seed.

Fluff for Another Round – Your wife and her bull might want to go again. If they do, you should expect to fluff him once more. Your job will be to get him hard so he can give your wife the pleasure she craves once more, no matter how long it takes. Expect your jaw to be sore.

Sleep in the Guest Bedroom – Your wife may invite her bull to spend the night so she can continue to enjoy his cock. In that case, it is a cuckold’s duty to spend the night in the guest bedroom (or on the couch if the guest bedroom isn’t available).

A Cuckold’s Ultimate Duty

Every cuckold relationship is different and what’s listed above is a fairly extreme example of this particular fetish. Ultimately, a cuckold’s real duty is to see to his wife’s pleasure in whatever way she sees fit. That’s where you’ll discover the true joy of this fetish. Put her needs before your own – and do so genuinely – and you’ll experience pleasure like you’ve never imagined possible.

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Are you aroused by the idea of your husband licking another man’s cum from your pussy? Does the very notion of it excite you?

If so, you’ve come to the right place. I’ll teach you how to train your husband to be a cum eating cuckold. More than that, I’ll show you how to make it so he craves it. It won’t be long before he’s begging you for the chance to lick someone else’s cum from your pussy.

For the purposes of this article I’m going to assume your husband is either interested in being cuckolded or is already a cuckold (turning him into a cuckold is an entirely different subject). I’m also assuming he’s not already gung ho about being a cum eating cuckold.

(A quick note: This kind of thing is meant to be pleasurable for both husband and wife. If he’s not at all into it, don’t force it on him. It should thrill you both, even if it takes a little bit of training to get him there).

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First, He Has to Eat His Own Loads

If your husband is like most men, he’ll find the idea of eating cum abhorrent. Most men expect women to be deeply interested in eating their cum (or even turned on by it if porn is any indicator of what men want), so it’s a little annoying that they act like it’s the most disgusting thing in the world when it’s suggested that they eat cum.

Your first goal is overcoming a man’s natural anti-cum bias. This can be a difficult process, but I’ll bet that your man is already a little bit submissive and that you won’t have nearly as much trouble as you might think.

The key is in using his lust to your advantage. I suggest a long round of foreplay. Lots of kissing, touching, and stroking. Get his cock nice and stiff. Then I want you to introduce the idea of tasting his precum. You have to start small or he might freak out.

Try a little bit of lusty dirty talk. Get close to him. Stroke his cock. Kiss his neck. Nibble his ear lobe. Whatever turns him on.

Then say, “Will you do something naughty for me? Will you do something that would really turn me on?”

It’s important that he believes that whatever you’re about to ask of him will turn you on. He wants to turn you on. He wants to make you happy, especially when he’s really turned on. When he agrees, make the suggestion:

“Will you taste your precum for me?”

If he objects, tell him that it tastes sweet, that it’s not gross at all. You can taste a little yourself and kiss him before he can object.

He might still refuse to do it. This is where you have to be strong. You need to walk away. Let his cock go. Get out of bed. Leave him without the satisfaction he craves. If he objects, tell him that you have no interest in getting him off if he’s not willing to do that one small thing for you. Tell him that you taste his precum when you go down on him and you don’t complain.

When he agrees (which he will), take a little time to get back into a lusty mood and then gather his precum on your finger and feed it to him. Moan when he licks it off your finger. Make sure it sounds like it thrills you beyond words to see him do it.

Then play with his cock more. Stroke him. Tease him. Feed him more precum. Get a little more worked up every time he does it. Eventually you can make him cum. When he orgasms, whisper in his ear about how hot it was to see him eat his precum. Tell him how much it turned you on as he’s ejaculating.

Repeat that process several times. Try and mix it up a little each time. Go down on him a little and kiss his precum into his mouth. Have him fuck you a little and then make him go down on you to taste his precum in your pussy. The idea is to get him used to the notion of consuming something that has come out of his cock.

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It’s a big leap to take him from eating his precum to eating his cum, of course. The problem is a simple one: After he cums, his desire is gone. It completely washes away, so your ability to use his lust to control him evaporates.

You can get him there, though. If you’ve been doing it correctly your husband will already know that you find it incredibly erotic when he licks up his precum. He’ll think it turns you on immensely and he’ll love doing it because of that.

At some point you have to come out and say that you want him to eat his cum. He needs to know, and you need to make it clear that it will turn you on so much more than when he eats his precum. He needs to believe it’s the hottest thing in the world to you.

There’s a chance he’ll be willing to do it for you. He might not like it, but he might be so convinced by your lustiness when he eats his precum that he’ll simply do it.

If not, there are ways to get him over the hump and convince him of the pleasures of eating his cum. Let’s go over some of them:

– Ruined Orgasms – A ruined orgasm essentially empties the fluids that have built up without giving your husband the true release of a climax. He’ll still have all kinds of pent up desire but the cum will have flowed from his cock. You can use that desire to convince him to eat his cum. Promise him a real orgasm if he does it for you. Then feed it to him.

– Snowballing/Cum Swapping – Tell your husband that you’ll give him a long, slow, sensual blowjob that includes cumming in your mouth. The only condition is that he has to agree to a cum swap afterwards. Give him the blowjob and then transfer the cum into his mouth immediately. Make it clear beforehand that he has to swallow. After he does, masturbate in front of him. Have an orgasm. Make it clear that your arousal is driven by his willingness to eat his cum.

– Creampie Cleanup – Tell your husband that he can fuck you and cum inside you as long as he’s willing to clean up his creampie. This works best if he’s been denied sex with you for a lengthy period (the longer the better, honestly). It works even better if you’re already cuckolding him. If he’s desperate to fuck you he’ll likely be willing to agree to eating his cum out of you.

– Self Facial – He’ll have to be somewhat flexible for this, but making your husband give himself a facial is a great way of feeding him a bit of his cum. Bend his legs back, aim his cock at his face, and stroke him until he cums. Make him open his mouth. Make him swallow whatever ends up on his tongue. He’ll be more likely to agree to this if he’s been denied an orgasm for a while. Men tend to be willing to do almost anything if they’re horny enough. (Note: Please don’t do this if your husband isn’t flexible enough to safely bend his body like that).

As with the precum feeding, it’s of the utmost importance that you demonstrate how much it turns you on to see your husband eat his cum. If he cleans a creampie, make sure you have him lick your clit to a huge orgasm. If he agrees to a cum swap after a blowjob, masturbate and cum immediately afterwards. Also, be sure you tell him throughout how hot it is. Feed his brain with dirty words of encouragement.

The more he eats his own cum, the more likely he is to be a cum eating cuckold, so make sure you have him do any and all of the above numerous times before you introduce the idea of him eating someone else’s load.

Make Him into a Cum Eating Cuckold

Now comes the fun part. This is what you really want. This is what turns you on. This is what you fantasize about.

Again, I’m going to assume you’re already cuckolding him for the purposes of this article. That should make the next part fairly easy.

You need to introduce the idea of him eating someone else’s cum while he’s turned on. Preferably you want to do it at the height of his arousal. Start talking about it after he’s consumed his own seed numerous times. He’ll be more open to eating your lover’s cum if he’s already familiar with the idea of semen consumption.

Here’s an example of how you could introduce the idea:

His cock is hard in your hand. It’s slick with his precum. His breathing is heavy. His balls are tight against his body. You know he’s close. You can feel it.

You lean closer. You kiss his neck. He moans for you.

“I want you to be extra naughty for me,” you whisper. “Will you do that?”

“I’ll do anything,” he says.

He’s a good submissive now. He’s been trained to eat his cum. He does it every time he orgasms. He’s grown to love it. It’s turned into a source of arousal for him.

“Anything?” you ask.

He groans at the pleasure of your fingers moving up and down his shaft. “Anything at all.”

You kiss his neck again. He moans again.

“I want you to eat my bull’s cum,” you say. You stroke him faster. “I want you to be a naughty cuckold and eat his load for me. I want to see you lick it up. I want to see it on your tongue. I want to see you swallow it.”

He groans. He cums. He doesn’t say anything, but you know you’ve planted the seed.

It’s all about getting the timing right. You want him to cum right when you say you want him to eat your lover’s cum. You want him to associate his sexual pleasure with the idea of eating your lover’s cum.

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Try and do it whenever he has an orgasm, no matter how it happens. Here’s how it could play out if you’re having sex with your cuckold (assuming that’s something you do):

You’re on your back. Your cuckold’s cock is inside you. He’s fucking you hard. You know he’s getting close.

“I can’t stop thinking about it,” you say.

“Thinking about what?” he asks while thrusting into your wet pussy.

You bite your lip suggestively and then smile at him. You wrap your legs around him. You pull your husband close.

“I can’t stop thinking about you eating my bull’s cum,” you say. “I want you to clean his load out of me. I want to see you between my legs after he’s fucked me and pumped me full of his cum.”

He fucks you harder. You moan louder. You tighten your legs around him.

“I want it so badly, baby. I want you to be my little cum eating cuckold. I want you to devour his seed. I need it. I need it so badly.”

He cums inside you. He collapses on top of you. You kiss his neck and then gently push on the top of his head.

“Clean me,” you say. “Clean up your mess like a good boy.”

He slides down your body. He cleans your pussy.

“That’s it,” you say. “Fuck. I can’t stop thinking about it. It would be so fucking hot. Clean it. Clean that load, baby. Clean it and think about cleaning his.”

Again, you’re associating the idea of cleaning your lover’s load with his pleasure. In that scenario, he came inside you while thinking about eating another man’s load from your pussy. Then he went down on you and you made sure he was still thinking about it.

Repetition is the key. Do that (or whatever your naughty mind comes up with) enough times and you’ll have him eager to eat another man’s cum out of you. After that, there’s only one thing left to do.

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His First Time Being a Cum Eating Cuckold

Creampie cleanup is the most common form of cuckold cum eating, but there are many options available to you. It all depends on what you want to do. I’ll list a handful of options below. For your cuckold’s first time, I suggest you pick the one he’d be most likely to find arousing.

– Cum Swapping – Let your cuckold watch as you give your bull a blowjob. Let him watch from close up, in fact. Let him see your bull’s cock pulse as he cums in your mouth. When your bull is finished, pull your cuckold’s lips to yours for an immediate kiss. Push the other man’s cum into his mouth. Make him swallow. You can swallow a little too so it feels like you’re both sharing in the superior man’s seed.

– Creampie Cleanup – Let your cuckold watch your bull fuck you. Let him see you experience immense pleasure. Let him see you cum. Let him see the other man cum inside you. Afterwards, welcome him between your legs. Encourage him with sweet, sensual dirty talk. Tell him how badly you want him to clean the creampie. If you can, let him make you cum. If he can give you an orgasm, he’ll be more likely to clean another creampie out of you.

– Cleaning Cum from Your Breasts – Let your bull cum on your breasts. Have your cuckold watch as he does. Ask him if they look beautiful covered with another man’s seed. Ask him if it turns him on. Invite him closer. Pull him to your breasts. Tell him to clean them. Tell him to lick up your bull’s seed like a good cuckold.

– Eating Your Bull’s Cum from a Condom – Even if you’re having unprotected sex with your bull this can be a great way to get your cuckold to consume the other man’s seed. Have him fuck you in the condom. Have him fill it with his load. Tell your cuckold to open his mouth. Pour the cum on his tongue. Make him swallow it.

– Cleaning Cum from Your Ass – Your cuckold probably loves your ass. Your bull probably loves it too. Let your bull fuck you from behind. Have him pull out before he cums. Have him spray his load on your ass. Tell your cuckold to come over and clean it up. Even better, you can have him watch from close up as your bull fucks you so he’ll be all hot and bothered by the time he’s going to lick up the load.

– Licking Up a Facial – If you let your bull give you facials, why not have your cuckold lick it up? It’s a particularly naughty form of cum cleanup. After your bull has delivered the facial, call your cuckold over. Share lots of cum kisses with him during the process.

– Cleaning Cum from Your Stomach – Let your cuckold watch as your bull fucks you in missionary. Have him pull out and spray his load all over your stomach. He’ll use your body as his canvas and leave behind a cummy work of art. Call your cuckold over. Have him clean up the mess. Have him slowly, sensually lick the other man’s cum off your body.

Any of those options will work (and I’m sure there are others). What’s important is that you pick something that both you and your cuckold will find arousing. Plus, it can be effective to mix it up and have some fun with it, so try creampie cleanup one night and have him lick your bull’s cum off your breasts the next.

It can seem daunting, but I promise you can convince your husband to be a cum eating cuckold for you. The desire is in him, you just have to tease it out.

You’ll need to be patient – it can take a long time to break down his resistance – but you will be rewarded for your persistence. You’ll have the cum hungry hubby that you crave before you know it.

Good luck!

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Ultimately, I believe the benefits of letting your cuckold watch you have sex with another man outweigh the potential detriments, but you’ll have to make that decision for yourself.

In this article I’ll go over the possible positives and negatives of letting your cuckold watch and I’ll give you a list of suggestions that can help mitigate some of the potentially damaging outcomes of letting him watch. Let’s get to it!

The Positives of Letting Your Cuckold Watch

It’s best to think of these as potential positive outcomes. There’s no guarantee all of this (or even any of it, to be honest) will come to pass, but if things go well it may be that all of these things become your reality.

• He Has a Hugely Arousing Sexual Experience – While it’s often difficult for a potential hotwife to understand, your husband’s cuckold desires are a manifestation of his sexuality. Watching you have sex with another man has the potential to feel like the best sex he’s ever had even if his cock isn’t anywhere near you while it’s happening. If it goes especially well, he may feel like he’s experiencing a kind of full body arousal that he didn’t even know was possible.
• It’s a Lot Easier to Relive It if He Watches – Your cuckold will almost certainly want to relive your experience with another man, whether he watches or not. He’ll want to talk to you about it as you fool around and he’ll probably want to enjoy a masturbation session or two (or two dozen) as he fantasizes about it. That becomes a great deal easier if he watched, as he just has to close his eyes and he’ll see it playing out. If you’re in total control of his orgasms, you can use the fact that he was given permission to watch as a way to enhance his pleasure when you allow him to climax (dirty talk, etc).
• He May Fully Understand His Sexual Inadequacy – Now this is far from a guarantee, but if you’re interested in sleeping with another man because your cuckold has a small penis or is a poor to average lover, letting him watch will make it perfectly clear that he does not meet your needs. This could just as easily go in the negative category depending on how his new understanding might impact your life or marriage, but there can be benefits to it. For instance, your cuckold may decide that he should go down on you quite a bit more often and that he should encourage you to enjoy having sex with your new lover whenever you please, even if he’s not able to watch.
• His Appreciation for You Will Deepen – If you let your cuckold watch, he will almost certainly understand that you are giving him a gift. It should be clear that it’s not his right to watch (you should work to make that clear) and that you’re letting him watch because you love him and you want him to experience his fantasy in person. As long as you’ve made that clear, chances are very good that your cuckold will develop a deep, loving appreciation for you because you’ve given him this great gift.
• He May Become More Submissive – This isn’t necessarily something you want, but if you want your husband to be more submissive, letting him watch can be a very effective way of reaching that goal. This is particularly true if you find an “alpha male” type that can truly fuck you (provided that’s what you’re into). If the sex between you and your new lover is vastly different from what your cuckold husband provides, he may fall into a submissive state as he realizes that another man truly provides you with something he cannot. Whether or not you find that useful is up to you.
• After Sex Play (or Cuckold Reclamation) is Far More Potent – Your cuckold almost certainly wants to play in some way after you’ve had sex with another man. This type of play varies by couple. Sometimes it’s sex. Sometimes it’s clean up. Sometimes it’s pussy worship. Sometimes it’s a simple handjob to make him cum. Whatever your variety of play, it will be far more potent if your cuckold has watched, both because it will happen much sooner (licking your pussy right after your lover has pulled out will be far more arousing for your cuckold, for instance) and because he’ll almost certainly be hugely turned on because he got to witness your pleasure.

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The Negatives of Letting Your Cuckold Watch

I believe the positives almost always outweigh any potential negatives, but there are a few outcomes that can be disastrous. These typically happen because actually watching is a great deal different from merely fantasizing about being cuckolded and can generate emotional responses that your cuckold isn’t ready for.

Again, these are only potential outcomes. They’re far from guaranteed, but it’s good to be aware of what might happen so you can be better prepared for it.

• His Anxiety and Jealousy Overcome His Desire – It’s almost guaranteed that your cuckold is going to experience anxiety and jealousy on some level. It’s programmed into his brain to experience those things as he watches his wife have sex with another man. That’s usually just fine. The problem is that it can quickly spin out of control. This usually happens when your cuckold’s expectations of what was going to happen don’t match up with reality. The simplest example is that he thought you’d be fucking and it ends up feeling like you’re making love to another man. Suddenly the jealousy overwhelms his arousal and he freaks out. That can be very problematic, especially if it results in some sort of physical altercation.
• Your Lover May Not Be Able to Perform – This is more common than you might think, even with guys that say they’ll have no problem whatsoever having sex while your husband watches. They say it and they mean it, and then they get in your bedroom and they see your husband sitting there and playing with his cock and they can no longer get stiff. This tends to happen with greater frequency when you’re trying to connect with your husband while having sex with your lover. If he’s not prepared for it, he can end up feeling like a prop in your kinky game and it can deflate his erection.
• It Can Ruin His Confidence – For many men, their confidence is tied directly to their ability to perform sexually. If your husband watches another man have sex with you and witnesses you having great orgasms (which should always be the goal if you’re going to have sex with someone else) he may find his confidence diminished. This can have genuine deleterious effects on the rest of his life (at work in particular). Generally, this outcome can be mitigated by skillful aftercare.
• He Can Ruin it for You – Yes, you want your cuckold to enjoy the fact that you’re having sex with someone else. You also want to have great sex with that other person. You want to experience the kind of orgasm you deserve. You want to enjoy the thrills of being with someone new. Your husband has the power to ruin that. Sometimes, when a cuckold watches he finds that it’s not going quite like he imagined it would. Sometimes, he decides that he needs to intervene by taking control in a way he shouldn’t (or doesn’t deserve to), or that he’s going to act out in some way that brings an early end to the evening because he believes needs aren’t being met.
• It Could Damage Your Relationship – This really only happens when it turns out that your cuckold didn’t really want his fantasy to come true. This tends to play out afterwards, and in small doses, like him being bitter about the fact that you had a great orgasm with someone else, or asking if you think your lover is better looking than him, etc. This largely only occurs if the relationship is already on the rocks and the act of cuckolding him is really just the catalyst for finally destroying it.

How to Ensure Letting Your Cuckold Watch Goes Well

There are ways to ensure that your cuckold has a great time watching you have sex with another man and that you get the most out of the experience as well. To me, it’s absolutely worth ensuring that it’s a great experience for both of you.

• Make Sure He Doesn’t Cum Until You’re Done – This one is an absolute must. Your cuckold can be permitted to masturbate while he watches, but he cannot cum until you and your lover are finished. If he cums beforehand, every bit of his desire will dry up and any anxiety, jealousy, and insecurity he’s feeling are free to come to the forefront. It’s right after his orgasm that things are bound to get messiest. For that reason, you must make it clear that he cannot cum until afterwards. If he cannot contain himself, you must put his cock in chastity and unlock him when you’re done with your lover (or tie him up/cuff him). As a backup, you can insist that he leaves the room if he makes a mistake and cums before you’ve finished.
• Introduce Your Cuckold and Your Lover Outside the Bedroom – Your cuckold should not be meeting your lover for the first time on the night he’s going to watch you have sex. Do it outside the house on another day, preferably a few weeks beforehand. The primary benefit of this is that it gives your cuckold a chance to adjust his expectations/fantasy. He can spend a few weeks picturing you with that particular person and it makes it less likely that he’ll be taken by surprise in any way when he’s watching you have sex.
• Don’t Let Him Watch the First Time You and Your Lover Have Sex – It’s possible your cuckold won’t be on board with this, but it can be really helpful in many ways. First, you and your lover get to find your sexual rhythm without your cuckold there (plus, you get to find out if the sex is going to be good). Second, you can then go home to your cuckold and have fun with him while also letting him know (hopefully through dirty talk) exactly what to expect when he finally gets to watch. Again this has the benefit of helping him adjust his fantasy before the big moment. The closer his fantasy is to reality, the less likely he is to be disappointed or upset when it actually happens.
• Stay Sober – While alcohol helps to lower inhibitions, it can also lead to messy consequences you don’t want to deal with. A good buzz has a way of heightening things, and in this case that might be the negative emotions your cuckold is experiencing. You want him to keep those in check, so don’t add any fuel that might make them worse.
• Consider a Hotel – Letting your cuckold watch in a neutral location can help to remove a lot of the emotion that often leads to messiness. If he’s watching you have sex in a hotel bed instead of your marital bed, he’s far less likely to be overwhelmed by the anxiety and jealousy that will absolutely be roiling inside him. Save having sex in your marital bed (or your living room, kitchen, etc) for later after you’re both more experienced with the cuckold and hotwife dynamic.
• Check in with Your Cuckold – While it’s fun to get completely lost in having great sex with your new lover, make sure that you check in with your cuckold while he’s watching. It’s most effective to do it via dirty talk. “Do you like watching him fuck me, honey?” or something similar is a simple way to let him know that you’re still paying attention to him and that you want to make sure he’s having a good time. Sometimes, that can be enough to pull him back from going to a bad, destructive place.

Letting Your Cuckold Watch Can and Should Be Great Fun

If your cuckold wants to watch (not all cuckolds do), you should be able to find a way to make it work for your marriage. You just need to be mindful of the potential pitfalls and to take your time with it.

It’s also worth keeping in mind that you can recover even if it goes poorly. As long as you’re willing to talk to each other about the experience you had, you can bounce back from even the most disastrous of outcomes.

If you both work together to ensure a good experience, you’ll find that letting your cuckold watch results in a stronger marriage and a more satisfying sex life, which is something I’m sure you can both get behind.

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So, you’re ready to graduate to being a bi cuckold. You’re ready to take the next step and offer your mouth to your wife’s bull. You’re ready to take the plunge and become a cocksucker for her.

You’re not alone. You’re one of millions of cuckolds that have taken this step. Hopefully I can make it easier for you by showing you how to be a good bi cuckold for your wife. Remember, this is as much about meeting her needs as it is about meeting yours.

Beginner Bi Cuckold Advice

Your Sexuality Doesn’t Matter – Your Submission Does

(If you’re just a bisexual guy that wants to suck cock, you can probably skip over this part, since that’s kind of a different thing)

If you’ve spent enough time reading cuckold forums (or Reddit, Fetlife, etc), you’ve almost certainly come across someone spouting off about how cuckolds are just closeted gay guys because they all seem to want to suck cock. Hopefully, you ignored those idiots, because that’s not what this is about.

Being a good bi cuckold is not about your sexuality. I don’t care if you’re straight or bisexual. It’s not important. Being a good bi cuckold is about submission. It’s about submitting to your wife’s desire to see your lips around her bull’s cock (or submitting to her bull’s desire for that same thing).

It’s about you falling to your knees in front of him and embracing your place in the sexual hierarchy of your marriage by doing so. It’s saying that your place is to suck the cock that’s going to fuck your wife, not to fuck her.

It’s about hearing your wife say, “Suck his cock, cuckold,” and doing so without hesitation. It’s about finding pleasure in submission. It’s about meeting her need to see you suck cock. It’s about meeting her bull’s need to see your submissive lips around his dick.

Remember, Your Mouth is a Vessel for Pleasure

This is good advice for any cuckolding situation. If you want to be a good cuckold, always remember that you’re there to give pleasure if called upon. You should find great sexual satisfaction in giving that pleasure, whether that’s going down on your wife or her bull.

In this case, if you’re going to be a good bi cuckold, you need to focus on giving pleasure. That’s what it’s all about. Your mouth is meant to make her bull feel good while getting him hard. Sucking his cock is meant to provide your wife with a thrill, too.

To that end, make sure you do a good job (click here to skip to the bottom for the blowjob rules for cuckold cocksuckers).

Related Patreon story: Training Her Cuckold to Suck Dick

Nervous About Sucking Cock? Don’t Worry. Just Embrace Your Place.

Every cuckold gets nervous the first time he’s going to get on his knees and take another man’s dick in his mouth. It’s perfectly natural. We’ve already talked about how you don’t need to worry about your sexuality.

This is a continuation of that. If you’re feeling nervous, try and remember that you getting on your knees in front of your wife’s bull is really just you embracing your place. It’s you telling your wife and her bull that you know he’s superior in the bedroom, that he offers your wife far greater pleasure than you could ever hope to offer.

If you find your heart pounding as you stare at his naked cock inches from your face, try and remember that. Silently say to yourself: “This is my place. I’m a cuckold cocksucker. This is my place. My place is on my knees in front of my wife’s bull. My place is to suck the cock of the man that fucks my wife the way she deserves to be fucked.”

Soon enough you’ll find your nerves have disappeared and you’ll have a cock in your mouth. You’ll feel elated. You’ll feel that beautiful high that comes from submission. If you’re lucky your wife will play her part exceptionally well and she’ll be encouraging you to suck her bull’s dick.

If That Doesn’t Work, Just Remember Your Purpose

Ultimately, you’re on your knees in front of your wife for one reason: To make her bull’s cock nice and hard so he can slide into her pussy and satisfy her. You’re being a fluffer. That’s it. They might even ignore you as you’re sucking cock. They might be busy kissing and fooling around as you’re on your knees bobbing up and down on his dick.

If you’re having trouble getting over your nerves, just concentrate on your purpose. Tighten your focus. Forget about everything else except for your mission: To make his big dick nice and hard for your wife.

Close your eyes and move up and down on his shaft. Use your tongue. Play with his balls. Do everything you can to make him feel good. If you need to shift that focus, then remember that ultimately you’re helping your wife. You’re sucking his cock to get him hard for her pussy. When he fucks her, your wife will be happy. Connect those dots and you’re sucking cock to ensure that your wife is happy.

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Advanced Bi Cuckold Advice

A Good Bi Cuckold Services Balls and Asshole Too

Most bisexual cuckold content focuses on the husband sucking the bull’s cock. That’s just part of the fun, though. If you want to truly be a good bi cuck you need to expand what you’re offering to the man that fucks your wife.

If you really want to impress him, lick and suck on his balls. Stroke his cock with your skilled hand while you move down and take his testicles into your mouth. It feels good (as you probably know) and it’s a wonderful way to show your submission to him. You’re sucking on the source of his semen. Think of it as helping to prepare a nice big load for him to launch into your wife.

If he’s a clean gentleman and he’s into it, you can rim his asshole too. He needs to be in the right position, but a dominant man loves it when he gets his ass licked. He loves the submission it shows. Your wife’s bull is almost certainly going to love that you’re being such a nasty, naughty sub cuckold.

As mentioned above, your job is to arouse your wife’s bull. Paying attention to his balls and asshole can be a great way of doing that. The physical stimulation will feel good and he might find even more arousal in watching you offer your mouth in such a slutty way.

Related Patreon story: Her Ass Licking Cuckold – Part 3

Service Him Throughout the Encounter

If you’ve made it this far then you want to go above and beyond as a bi cuckold. To do that, you can’t be content with sucking his cock a little at the start of the encounter. You need to be available to service him throughout.

Don’t go sit in a corner (unless you’ve been ordered to). Wait close by so that your wife can call you to the bed to suck his dick after he slips out of her pussy. Take him in your mouth. Pleasure him. Suck her juices off of him and then put his cock back inside her.

Climb between his legs when she rides him reverse cowgirl and suck his balls. Enhance his pleasure with your mouth. Run your tongue over his nuts. Bathe them with your spit while your wife milks him with her pussy.

Get behind him and lick his asshole while he’s fucking her from behind. Shove your tongue up in there. Offer him the extra pleasure and thrill him by being the most submissive cuckold husband he’s ever had the pleasure of getting rimmed by.

If your wife simply can’t take any more cock and he hasn’t cum yet, offer to finish him with your mouth. You’re there to give pleasure, after all. Giving him an orgasm is the best way to give pleasure. This isn’t likely to happen, but you should be ready for it if you want to be a good bi cuckold.

Be Proactive – Ask if You Can Suck His Cock

There’s no reason you have to wait around to be told to suck his cock (unless that’s the explicit rule in your house). Be a good bi cuckold and ask if you can give him head. Show him how eager you are to please him. Show your wife how eager you are to submit to her bull’s superior cock.

If she’ll allow it, perhaps you can get her bull started while your wife is finishing getting ready for him. You could get on your knees and suck his cock while he enjoys the drink you prepared. Your wife could join him on the couch and share sensual kisses with her bull while your mouth is full of his dick. You could then move between her legs to get her nice and wet so the cock you just fluffed can enter her.

Always Clean Her Bull’s Cock with Your Mouth

If you want to be a great bi cuckold make sure you use your mouth to clean her bull’s cock after he’s fucked your wife. If he’s cumming inside her, take care of him first. It won’t take long.

You’ll have to make sure you don’t stimulate the head of his cock too much, but you do need to suck all of his cum and her juices off of him before you can turn to your wife’s pussy and clean her. Make sure you examine his testicles before you move on to your wife. They may be messy too. You might have to lick some of his cum out of his pubic hair, as well. It’s always good to be a thorough bi cuckold.

If he’s still cumming in a condom, it’s incumbent upon you, the cuckold, to remove the condom and dispose of it. When you do, use your mouth to clean any residue and cum that might be left on his cock. It’s going to taste like latex, but that’s not important. What’s important is that you do what’s expected of a good bi cuckold and make sure his cock is clean after he’s finished giving your wife the satisfaction she deserves.

If Needed, a Good Bi Cuckold Will Suck Her Bull Off

It doesn’t happen all that often, but there may be a situation where your wife is unable to provide her bull with the sexual satisfaction he desires. Perhaps she’s on a work trip or a vacation without you. Perhaps she’s not feeling well. It happens.

When it does, she may offer your mouth. If that happens, it’s the duty of a good bi cuckold to sexually service her bull and make him cum. It’s not a cuckolding situation and you may not find it nearly as sexy, but you will do it.

It will likely happen in the same location that he and your wife most commonly have sex. Let’s assume that’s your house. He will come over. You will get on your knees. You will free his cock from the confines of his pants. You will get on your knees and you will suck his cock until he cums in your mouth.

Remember, it’s all done with the confines of your cuckold marriage. You’re sucking him off because your wife is unavailable and she wants you to do what she cannot. You’re taking his cock and cum in your mouth because you want to be the best bi cuckold possible.

Don’t be afraid. Just get on your knees and do your job. Remember, it’s your place. It has nothing to do with your sexuality. You’re doing it because you’re a cuckold and you can’t help but submit to your wife’s desires.

Always Thank Your Wife for the Pleasure of Sucking Her Bull’s Cock

Ultimately, it is a pleasure to be able to get on your knees and offer your mouth to a superior cock. It’s a thrill for a good cuckold, and we both know that you want to be a good cuckold.

If your wife lets you take her bull’s cock in your mouth, be sure to thank her. “Thank you for letting me suck his cock,” is a nice way to express how happy it made you to be of service.

Feel free to thank him, as well, especially if your particular situation involves open submission to her bull. “Thank you for letting me suck your cock, sir,” has a nice ring to it. It will certainly put a smile on his face and it will help you embrace your place as his submissive.

Submit to Anal Sex with Her Bull

This is the rarest of occurrences for a bi cuckold, but your wife and her bull may desire to see you take his cock. They may want you to fully and completely submit by offering your ass for penetration.

You will never feel more like a submissive bisexual cuckold than when your wife’s bull presses his cock against your asshole and pushes inside you. Your wife’s absolute delight at seeing you get fucked will deepen your submission. The knowledge that your ass is being used for a man’s pleasure will do so as well.

If you’ve come this far, why not take the final step? You’ve sucked his cock. You’ve worshiped his balls. You’ve licked his asshole. Let him take the rest. Let him fully put you in your place by fucking you with the big cock that satisfies your wife.

Remember, all of this is for your wife’s pleasure. You’re submitting to her desires by forgetting about your sexuality and doing as she pleases (or as her bull pleases). If that means taking it up the ass, then so be it.

Related Patreon story: The Cuckold Gets Fucked

Bonus Bi Cuckold Pleasure – Pleasure Her Bull with Your Wife

It’s quite possible – maybe eve likely – that your wife enjoys going down on her bull. She enjoys giving him pleasure just like he gives her pleasure. She enjoys feeling his cock grow in her mouth. She enjoys hearing his moans thanks to her exceptional oral skills.

If that’s the case, she might not want to hand the duties of blowing her bull over to you. She might want you to get down on your knees with her though. If he’s a dominant bisexual bull, he might demand it. It might thrill him to see husband and wife on their knees sucking his cock, licking his balls, and even worshiping his ass.

If you get a chance to worship her bull with your wife, do so eagerly. Lick his cock together. Share kisses over the thick, throbbing head. Suck his balls while she sucks his dick. Move around back and give him a rimjob while she’s giving him a blowjob. If he’s a good bull that has set her free sexually, he’s deserving of such treatment.

Blowjob Rules for Cuckold Cocksuckers

The basics of a blowjob are pretty simple. The cock moves in and out of your mouth, and in doing so it feels pleasure. It gets hard. Do it long enough and it will cum in your mouth. There are ways to make it better, though, and as a cuckold cocksucker you should strive to give the best blowjob possible. Follow these rules and your wife will be especially proud of her bi cuck husband and his ability to pleasure her bull:

Work the Head

If you’re just getting started, chances are good you’re not going to be able to swallow his big dick. You may never accomplish that. It’s okay. The nerves that reside under the cock head are where the pleasure comes from. Your job is to stimulate those.

Unless he wants you to swallow his cock, don’t worry too much about it. Just worry about giving him pleasure. Worry about getting him hard. Worry about working that head with your eager mouth.

Eye Contact Matters

A man likes it when you look up at him while you’re giving a blowjob. That goes double for a dominant man. As a cuckold cocksucker, you’re almost certainly serving a dominant man.

That means you need to look at him while you’re worshiping his cock. Show him how much you love having his dick in your mouth. Show him how much you appreciate the chance to develop your oral skills and become a better cuckold for your wife.

Show him that you appreciate that he fucks your wife. Fill your eyes with desperate need and lust. Let him see it all as you work the head of the big cock that will soon plunge into your wife’s wet, needy pussy.

Pay Attention to His Balls

Some men aren’t into having their balls pleasured as you give head, but most are. So, if you want to be a good cocksucker you need to pay attention to his testicles. While you’ve got his cock in your mouth, work his balls with your fingers. Don’t get too rough. Just fondle and caress them.

Take a break from sucking his cock every now and then to take his balls in your mouth. Run your tongue over them. Make sure you look up at him. He’ll find it extra arousing that you’ve got his balls in your mouth and you’re staring up at him with eyes full of desire.

Use Your Tongue

As a cuckold cocksucker, your tongue is an instrument of pleasure. It’s not enough to let his cock slide over it as he fills your mouth. It needs to be active. Move it around. Enhance his pleasure as you give a blowjob.

This is especially true if you’re going to suck his balls. Get that tongue working over them. Lick up the sweat. Taste him.

If he’s in a position where you can lick his taint and asshole while taking a break from blowing him, that’s when you really need to use your tongue skillfully. He deserves that pleasure and as a cuckold you need to be the one providing it.

No Teeth

This should go without saying, but make sure you’re not using your teeth when you give a blowjob. If you need to practice with a toy (or a banana, which will show the teeth marks), make sure you do so until you can take a cock in your mouth without moving your teeth up and down the shaft.

It’s Okay to Gag

As you might know, sometimes a man likes to see a cocksucker gag on his dick. He likes that you’re willing to do something that’s unpleasant in the name of giving him pleasure.

For that reason, go ahead and gag on his cock from time to time. Try and swallow it. Let it trigger your gag reflex. Look at the satisfaction on his face. It won’t be pleasant to choke on his cock, but it will make him happy. So be a good bi cuckold and do it.

Be the Best Bi Cuckold You Can Be

Ultimately, the key to being a good bi cuckold comes down to your willingness to offer yourself to your wife and her bull without any concern for your desires.

It doesn’t matter if you’re bisexual or not. You are whatever she says you are. In the bedroom, you’re a submissive that offers his mouth, hands, and ass for the pleasure of her bull. It’s a safe space to explore how deep you can sink into being a good sub for her.

In reality, you’ll start slowly. You won’t get fucked the first time. You might just grab his cock and place it inside her. Then she might have you kiss his cock. Then she might have you suck him or play with his balls while she’s blowing him.

Don’t be afraid. Embrace what turns you on. Embrace being a bi cuckold if it thrills you. Embrace doing as your wife desires because it thrills her to see you submit. That’s what makes a good bisexual cuckold husband.

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You’re not like most men. Most men want to see their wives on their knees in front of them. You want to be on your knees in front of your wife.

Most men want to fuck their wives and spill their seed inside them. You want to watch another man fuck your wife and fill him with her cum.

You’re a submissive cuckold. You find deep, intense, indescribable pleasure in submitting to your wife.

The idea of being on your knees and looking up at your beautiful wife as she smiles down at you and runs her fingers through your hair is enough to make your cock stir to life. The following sensual fantasy drives you wild with desire:

“What do you crave?” your wife asks.

“Your pussy, my love,” you answer.

She smiles. Her fingers move from your hair and down your right cheek. Your skin tingles pleasantly at her touch. She rests two fingers against your lips. You open your mouth.

Your wife smiles as she pushes her fingers into your mouth. You close your lips around them. You suck like you’ve been trained to do.

“Good boy,” your wife says as she removes her fingers from your mouth. She lifts her skirt and pushes a hand into her panties. Her slippery fingers push into her pussy as you watch.

“What do you crave?” she asks again.

“Your pussy, my love,” you say once more, though this time your voice quivers just a little. You’ve sunk just a little deeper into submission. Your arousal has strengthened.

“You don’t deserve my pussy,” your wife says as she pulls her fingers from her panties and presses them against your lips once more.

You open. She pushes them into your mouth. You suck them clean. You savor the taste of her pussy. She’s giving you a gift. The mere taste of her juices is enough to make your dick throb.

She pulls her fingers from your mouth and walks away. You don’t deserve her pussy. Not right now. You’ll have to earn the privilege of pleasuring her with your mouth.

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That felt good, didn’t it? It turned you on, didn’t it? That’s okay. That’s a good thing, in fact.

It’s exceptionally rare to find a submissive cuckold that takes such pleasure in service. When paired with the right woman, you will live a life of blissful happiness. You will live in service to her needs and in doing so you will find yourself elevated.

You yearn to worship her. You want to taste her pussy, but more than that, you want to make her cum. You want to lick her clit until her thighs shudder and she experiences a beautiful climax. You want her to pull you close and thank you for licking her pussy without pulling on your cock or spilling your seed. You want to put her needs above yours. You want her to decide when you get to orgasm.

You want to be in this situation:

“Do you think you’ve earned an orgasm?” your wife asks as her fingers delicately dance over your testicles.

Your cock is stiff. Precum is steadily flowing from the tip. It’s been a week since she let you cum. You feel desperate.

“I do, my love,” you say.

Her soft fingers wrap around your cock and move up the shaft. They move over the head and collect your precum. She strokes you slowly. It feels heavenly.

“Thank you, my love,” you say.

“For what?” your wife asks.

“For giving me pleasure,” you answer. Her touch is electric. You crave it even in the smallest of doses.

She moves closer. Her lips brush against your neck. You can feel the warmth of her breath before she says, “I agree that you’ve earned an orgasm.”

You feel a momentary sense of elation.

“But I don’t want you to cum. I want to tease you. I want to drive you crazy. I want to make you beg me. Then I’m going to deny you the pleasure you crave even though you’ve earned it.”

You want to cum, but you know it arouses her to deny you. You know it makes her wet when you beg for release. You know that when she denies you, she’s going to push you between her legs and let you lick her to a powerful orgasm.

“Please, let me cum,” you say. Your mind is foggy with lust. You want to cum so badly.

She bites your ear lobe hard enough that it hurts and then says, “No. You will not cum.”

She strokes you faster. It feels impossibly good. You can feel your orgasm building. You want to cum, but you know she’s not going to let you. It feels torturous.

For you, true satisfaction comes from being a submissive cuckold. It comes from making your wife happy. You find far greater joy in bringing a smile to her face than almost anything else in the world. You are selfless, but in your selflessness you find the satisfaction you crave. You are a submissive.

You want to worship her body. Your desires are not limited to licking her pussy to make her cum. You crave the chance to give her full body massages. You love to rub her feet. For you, every chance to touch her, to serve her, to make her feel good is a reward.

When she welcomes you to her breasts you feel a sense of joy. Sucking her nipples as she moans is joyful, especially since you know it builds wetness between her legs.

You love when she grants you the privilege of worshiping her ass. You love spreading her soft, sexy ass cheeks and licking her asshole. You love the way she moans and how she reaches back and pushes you deeper.

You want this:

Your wife steps out of the shower and you follow her. She waits as you grab her towel and dry her body. You dry yourself second.

“You did a wonderful job,” she says.

You smile. You love that she lets you tend to her in the shower. You love running your hands through her soapy hair and massaging her scalp. You love shaving her pubic hair. You love soaping up her body.

“Thank you, my love, for letting me wash your body,” you say.

She smiles and moves to the counter. She picks up her hairbrush and turns around to say, “I think you’ve earned a little treat.”

She looks towards the floor behind her. You know what that means.

You fall to your knees and crawl to your wife. You kiss her ass. Her cheeks are soft and warm from the shower. You move from one side to the next, kissing her and relishing the joy of being so close.

“You may worship,” she says eventually.

You reach up and spread her ass cheeks. For a moment you admire her beautiful asshole. Your cock is hard. It’s rare that she grants you this privilege. She must be quite pleased with your dedication as of late.

You press your face between her soft ass cheeks and extend your tongue. You lick her asshole. You run your tongue over it. You worship your wife’s perfect ass.

She goes about her beauty routine at the kitchen counter as you rest on your knees behind her. You eat her ass and she does her hair and makeup.

“Push your tongue inside me,” she says.

She wants you to taste her asshole. She wants you inside her. She knows you love it. She knows it’s a treat when she gives you permission to fuck her ass with your tongue. You do so joyfully.

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You are a cuckold. You take pleasure in knowing that your wife enjoys great sex with other men. You take pleasure in doing whatever you can to make that sex better.

You are a submissive cuckold. You will make any sacrifice necessary to ensure that your wife has the sex life that she deserves, even if that means that your cock is forbidden from entering her body. You will find pleasure in being denied entry to her mouth or pussy (and the idea of you enjoying her ass has always been off the table).

Long before your wife fucked another man, you knew it was your destiny to be her submissive cuckold. While your tongue was always talented, you knew you couldn’t provide her with the kind of sex she deserves. You knew it would take another man to do that.

Now your wife has a bull. She has a man that serves her sexual needs in ways you’ve never been able to. She has a man that can fuck her like she craves. She has a man that can make her cum with his big cock, that can show her the kind of sexual bliss every woman deserves.

You relish everything that comes with being her submissive cuckold. You love preparing her for her dates. You love shaving her pubic hair as her bull likes it. You love dressing her in lingerie that she will use to arouse another man. You love shopping for that lingerie, too.

You love this:

“I want something that no man can resist,” your wife tells the girl at the lingerie store. “I want him to see it and be unable to think about anything other than fucking me. You know what I mean?”

The sales girl smiles and looks at you. You can tell she’s not sure why someone as beautiful as your wife would need to work so hard to get a man like you to fuck her.

Your wife notices her glance. “Oh no. It’s not for him. He’s my husband. This lingerie is for my boyfriend.” She gestures to you. “He’s just here to help.”

“How lovely for you,” the sales girl says. She actually seems a little jealous. Perhaps she’s married to a man like you and would love to find a boyfriend that could fuck her to the kind of orgasms your wife’s bull provides her.

“It is,” your wife says as she follows the sales girl to a section of the store filled with sexy-looking lingerie sets that are clearly designed for seduction.

“He really doesn’t mind that you have a boyfriend?” the sales girl asks. She can’t contain her curiosity.

“He finds it thrilling,” your wife answers as she runs her fingers over a black lace chemise. “Nothing turns him on more than meeting my needs and making me happy. More than anything, he yearns to submit to my desires. Isn’t that right?”

“Yes, my love,” you answer. You don’t mind that the sales girl knows you’re a cuckold. “Your happiness is all that matters to me.”

“Does he watch?” the sales girl asks.

Your wife’s smile is devilish. “He does more than watch,” she says. “He helps in any way necessary. He’s a very good boy.”

Yes you are.

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As her submissive cuckold, you’re willing to do anything to make her happy. You understand that your orgasms are not important. You understand that her satisfaction is the only thing that matters. You understand that sometimes that means doing things you wouldn’t normally do.

If you are called upon to worship her pussy before her bull slides his cock into her, you do it without question. You do it selflessly, for you know that your cock won’t be entering her. Your cock likely won’t receive any attention. Instead, you will lick her pussy to get her ready and then you will watch him fuck her.

As her submissive cuckold, you’ve accepted that your sexuality is unimportant. You will wrap your lips around her bull’s cock and fluff him if that’s what she wants you to do. You’ll suck cock because it’s what your wife craves. You’ll be her bisexual cuckold cocksucker because that’s what a good submissive does.

You know you crave this:

Your wife and her bull are kissing on the couch. His hand is in her blouse, playing with her tits. She moans as he expertly teases her nipples.

She unzips his pants and pulls out his cock, which is already half hard and enormous looking. It’s so much thicker than your dick.

You stare between his legs as your wife strokes him. His cock grows. She pulls her lips away from his for a moment and turns to you.

“Suck his cock, cuckold,” she demands.

You crawl towards them. He spreads his legs as you approach and you move between them. You rest your hands on his thighs. Your wife’s fingers are wrapped around the base of his thick dick as she waits for you to take him into your mouth.

You part your lips and let your tongue fall from your mouth. You lick under the head of his cock. You lick that sensitive spot that delivers so much pleasure. You want to make him feel good. It’s the only thing you care about. It’s the only thing that matters in that moment.

“Good boy,” your wife says before she goes back to kissing her bull.

You wrap your lips around the head of his cock and take him into your mouth. You bob up and down like a good cocksucker. You feel him getting harder. You feel proud. You’re making your wife’s bull feel good. You’re getting him hard for her pussy. You’re making her evening more pleasurable.

You gag on his cock as you try and take it down your throat. You do it because you know it turns him on. He likes that you submit to his dick. He likes that you blow him because you know he’s superior to you in bed. He likes that you’re not a threat to him when he’s in your house.

There’s a dick in your mouth and you have an erection. You’re a true cuckold cocksucker.

Living in service to your wife thrills you. Sometimes that means doing things you wouldn’t normally consider. Sometimes that means finding pleasure in degradation. That means wordlessly getting on your knees when she says, “Suck his cock.” That means giving her control over your sexuality. That means doing anything she desires because it pleases her.

The life of a submissive cuckold can be filled with those joys if you’re willing to commit. If you’re genuinely unselfish and concerned with her needs above yours, you’ll find true happiness.

By submitting, you’re making your dominant wife happy. You’re making her life better. You’re increasing her daily joy. You’re showing her that you recognize your place, and that you respect her dominance. You’re showing her that the two of you fit together perfectly, and that the work she puts into dominating you is always worth it.

Eventually, your dominant wife will require her submissive cuckold to consume her bull’s cum. You will do so without hesitation because doing as she desires is what makes you happy, even if you find it unpleasant.

You will consume his cum because you recognize his superiority in the bedroom. You know that he fucks your wife better than you ever have. You know that he makes her cum harder than you can. You know that she finds pure, unadulterated pleasure in having his big cock inside her.

For those reasons, and because you’re a good submissive cuckold, you will eat his cum when commanded to do so. You want to. You need to. You crave it. You want to eat it off her breasts. You want to lick it off her ass. Most of all, you want to lick it out of her pussy.

You want this:

“Come here,” your wife says as she points between her legs.

She’s in your bed. Her legs are spread. Her body looks beautiful. She’s just been fucked by her bull.

You move between her legs. You look up at her pretty face. You see her smile. You see that look of joy that only comes after she’s had multiple orgasms with her bull’s big cock in her pussy.

She’s happy, and part of that is because she has another man’s cum inside her. A man that she lusts after. A man whose cock is far superior to yours. A man who fucks her with the kind of vigor and power that she needs.

“What do you crave?” she asks.

“Your pussy, my love,” you answer. “And his cum.”

She trained you to eat his cum long ago. Training is no longer necessary. Now you crave his seed. You crave the submissive pleasure of licking it out of her. You crave the taste of it on your tongue. You crave the feeling of having her bull’s cum in your stomach.

“You may clean me,” she says.

Even this is a reward. When you watch them fuck, you think about this moment. You think about the overwhelming joy of being able to clean his creampie. You think of how your body buzzes with arousal while you’re doing it. Now she’s given you permission. She’s granted you the privilege of licking another man’s cum from her pussy.

As you’ve done so many times before, you press your lips against your wife’s pussy and use your tongue to lick up her bull’s cum. You carefully avoid her clit – she’s too sensitive after being fucked for so long – and stick to the task of licking his load from her.

You swallow his cum. You act like a good submissive cuckold and you eat every drop of her bull’s load because it’s your duty. She’s trained you well. Your cock throbs as you taste his salty semen. You like that it makes her so happy. You like being her cum eating cuckold.

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Each act of submission makes you a better husband. It makes you fall deeper in love with your wife. It makes you want to serve her more. It makes you willing to do anything to ensure her happiness.

Most people would be surprised at the things you’re willing to do for your wife, but she’s not. She knows you’re her loving, sweet, submissive husband. She knows that you value making her happy above everything else.

She knows that you crave her domination. You crave that look of lust that crosses her face when she takes control. You love the feel of her fingers in your hair as she guides you to her pussy. You love the way she makes you suck her bull’s cock. You love that she expects you to behave selflessly and to put her desires above your own.

For a submissive cuckold like you, her domination is a reward in and of itself. A harsh word that’s meant to humiliate makes your cock hard. When she sits on your face and smothers you with her pussy, it makes you feel loved.

When she puts on her strapon cock and fucks your submissive ass, you feel an overpowering sense of love for her. She knows that the role reversal and power exchange that happens when she fills your ass with her cock is a beautiful form of domination. She knows that you crave it, that you want to submit your asshole to her, that you want to be fucked in a way most husbands do not.

You crave this:

You’re on your knees in the bedroom. Your beautiful wife is in front of you. You watch as she pulls on her harness and slides her favorite dildo into it.

She takes a step closer. Her strapon cock bounces. She reaches out and her fingers entwine in your hair. Her grip is strong and commanding.

“Suck my cock,” she demands.

Her words are like music to your ears. You love when your wife demands service. You love when she commands you to suck her cock.

You lean forward and wrap your lips around her cock. She pulls you forward. She shoves her cock into your throat. You barely gag. She’s trained you well.

“Good boy,” she says. You can hear the dominant lust in her voice. You know this turns her on. You know that fucking your face makes her wet.

Now she has two hands in your hair. She’s fucking your mouth like it’s a pussy. She’s using you for her pleasure. It thrills you.

When she pulls her cock out of your throat it’s slick with spit.

“On your hands and knees,” she demands while pointing to the bed.

You assume the position. Your ass hangs over the edge of the bed. Your wife moves behind you. She slides her strapon cock into your ass. She’s fucking you.

“Take it, slut,” she says. You hear that same dominant aggressiveness in her voice. You know she’s getting wetter.

She fucks you hard and fast. With each thrust you sink deeper into submission. When she calls you a slut, your cock throbs. You crave the verbal humiliation. You crave her cock.

“I own your ass, slut,” she growls. “I own you.”

She does, and she will fuck you for as long as she likes. Her cock never goes soft. It never gets tired. It’s rock hard and ready to fuck all day long. If she wants to, she’s going to savage your ass for hours.

She’s trained you to be a good slut for her, though, and the more she fucks you the more pleasure you take in it. The deeper she pushes you into submission, the happier you are.

You are a submissive cuckold, and as such you’re a gift to the woman you dedicate yourself to. You give her everything and in return you experience boundless pleasure because her needs are more important than your own. Making her happy makes you feel joyful in a way nothing else can.

You crave her domination and you work hard to be deserving of it. You crave the chance to taste her pussy and to worship her body. You love preparing her for another man to fuck. You love buying her pretty things for him to fuck her in. You love sucking her bull’s cock and getting it hard. You love cleaning cum out of her pussy. You love taking her strapon cock in your ass.

Every act of domination from her is a gift, and there are so many you can receive over the lifespan of a beautiful cuckold marriage. Every day brings a new opportunity to experience the most intense pleasure of your life. Every moment is a chance to deepen your submission and your commitment to your wife.

You are a submissive cuckold. Embrace that. Live that life. Show your wife that you’re worthy of her domination. Put her needs before yours. Serve her desires above all else. Take pleasure in knowing that you’re making her happy, because that’s all that matters.

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